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Closing parts of a garden due to winds

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OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 12:51

I'm in the NW and a RHS garden centre has closed areas due to winds and trees possibly falling. The garden centre has established trees for many decades and they've closed many areas of the garden due to winds. Yes it is windy today, don't believe it's a severe weather warning and winds seem to be 43mph.

Aibu in thinking that's over the top to close any area with trees?

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powershowerforanhour · 25/05/2025 14:29

What PPs said about trees in full leaf being more vulnerable to wind (the leaves act like a sail essentially) , plus rain after prolonged dry weather in summer when the trees are in leaf makes the risk of sudden branch drop higher.

Flashahah · 25/05/2025 14:27

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:21

If something was to happen it would happen to me so I would be facing the consequences.

Now you’re being silly!

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evtheria · 25/05/2025 14:22

The RHS Bridgewater always shuts parts (the woods, maybe Chinese stream side garden) on windy days, but I think you’re the first person I’ve seen actually complaining about that. I have visited on mild windy days, no issue, but today it’s pretty blustery and therefore risky around the large, mature trees they have.

If they could avoid losing out on visitors and the spending they bring to the cafe etc they would, and it’s school hols so it’s really no small decision to close off the play area to families.

NetZeroZealot · 25/05/2025 14:21

Christ. Are you always like this OP?

Feetinthegrass · 25/05/2025 14:19

The very definition of first world problems..

helpfulperson · 25/05/2025 14:19

It isnt just about the wind speed today. Many trees were damaged during the red warning that professionals are stull working their way through to trim damaged branches and stabalise. And until they manage that trees can be a danger at much lower speeds.

Laserwho · 25/05/2025 14:17

How dare they not put your wants before public safety. OP you need a reality check

nebulae · 25/05/2025 14:15

Just go on another day. Stop making a song and dance out of it.

CousinBob · 25/05/2025 14:13

I get your irritation OP. The local National Trust places also close round here when wind is forecast. The trouble is that weather forecast are often not very accurate…..

andtheworldrollson · 25/05/2025 14:12

High winds at this time of year when trees are in full leaf is always risky and the ground conditions from recent weather may also make things worse than a normal winter storm

musicalfrog · 25/05/2025 14:11

PinkArt · 25/05/2025 14:05

Yes they can and yes it will. And the assessment will cover the additional risk level when high winds are added to the equation. Presumably the risk level once all factors are considered, and all mitigations actioned, is low day to day but medium or high on a very windy day.

Yup. OP clearly never carried out a risk assessment in her life.

skymagentatwo · 25/05/2025 14:08

Lets try reframe this in a way you may understand, to prove a point that this is not all about you.

Im pretty sure every one would agree its fine if you want to be squished like a bug on a windscreen if a tree fell over In the wind, that's up to you and as you say you will face the consequences.

What we are all more concerned about is the poor fucker who has to clean up your squished bug body and the poor people/kids who witnessed you getting squished like a bug. Also all the time money and legal fees, custodial sentences, mental and trauma care for all the other people left behind after you go to squashed bug heaven.

See your entitled to do stupid things and win stupid prizes but a lot of us care about all the other poor sods who are pulled into your mental madness.

PinkArt · 25/05/2025 14:05

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:33

Their risk assessment will also consider that trees can fall at any time
...

Don't you think
.

Yes they can and yes it will. And the assessment will cover the additional risk level when high winds are added to the equation. Presumably the risk level once all factors are considered, and all mitigations actioned, is low day to day but medium or high on a very windy day.

Catwalking · 25/05/2025 14:04

Maybe their Insurers expect these actions?

QuinionsRainbow · 25/05/2025 14:03

I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you don't get blown off an exposed piece of road on your way home this afternoon.

Slain Abhaile!

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2025 14:00

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:12

You mean walk slowly. They aren't allowed to run or be fast, health and safety. No leaping.

Oh dear

You're just a bit bored, aren't you?

Clockpic · 25/05/2025 13:59

I'd guess if you were the one who might go to prison or be sued, if you made the wrong decision you might err on the side of caution

BallerinaRadio · 25/05/2025 13:59

Fucking hell all this ire about a garden being closed 😂 are you a Reform type person and this is a stealth anti NT post or something?

Just because you would be happy walking around a garden in 40mph winds, dodging branches flying your way and trees falling at your point doesn't mean everyone does.

There's a duty of care to their patrons, which has already been pointed out but you're just here for an argument. About a garden and wind bizarrely.

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:58

Bupster · 25/05/2025 13:56

You're allowed one. People are allowed to point out it's a stupid, entitled one.

That's your opinion, which you are allowed. Doesn't mean it's fact though.

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Bupster · 25/05/2025 13:56

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:44

But I'm allowed an opinion right. Or not?

You're allowed one. People are allowed to point out it's a stupid, entitled one.

SadCarpetMess · 25/05/2025 13:54

Of course you're allowed an opinion but I'm not entirely clear exactly what it's based on other than just being disappointed because you drove to a place where you didn't have to pay extra for entry and parts of it are closed because of winds. YANBU to be disappointed but YABU to think they should keep it all open if they or their insurers take the considered view that it's dangerous.
To avoid disappointment in future, check the weather forecast and contact the place directly if you're in doubt?

TheMimsy · 25/05/2025 13:53

Posts on AIBU.
is told categorically YABU.
Argues with everyone saying YABU.

what was the point of posting if you can’t accept or entertain that maybe - it’s you.

You are the problem.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 25/05/2025 13:51

Of course you are allowed an opinion, even if it’s a stupid one.

Even if it’s that you would rather risk being hit by a fallen tree, seeing a garden shut down, risking manslaughter charges, etc. As well as you potentially being dead. My opinion is that that would be stupid. Just go and stand under the bloody tree if it’s bothering you that much. See if you win a Darwin Award.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 25/05/2025 13:49

Trees fall down all the time. Pretty much every time I go through Harrogate after a bit of breeze there’s a fallen tree. It happens.

skymagentatwo · 25/05/2025 13:47

OneNaiceTealMoose · 25/05/2025 13:44

But I'm allowed an opinion right. Or not?

Yes you are and all the posters on this thread are equally allowed to have an opinion of you and your posts.

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