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To want my parcel - woman denying accepting it but I have a photo..

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BitOutOfPractice · 26/05/2025 16:28

I ordered some stuff off sports direct (about £20 worth) and, because I haven’t ordered off there for a couple of years, stupidly got it sent to my old address which was stored on the web site. Yes I know it’s annoying and stupid so I don’t need that lecture.

So once I clocked on what had happened, I went round there to collect it - couple of days later. The woman who bought the house off me completely denies having received it, despite the courier’s photo showing it being accepted at the front door. I can see two sets of children’s feet at the door on the picture. I obviously recognise the doorstep - I lived there for nearly 20 years.

Please note, I did not shout or accuse, I was very polite, I said I was “puzzled” and that there must have been some sort of confusion but she was adamant she hadn’t had it. It was a shoe box sized parcel so not massive to store and not easy to lose either.

Do you clever lot have any idea if there’s anything I can do?

I half expected her to come to the door wearing my gym gear 😆

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BitOutOfPractice · 25/07/2025 15:24

I’m going to ponder it and consult with friends.

i think the pc investigating this needs some kind of medal or commendation!

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LittleBitofBread · 25/07/2025 15:24

Maybe there’s been a lot of parcel crime and they decided this was the last straw and to make an example of her.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 15:20

I'm impressed by the police here.

It might be a minor crime but it's still a crime.

Go make your statement.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/07/2025 15:18

mindutopia · 25/07/2025 15:17

That’s quite an impressive response. Dd was harassed by the father of a child at school (like actual threats in writing sent to her mobile from the dad) because she was a witness to an attack by his son on another child. And the police did F all other than make a note of my report. 😂

It’s astonishing isn’t it? im absolutely amazed by it. I can only think that the town I used to live in is even duller than I thought!

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mindutopia · 25/07/2025 15:17

That’s quite an impressive response. Dd was harassed by the father of a child at school (like actual threats in writing sent to her mobile from the dad) because she was a witness to an attack by his son on another child. And the police did F all other than make a note of my report. 😂

YourPerfectCousin · 25/07/2025 15:15

But all she had to do was not steal the parcel and to hand it over when you knocked on your the door.

I'm astonished the police are going so far but perhaps she's got form. Or really pissed off the PC.

LittleBitofBread · 25/07/2025 15:15

BitOutOfPractice · 25/07/2025 15:09

I know but she must be worried sick. I think that’s punishment enough.

Im quietly impressed at the police officer who is chasing this up though.

You’re being too charitable. She straight up lied about having your parcel. I’m glad her behaviour is having consequences.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/07/2025 15:09

I know but she must be worried sick. I think that’s punishment enough.

Im quietly impressed at the police officer who is chasing this up though.

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Kathbrownlow · 25/07/2025 15:05

Thanks for the update. None of this is your fault, OP.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/07/2025 15:03

I have an update.

The police have been in touch asking me to go to the station to make a statement and if I am prepared to be a witness in court.

Oh lord this has spiralled. I’m horrified!

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BitOutOfPractice · 28/06/2025 22:03

Oh I know! But I have nothing to update. I wish I did! I await the police to get in touch again.

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LightCameraBitchSmile · 28/06/2025 20:33

@BitOutOfPracticeyou said you would be one of those people who didn’t update 😉

Flashahah · 15/06/2025 12:51

BitOutOfPractice · 15/06/2025 08:04

Why didn’t she say that then?

Because she’s a thief!

BitOutOfPractice · 15/06/2025 08:04

NiceCoincidence · 14/06/2025 21:23

She could well of rejected it, I've had it before where the delivery man took a photo of my parcel inside the neighbours doorway, went round to get it, she said she'd rejected it, contacted the delivery company and the driver had taken the delivery back and delivered it to my address the next day

Why didn’t she say that then?

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HagHaggis · 15/06/2025 06:37

I'm invested now, keep us updated!

Walkerzoo · 15/06/2025 06:17

Stumbled across this. Keep us updated..also fascinated

RareGoalsVerge · 15/06/2025 04:58

BitOutOfPractice · 12/06/2025 18:16

Update: police have just emailed asking for more details. Order number, courier tracking information etc. I honestly didn’t think that the police would take it down seriously. I feel bad now!

Don't feel bad. You haven't done anything wrong.

The police are doing their job, they aren't doing anyhing wromg either.

llizzie · 15/06/2025 01:01

NiceCoincidence · 14/06/2025 21:23

She could well of rejected it, I've had it before where the delivery man took a photo of my parcel inside the neighbours doorway, went round to get it, she said she'd rejected it, contacted the delivery company and the driver had taken the delivery back and delivered it to my address the next day

That's as should be. It could be why the police have taken more notice.

Lifestooshort71 · 14/06/2025 21:39

Following, fascinated.....

Kathbrownlow · 14/06/2025 21:33

llizzie · 14/06/2025 21:20

It's usually 'brazen hussy'

certainly the words are sometimes used together, but brazen means 'bold and without shame', originally meaning 'made of brass', so I think there's a lot of words that could be put with it.

NiceCoincidence · 14/06/2025 21:23

She could well of rejected it, I've had it before where the delivery man took a photo of my parcel inside the neighbours doorway, went round to get it, she said she'd rejected it, contacted the delivery company and the driver had taken the delivery back and delivered it to my address the next day

llizzie · 14/06/2025 21:20

Kathbrownlow · 12/06/2025 18:19

I don't think you should feel bad - the woman lied and she is a brazen thief who thinks she's got away with it.

..I haven't used the word 'brazen' for years!

It's usually 'brazen hussy'

tommyhoundmum · 13/06/2025 07:09

BitOutOfPractice · 12/06/2025 22:10

I am genuinely amazed at them doing anything at all to be honest.

They will act when there is direct evidence as in this case

BitOutOfPractice · 12/06/2025 22:10

mutinyonthetwix · 12/06/2025 19:09

Honestly having seen the police basically acting as a crime reference number distribution service when it comes to theft for many years it's actually kind of heartening to see them actually bothering.

I am genuinely amazed at them doing anything at all to be honest.

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tommyhoundmum · 12/06/2025 19:23

BitOutOfPractice · 12/06/2025 18:16

Update: police have just emailed asking for more details. Order number, courier tracking information etc. I honestly didn’t think that the police would take it down seriously. I feel bad now!

Don't feel bad. She is dishonest

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