To ask about your sex life?

Chicken and the egg.
Are they happy because they have a regular sex life.

Or are they already happy with each other which encourages them to want to have sex with each other.

@Bluejay67 : I don't know whether you're still following this thread. Read some of the other threads and look for mentions of frequency of sex. I'll bet you notice something that I repeatedly notice: at least according to their own reports, couples who have a good sex life - minimum once a week, but ideally more - nearly always report happiness, in one way or another.

I have no desire to answer the question with anyone - the journalist side of things is irrelevant to me.

I thought the same but when it happens, it doesn’t feel very nice, even if it’s not outing. Same as it doesn’t feel good when you give a genuine response and you find out that the OPs trolling for any other reason really.

The more important point as PPs have said, is that other people’s experiences aren’t relevant here. If it’s not working for OP, it’s not working. Other people might be fine with it but that doesn’t change anything for her.

It sounds like a lot of hard work for less than a year in ( if you met in June last year).

He should talk to his doctor. A massive drop in libido could be a symptom of something else, especially in one so young.

I don’t have one. But I am single so….

If he's not interested in knocking the back out of you often enough for your liking maybe find another man?

It's normal to have sex as much as you both want to.

With all due respect to OP, this is what I’m wondering as well! OP is only 27. No rush for an immediate commitment. She’s also aware of the issues causing low sex drive/reluctance. Surely doesn’t need a MN post asking how many times others do it and who initiates as not sure how that would help her.

OP has all the info from her OH she now just needs to decide if she can compromise with changed sex habits and keep the man she thinks is otherwise her best match yet or at the relatively young age of 27 not accept the incompatability and in the words of Ariana Grande say “thank you, next!”.

Then you just have to accept things the way they are and accept you won't be having the level of sex you want. I don't really get why you're asking how often others have sex as it has no bearing on your relationship. There's no magic cure to make him be different.

Great, then you crack on with telling strangers how many times you get your knickers off.

At the end of the day, who cares if it is?
It’s not as though anyway knows who you are personally.
A typical droll comment.

Porn has messed him up. It can take a year for things to go back to normal, because no-one is as tight as a man's fist. They should be teaching lads this during sex education. I wouldn't have coped with so little sex. You need to be affectionate and give it more time. If you TTC it might be a massive issue. If it drops even more as he ages etc. I'm nearly 60 and neither of us, would be happy with your rate.

It does tail off a bit in my experience, because life is busy and relationships change and evolve but if you don't live together, and you have only dated for a year, I'd say twice a month doesn't seem enough to me personally. But it is subjective.

No, thanks 🤷‍♀️
I think I’ll reply whatever I want to.
You don’t need to “police” my replies.

Its not normal after a year. 20 years maybe.

This is his sex drive. He's happy, it's not going to change so you have a choice to make before you put anymore time in.

Not normal for me, no tailing off in 30 years

All I will say is yes , it’s tailed off after many years.
I don’t get why posters are so worried about the press?
MN is completely anonymous , unless you’re saying ‘ my name is Jane my husband is Bob , we live in Birmingham and do it three times a week and swing off the wardrobe ‘ Huw is anyone going to identify you ?

You’ve got the answer you were looking for though - just act on how you personally feel. It really doesn’t matter what anyone else likes or puts up with or prefers. It’s about you and what works for you.

@Bluejay67 yeah I accounted for the fact that you might have recently namechanged by saying ‘since this is your first post using this username’ as I knew you may not be new.

She’s has fully explained her problem.
And then asked for others experience. Seems perfectly reasonable to me.
You don’t need to police other peoples threads. Just scroll past.