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To ask if those of us who enjoy a sandwich for lunch are a dying breed

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JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 10:23

Lunchtime in the office, I'm the only one tucking into a sandwich. Everyone else seems to be jabbing away with their fork at something in a Tupperware container.

Are we butty lovers a rarity now?

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Joystir59 · 24/05/2025 20:18

ToadRage · 24/05/2025 10:30

I rarely have sandwiches and we don't buy bread (hubby and i are both overweight-its lethal). But I have recently found myself craving one. I used to work in a food shop so I would often buy one there. Haven't had sandwich in ages mmm. In the winter I did used to have to take pasta, soup or some such as it used to be freezing cold and a hot meal was needed just to warm myself up.

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This is me. I stand a chance of having some weight control if we don't have bread in the house.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 24/05/2025 20:13

Not all loaves are equal. I think it's simplistic to reject all bread as they contain predominantly carbs. I get seeded wholemeal bread and the protein content is excellent, plus it has fibre, etc. I often toast a slice or two and eat with chicken, etc. for lunch. I rarely make sandwiches.

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 20:08

Nomoreidea · 24/05/2025 18:16

It's more jabbing than how you'd normally use a fork though, as you are trying to get something from a container rather than from a plate.

Exactly!

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Shouldbedoing · 24/05/2025 19:55

NewShoesForSpring · 24/05/2025 12:25

I used to get soup & brown bread 3 days a week on my office days. We have a canteen.

But I got totally sick of that after 18mths so I bought a glass lunchbox & small matching glass container a few weeks back & I'll bring my own lunch now.

As I'm preparing dinner i sort out my lunch box & then I leave it in the fridge ready to grab in the morning.

Here's what I had this week, in every case we were eating this for dinner & I just made a bit extra.

Monday- lettuce, tomatoes, cucumber, red onion, cooked Beetroot, chicken breast marinaded in extra virgin olive oil, fresh rosemary, lemon zest & juice cooked on the griddle. In the little tub I had couple of croutons, shaved parmesan & caesar salad dressing

Tuesday: lettuce, tomato, cucumber, Beetroot, red onion, radishes, sliced ham & in the small container a hard boiled egg & dressing

Wednesday: butter chicken curry with mixed peppers, red onion, peas & cauliflower rice & 1 spoon of jasmine rice. 1 small piece of coriander & garlic naan. In small container fresh coriander & chopped salted peanuts to add

Thursday: lettuce, tomato, cucumber, red onion, sliced new potato, steamed & tissed in evoo & salt, red & yellow peppers, radishes, black olives, chicken breast roasted with chilli flakes. Home made French dressing (separate)

Friday: glazed salmon, cold noodle salad with Asian type dressing with green peppers, raw sugar snaps & coriander. Cubes of roast squash on the side

When I work from home I often make homemade soup- roast carrot, spiced butternut squash, minestrone etc

Or we'll have a sandwich- often tinned red salmon, or egg salad, or BLT etc

Because the weather is nice now I'm happy to eat lots of salads but I'll also bring left over dinners like - beef bourguignon, lasagne, pasta etc

You're showing off now!

Nomoreidea · 24/05/2025 18:16

It's more jabbing than how you'd normally use a fork though, as you are trying to get something from a container rather than from a plate.

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 18:10

I don’t know why you’re calling eating normally with cutlery (or at least a fork) “jabbing away” - or repeating this rather irritating phrase for something so normal in your update?

I didn't know an innocent word like "jabbing" would cause offence! It describes the repeated attempts to spear different contents of the Tupperwear container - they rarely seems to get enough on the first or second attempt. And as pp said - the chasing around of the salad.

Meanwhile I sit there daintily nibbling away at my sandwich which is always cut into triangles. And I rarely eat the crusts.

Nowt wrong with jabbing - we only get 15 mins for lunch so we need to tuck in!

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OldChinaJug · 24/05/2025 17:25

VoluptuaSneezelips · 24/05/2025 14:43

Your comment about the hunger.
When you have your snacks and meals at regular times everyday apparently your body trains itself to send you hunger signals around those times. If you have a large main meal and are full it still doesn't stop those hunger signals. It ensures you eat regular which in turn keeps blood sugar levels on an even keel rather than them spiking and dipping throughout the day.

I have no idea of the validity other than it was something I learnt from my diabetic dietician when I was first diagnosed with an eating disorder a few years back. It's also why one of the first things she had me work on was resetting those body signals by having 3 meals and 3 snacks as part of a balanced diet evenly spaced through my day.

I think that was probably more to do with the eating disorder and resetting hunger signals, if I'm honest.

It's not necessary to eat three meals a day. Many people do but its not necessary and fasting for longer has benefits but it isn't advised for people with a history of eating disorders.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 17:13

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 17:07

Why not? What is 'heavier' about cooked meals?

I find it fascinating that some people seem to think cooked food is somehow 'too much' when there's nothing about it being hot or cooked that makes it too much/more/heavier than a sandwich and often it's not the case anyway.

