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Do I visit a gp, osteopath, physio or chiropractor??

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Inanu · 27/05/2025 22:22

I have had pain in my upper back (I think trapezius muscle?!) and neck for about 6 weeks now, sometimes radiating down my arm so my wrist is also sore. It’s not terrible by any means and I’m incredibly busy at the moment juggling work and kids which is why I’ve been ignoring it but I think it’s getting to the point that I should see someone! Anyone with some expertise able to tell me who I should see? Getting a GP appointment is near impossible and I would be happy to pay to go private but only if I know they’re going to fix it but don’t know who to see!

OP posts:
thekingfisher · 29/05/2025 18:04

Have a look at Tom Morrison on You Tube - he has a fantastic range of exercises that will be right up your street that start to help to release.

FrodoBiggins · 29/05/2025 18:01

Redpeach · 27/05/2025 22:46

I've visted osteopaths, physiotherapists and chiropractors and there's not much difference

There's a bit of a difference in that only one of them claims to have been invented by ghosts, and allows unregulated randomers to do manipulations which might paralyse you...

EleanorReally · 29/05/2025 18:00

have you tried the Alexander Technique

Redpeach · 29/05/2025 17:58

ThinWomansBrain · 29/05/2025 17:45

@Cynic17 - ever considered you've just not come across a good one?

I have an amazing chiropractor that I have been seeing for 30+ years - I'm not his best customer as I maybe go once every two - three years, he sorts things generally in one visit, and then I'm fine again.
He combines treatments with acupuncture, so you leave the treatment floating.

Once I went for a pain in my shoulder or something, as I was getting ready to go we were discussing walking, and I mentioned I had a problem with one of my feet that I'd been seeing my GP, then a podiatrist & a physio about for months. He'd finished my appointment but said he'd take a quick look - sorted in minutes after months of NHS treatment.

Sounds amazing

Redpeach · 29/05/2025 17:58

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 29/05/2025 12:44

Qualified to deliver a "treatment" that doesn't work but can cause injury. You can get a PhD in dragon lore, it doesn't mean dragons exist.

Chiropractors have helped me

Bobbingtons · 29/05/2025 17:53

Avoid chiropractor and osteopath, I saw both to help with a similar problem. I knew from the symptoms I most likely had prolapsed discs in my neck but the pain was so excruciating I went to see both who lost waiting for a consultant appointment. Both argued it was just a trapped nerve or a muscular issue. I'm lucky they didn't injure me further.
Ideally GP and a referral just in case it's something more serious. Mine turned out to b be pressure on the nerves coming out of my neck. I'm lucky that long teen damage is minimal (muscle weakness and numbness in one arm. )

porridgecake · 29/05/2025 17:50

Private physio. Check their qualifications look for reviews. A good physio will refer you on if they think your problem is not musculoskeletal.

ThinWomansBrain · 29/05/2025 17:45

@Cynic17 - ever considered you've just not come across a good one?

I have an amazing chiropractor that I have been seeing for 30+ years - I'm not his best customer as I maybe go once every two - three years, he sorts things generally in one visit, and then I'm fine again.
He combines treatments with acupuncture, so you leave the treatment floating.

Once I went for a pain in my shoulder or something, as I was getting ready to go we were discussing walking, and I mentioned I had a problem with one of my feet that I'd been seeing my GP, then a podiatrist & a physio about for months. He'd finished my appointment but said he'd take a quick look - sorted in minutes after months of NHS treatment.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 29/05/2025 17:42

Hopingtobeaparent · 29/05/2025 16:04

Well, that’s your opinion and your entitled to it.

It's an opinion backed up by robust evidence, i.e. fact.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 29/05/2025 17:34

Bunny65 · 29/05/2025 13:02

it’s extremely skilled and they don’t just do the same thing all the time. Hence how things can go disastrously wrong if a person isn’t properly trained. As another poster said, there are different styles. But there are many other therapies. Some people swear by the Alexander Technique. The medical profession doesn’t have much to offer for back problems.

It's not extremely skilled. It doesn't work.

greatyak · 29/05/2025 17:27

Bunny65 · 29/05/2025 13:02

it’s extremely skilled and they don’t just do the same thing all the time. Hence how things can go disastrously wrong if a person isn’t properly trained. As another poster said, there are different styles. But there are many other therapies. Some people swear by the Alexander Technique. The medical profession doesn’t have much to offer for back problems.

There is nothing skills about bringing your knee forward and pressing on your shoulder to get your twisted back to click.

bimbodoc · 29/05/2025 17:16

Took me 6 weeks to qualify as a sports massage therapist, woo squared.

