It’s Saturday night you want to play board games but your dp always vetos it. Your dp wants to watch a film, you prefer romantic comedies but he refuses to watch them so he chooses a action film to watch, you agree to keep the peace but your not that bothered about it. Is it rude to look at your phone or read/sew etc?
Similarly if your staying with family and one person dictates that you will all watch something on the tv but it’s something that doesn’t interest you are you rude to read /look at your phone?