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AIBU to think it isn't fair for school to ban skirts and dresses

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helloall987 · 25/05/2025 13:02

My kids attend an all through school they start at 4 in reception and it goes up to 18. There is a primary and a secondary site.

From September they have changed their uniform to trousers and shorts so no school dresses, skirts or pinafores allowed. All children boys and girls to wear black trousers or shorts. No school shoes either just black trainers. The two reasons they cite are modesty and a gender neutral approach so there is no distinction between girls and boys. This is for primary and secondary school pupils. My DD loves wearing pinafores and patent school shoes. I just think think that with this policy the idea of "feminity" is being taken away.

Most parents think it is a great idea but there are a few of us who want to contest it.

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northernballer · 25/05/2025 13:14

If they want gender neutrality allow the boys to wear dresses as well as the girls to wear skirts and then everyone is happy.

AyeDeadOn · 25/05/2025 13:13

Even that all the girls I know end up wearing shorts as well as their dress, I think this sounds very sensible.

ilovesooty · 25/05/2025 13:12

Find another school if you don't like the uniform policy.

CruCru · 25/05/2025 13:08

A school in Lewes did this. Quite a few parents were annoyed.

www.theargus.co.uk/news/17885448.furious-parents-protest-lewes-priory-school-gender-neutral-uniform/