Sortumn · 29/05/2025 17:09

I'm going to put in a word for soft tissue therapists. I no longer go to anyone who does cracks as I don't feel it's necessary.
I did have a Bowen therapist get rid of all the pain and dragging associated with prolapse (I still have a small prolapse that I can live with as it's no longer symptomatic). They worked completely on top of clothes and didn't need to go near anywhere sensitive. That was a much better outcome than the obstetric physio who didn't look but told me I'd probably need a 'little fix'.

I digress from the ops original complaint but my point is to look around and ask people around you. There are some wonderful therapists out there. Mine (not the one I've just mentioned) doesn't even advertise and has people travel miles because of his success rate.

Hopingtobeaparent · 29/05/2025 16:04

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 29/05/2025 12:44

Qualified to deliver a "treatment" that doesn't work but can cause injury. You can get a PhD in dragon lore, it doesn't mean dragons exist.

Well, that’s your opinion and your entitled to it.

celticprincess · 29/05/2025 14:47

Didimag48 · 28/05/2025 20:37

Physio here, I recommend that you see your GP first as you have pain radiating down your arm. Could be due to many reasons, disc hernia, shoulder bursitis, etc. The GP would do a full exam, get a proper diagnosis and, depending on the results, necessary, send you to a neurologist,or physio.

Our GP doesn’t really diagnose. They refer to physio for diagnosis. My GP was adamant I had a rotator cuff injury but it definitely isn’t that. Physio makes a guess really without an actual scan to confirm

Bunny65 · 29/05/2025 13:02

greatyak · 29/05/2025 11:51

Why do they just do exactly the same thing whatever you go in for.

it’s always lie flat and they crack your back. Then lie on your side and they bring your leg over and crack your back. Then they crack your neck.

every single time regardless of what your ailment is. Hardly brain surgery

it’s extremely skilled and they don’t just do the same thing all the time. Hence how things can go disastrously wrong if a person isn’t properly trained. As another poster said, there are different styles. But there are many other therapies. Some people swear by the Alexander Technique. The medical profession doesn’t have much to offer for back problems.

WelcomeEverythingIsFine · 29/05/2025 13:00

That sounds almost identical to my herniated disc in my cervical spine around C5 / C6. I saw a physio for it but he insisted on an MRI to diagnose before any treatment. Could have gone through GP who would have referred me to their physio.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 29/05/2025 12:44

Hopingtobeaparent · 29/05/2025 08:30

Really? Are you sure you’re not just seeing crap ones? The Chiropractors I have seen over the years have got loads of qualifications and I have found them on the whole very good. Not all are hard crackers either, there are different styles.

Qualified to deliver a "treatment" that doesn't work but can cause injury. You can get a PhD in dragon lore, it doesn't mean dragons exist.

MrsEverest · 29/05/2025 12:05

A chiropractor has medical training? hahahah there's one born every minute.

We do evidence-based medicine only in this house so physio for us.

greatyak · 29/05/2025 11:51

Bunny65 · 29/05/2025 10:50

I’ve been going to a chiropractor practice for years and they have been brilliant. The training is extensive and they are certainly not “woo” - whatever that means. You have to ensure they are properly accredited of course. I’m sure there are some who are not very good, but then there are plenty of cases of medical negligence too.

Why do they just do exactly the same thing whatever you go in for.

it’s always lie flat and they crack your back. Then lie on your side and they bring your leg over and crack your back. Then they crack your neck.

every single time regardless of what your ailment is. Hardly brain surgery

Bunny65 · 29/05/2025 10:50

I’ve been going to a chiropractor practice for years and they have been brilliant. The training is extensive and they are certainly not “woo” - whatever that means. You have to ensure they are properly accredited of course. I’m sure there are some who are not very good, but then there are plenty of cases of medical negligence too.

Hopingtobeaparent · 29/05/2025 10:23

NeedForSpeed · 29/05/2025 08:56

Highly qualified in bunkum. That's the problem.

You can study anything you like to PhD level - doesn't make it useful.

They have to have several years medical training before they specialise in chiropractic work. I don’t know who you are seeing….

londongirl12 · 29/05/2025 09:53

My osteopath is also qualified in sports massage. She’s amazing!!!

ViciousCurrentBun · 29/05/2025 09:39

Physio, I have a scoliosis and have visited all of them. The only one I regret was the chiro but I was young and foolish.

Annie1919 · 29/05/2025 09:30

Our physio offers an ultrasound scan as part of your session, to help pinpoint the issue. Maybe look out for a physio who offers ultrasound?

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