I think for me it's just a preference. I'm vegetarian so I eat a lot of carbs and I feel one cooked meal is enough. I prefer a very minimal lunch.

andtheworldrollson · 24/05/2025 17:12

If it’s a chicken sandwich I hope it was cooked

faerietales · 24/05/2025 17:11

I love a sandwich but they have to be freshly made on decent bread - not sliced bread, cold with soggy fillings. Packed lunches in general give me the heebie jeebies though, I'd rather go hungry Grin

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 17:07

Why not? What is 'heavier' about cooked meals?

I find it fascinating that some people seem to think cooked food is somehow 'too much' when there's nothing about it being hot or cooked that makes it too much/more/heavier than a sandwich and often it's not the case anyway.

ItsSoFoggy · 24/05/2025 17:07

I have a sandwich and a packet of crisps most days.

WaltzingWaters · 24/05/2025 17:07

I usually have a salad - because obviously healthier and I do absolutely love a salad.
I do really enjoy a sandwich but I always want a packet of crisps too when I have a sandwich, so it’s a rare occurrence or I’d start packing the weight on!
As a child a sandwich was a daily occurrence for lunch. My DS (3yo) doesn’t seem to be a big fan of them, will eat a little then be done. He does love a tuna melt toastie though!

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 17:03

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:57

Nearly all my lunches are leftover dinner I just make enough to have leftovers.

But I don't understand what you mean by 'too heavy' as a meal made from meat, fish, pulses, vegetables etc is far less stodgy, healthier and less energy dense than a sandwich.

I just can't envisage eating a cooked meal twice daily.

WinSomeandLoseSome · 24/05/2025 17:01

I guess the days of a sandwich, packet of crisps and a penguin are gone. I had this all through high school and looking back it was pretty unhealthy. No fruit. The nearest thing to a veg was the branston pickle. I think people are more health conscious now and with a pasta or rice dish in Tupperware you can incorporate some veg.

Natsku · 24/05/2025 17:01

I was never keen on sandwiches as a child and used to throw mine in the bin at school and then I got diagnosed with coeliac disease and could kick my younger self for wasting all those sandwiches made with nice bread. Now sandwiches are either nice but made with ultra upf long life gluten free bread or not so nice made with less unhealthy gluten free bread (or nice made with homemade bread but only good on the day its baked really so no good for work lunches).

Fortean · 24/05/2025 16:58

I work from home and I still always have either a sandwich or soup (sometimes both) because I can’t really be bothered making any more complicated at that time of day.

I have something a bit more exciting for dinner.

Natsku · 24/05/2025 16:57

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

I love having two cooked meals a day. Sometimes its the same meal, like if I make pasta bake one evening for dinner there will be enough leftover for dinner the next day and my lunch the next day.

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:57

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

Nearly all my lunches are leftover dinner I just make enough to have leftovers.

But I don't understand what you mean by 'too heavy' as a meal made from meat, fish, pulses, vegetables etc is far less stodgy, healthier and less energy dense than a sandwich.

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:55

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:42

I'm well aware of the CoL crisis, thank you. I feel that the people on this thread denouncing bread, which is a filling food eaten by most people in Europe, North Africa and much of Asia for millennia, are the ones not reading the room. Bread is cheap and filling. That matters for a lot of people. Yes, it would be good if mass manufactured bread didn't contain emulsifiers and so on. However, most people on a very tight budget are going to struggle to replace bread with other filling foods that are just as convenient and don't cost more.

This is the bread I mentioned, currently £1.60 on Ocado. I wouldn't count that as fancy bread. I can't justify spending a lot on sourdough and I'm not going to start making all our bread either. I have made bread in the past. It's gorgeous but I eat far more than I do of bought bread, so it's best for me not to make it often.

https://www.ocado.com/products/allinson-s-signature-seeded-361707011

But the bread that people are eating in Europe, North Africa and much of Asia is a world away from what is generally bought in UK supermarkets and made into sad ham or cheese sandwiches.

I love a baguette or flatbread but don't use it to make a sandwich or eat it as part of a totally cold meal, more to mop up sauce or dip.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/05/2025 16:46

I’m not a big fan on sandwiches and never have been. I mean I can eat one but it would be about my last choice.

I don’t know why you’re calling eating normally with cutlery (or at least a fork) “jabbing away” - or repeating this rather irritating phrase for something so normal in your update?

Leftovers is so much nicer than a sandwich as for a start it can be warm!

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

andtheworldrollson · 24/05/2025 16:51

The jabbing I would guess refers to the sound go the fork on the lunch box as people spear their pasta or tomatoes and people chasing salad leaves round the box - surprisingly noisy

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/05/2025 16:50

Swearwolf · 24/05/2025 16:42

Yeah, I knew people ate them, I just guess it didn’t occur to me that it was an active choice, rather than just the easiest option. I hadn’t really given it much thought, just found myself surprised by the thread.

I agree with you! I always thought it was what people had when there was nothing else available/ needed something easy and convenient etc Not a preference!

I do like bread - there was a thread the other day where I chose it as my favourite carb. But not in the form of a sandwich.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:46

I love sandwiches. I also love soup and leftovers. I just love food, tbh. Some sandwiches are very dull, but there are plenty that aren't. A good amount of a tasty filling, reasonably good bread, Bob's your Uncle Bert, as people used to say (inexplicably) when I was growing up.

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