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GingerPussInBoots · 27/05/2025 23:55

OK, OK its not all men

But this comment on another thread ade me laugh so much and I seriously related, anything else you'd like to add?

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TheaBrandt1 · 28/05/2025 05:32

The inability to see how utterly privileged they are then the nerve that some of them actually feel hard done by!

DandelionPockets · 28/05/2025 05:29

The phrase, 'Stop nagging me'.

Delphinium20 · 28/05/2025 05:27

Raging, hollering, booming voices, instant anger at minor suggestions or verbal criticisms and then when a woman dares to meet a tenth of their reaction, she's "out of her mind." The DARVO and gaslighting and the inability to see their own behavior's impact on others.

ASimpleLampoon · 28/05/2025 04:41

Partnered men exploiting the labour of their SO
Being shit but being rewarded for their half arsed, bare minimum contribution to anything from domestic labour, parenting, their work.

They are vile I hate them.

ASweetSummerChild · 28/05/2025 03:17

“Cheer up love, it might never happen”.
Fuck off.

Incelsmras · 28/05/2025 03:16

I'm sick to death of MRAs and their constant whining about 'feminists'. Spreading absolute bullshit about women online and pretending that they're not common or garden misogynists but believers in 'real' equality.

That 'real' equality involves their superciliousness remaining unchallenged.

I'm also sick to death of hearing about lazy twats who see their partner's as their personal skivvies and their children as an inconvenience. That includes the coercive arseholes pressuring their partner's into unwanted sex.

MidnightMeltdown · 28/05/2025 02:54

The way that they call women ‘crazy’ as a way to instantly discredit anything she says.

It’s no different from the way that men conveniently invented ‘Hysteria’ around the time that women started demanding equality.

XWKD · 28/05/2025 02:08

GingerPussInBoots · 27/05/2025 23:57

They way they think the world revolves around them, who they seriously over estimate their abilities, their entitlement to making judgements about women's bodies.
Man spreading yuk!

Apart from the manspreading, these could all describe women in SIL, MIL threads.

"My SIL used MY baby name!"
"My MIL says I'm fat!"
"My MIL talks down to me!"
"My SIL is jealous of DS!"

Byebyechicken · 28/05/2025 01:49

'Where's your sense of humour?'
'It's not my fault.'
'You're making a mountain out of a molehill.'

Not to mention their seemingly insatiable sexual appetite!
When I've been on my feet all day, making mental lists of everything that needs doing, I'm beyond exhausted, the last thing I want to do is play with your dick! Why can't you see this before you have to ask yet again?
And why when I say no do you immediately jump to the conclusion that I don't find you attractive anymore, rather than notice that I'm exhausted and overwhelmed with all of the responsibilities you have quietly left to me.
Men who treat women like the supporting act in their quest for happiness, conveniently ignoring that she would like to please herself sometimes, as he so often does.

GingerPussInBoots · 27/05/2025 23:57

They way they think the world revolves around them, who they seriously over estimate their abilities, their entitlement to making judgements about women's bodies.
Man spreading yuk!

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