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Is this condition honestly considered anxiety/attention seeking/dramatic by healthcare workers?

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GladMoose · 24/05/2025 22:41

Bit of a random one and quite niche, but hoping it reaches some healthcare posters who can help!

I have AVNRT, I understand it affects people differently but unfortunately I get it quite badly and usually have to get shocked for it. I've had ablations/EPS etc in the past which were only partially successful but cannot get another without almost definitely needing a pacemaker and that is NOT something I want so I don't want to ever get another ablation again unless there's no other option. Thankfully with the right combination of medication it seems to be under control now. At one point I was at a&e multiple times a week for cardioversions so it’s a relief to have it better controlled now.

But at a previous admission recently I overheard a nurse telling a new student nurse that avnrt is just a glorified panic attack and that nobody can be bothered with the drama of it because it's not serious and basically discussing how it was just attention seeking young girls who get it

It got me wondering and it's played on my mind ever since- is that how it's viewed by healthcare professionals? That it's just anxiety and it's not serious? Everytime I've had to go to hospital, is that what they've been thinking about me?

I've had friends with conditions which are notoriously seen as being anxiety related and they have awful stories about being disbelieved and fobbed off (like IBS etc) but I didn't think this would be seen as that because they can quite literally see it on the ECG?

I mean sure, anxiety doesn't help it, but it's not caused by that. I've had episodes where my heart was 220+ for over 10 hours and it was utterly horrendous. Obviously it's not as serious as some heart conditions but it's still very unpleasant and absolutely not just a glorified panic attack or attention seeking. but ever since hearing that it's just been in the back of my mind that I'm sort of wary to seek help with it again if it happens in the future in case that's how it's seen?

It doesn't really make a difference because either way if you need to go to hospital then you need to go, but it's just been in the back of my mind, is it just that individual who was ignorant or is that generally the consensus about it and that's how the condition is seen?

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Holly184 · 25/05/2025 00:46

We don't carry out cardiac ablations or cardiovert people for anxiety ! It's too late now as in guessing you don't know who they were but they need some training.

EmeraldRoulette · 25/05/2025 00:45

sprigatito · 24/05/2025 23:00

I would make a complaint against the nurse, personally. To voice that toxic nonsense within earshot of a patient is shocking; to teach it to an impressionable student is inexcusable.

This

@GladMoose you say you overheard it. Could you tell conclusively who said it? Even if you can't, I would make a complaint to the hospital but it obviously helps if you can identify the nurse.

That is an alarming level of stupidity.

greenishredblue · 25/05/2025 00:08

I have none epileptic seizures and fibromyalgia and some of the stuff I have heard from medical professionals has been awful. One made a comment about me obviously wanting to get out of work outside my curtain in A and E.
i tore a stripe off him as at the time I worked full time.

having one
of the conditions that’s some people see as attention seeking is bad but having 2 is awful.

AnnaMagnani · 25/05/2025 00:05

I think it's very unlikely the nurse actually understood what AVNRT is and was just talking out of her arse.

Funnyduck60 · 25/05/2025 00:03

Why are you so against having a pacemaker though?

ladycardamom · 24/05/2025 23:38

There is stupid in every profession unfortunately. You saw it first hand.

feelingbleh · 24/05/2025 23:25

Nurses think everything is attention seeking all you hear in hospital is nurses slagging everyone off its like they don't realise how thin the walls are. Just ignore them and don't take it personally they slag each other of to

GoldPoster · 24/05/2025 23:07

I was in for a brain tumour removal, it was about 5 cm in size, If left it have grown and been life threatening, but when I had the operation it was elective surgery.
I over heard nurse questioning why it was being removed because it was only elective surgery. It does make you wonder about nurse training.

AnnaL94 · 24/05/2025 23:02

I’m currently being investigated for endometriosis after years (over a decade) of pleading with doctors because of my horrific periods and endless symptoms.

So many healthcare professionals, including gynaecologists have told me it’s anxiety, IBS, “it’s all in your head”.

There seems to be a current theme within women’s health and doctors telling us it’s “anxiety”. 🙄

sprigatito · 24/05/2025 23:00

I would make a complaint against the nurse, personally. To voice that toxic nonsense within earshot of a patient is shocking; to teach it to an impressionable student is inexcusable.

MissEloiseBridgerton · 24/05/2025 22:59

However it can be triggered by stress or panic.

MissEloiseBridgerton · 24/05/2025 22:58

The doctors would not shock a patient having a panic attack

Devilsmommy · 24/05/2025 22:54

Anyone who thinks a heart rate of 220+ for 10 hours is just anxiety is a fucking idiot. She doesn't know what she's talking about 🙄 don't let it put you off going to hospital if you have it happen again. There are idiots in all professions

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