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To ask if those of us who enjoy a sandwich for lunch are a dying breed

284 replies

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 10:23

Lunchtime in the office, I'm the only one tucking into a sandwich. Everyone else seems to be jabbing away with their fork at something in a Tupperware container.

Are we butty lovers a rarity now?

OP posts:
Kago2790 · 25/05/2025 00:41

Sometimes take ham sandwiches and buy a cone of chips from the chippy and put them on my sandwich. Lovely.

Calliopespa · 24/05/2025 23:29

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 18:10

I don’t know why you’re calling eating normally with cutlery (or at least a fork) “jabbing away” - or repeating this rather irritating phrase for something so normal in your update?

I didn't know an innocent word like "jabbing" would cause offence! It describes the repeated attempts to spear different contents of the Tupperwear container - they rarely seems to get enough on the first or second attempt. And as pp said - the chasing around of the salad.

Meanwhile I sit there daintily nibbling away at my sandwich which is always cut into triangles. And I rarely eat the crusts.

Nowt wrong with jabbing - we only get 15 mins for lunch so we need to tuck in!

Honestly, everything and anything can cause offence on here.

I think it’s where the hypersensitive, crabby and paranoid hang out at times.

Calliopespa · 24/05/2025 23:26

SlaveToMyFanny · 24/05/2025 10:31

Oh, what do you have? I need ideas for my lovely new stainless steel lunchbox.

Do you mind posting a pic of your new lunchbox?

Dillydollydingdong · 24/05/2025 23:26

Look at all the sandwich shops! Do you honestly think they'd bother if they didn't make a profit? Greggs, Subway, M&S, Tesco, the list goes on!

Choosechoclate · 24/05/2025 23:23

Well, from what I’ve seen, the sandwich generation are a dying breed, yes, because you can’t work on that sort of fuel in later life.

If they’re not retiring early, they’re having those sarnies alongside blood pressure tablets etc…

KimberleyMilkado · 24/05/2025 23:07

Toast for breakfast. Sandwich for lunch. Maybe something with garlic bread at dinner.

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 23:04

This thread has reminded me of the long forgotten delight of a banana butty. I'm having one tomorrow!

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Howspieduh · 24/05/2025 22:52

Yeah, I find I'm in the minority eating a sandwich at work too, whilst others are warming stuff in the microwave. I've never liked hot food at lunch really, unless I'm having a lunch out!

GingerPaste · 24/05/2025 22:52

GreenLeavesEveryday · 24/05/2025 10:27

I used to love sandwiches! Trouble is i had no off switch. So I don't eat bread any more which makes me sad!
Me and sandwiches had to break up: 'It's not you, it's me!'

😂

SoManyDandelions · 24/05/2025 22:47

I take sandwiches to work. If I eat hot food at lunchtime it makes me feel really sleepy. I obviously associate hot food with the end of the day/bedtime (DH and I often end up eating after 9pm and I'm in bed not long after!)

IwantmyReptv · 24/05/2025 22:46

I have a one slice of bread sandwich, either avocado or cheese & carrot.
I also have wanky homemade cheese and kale muffins.

healsone · 24/05/2025 22:38

I have a sandwich pretty much every day for lunch. I make them the night before and often eat them out and about with my toddler in a park. I wouldn't want the hassle of bringing back tupperware and a fork, I just wrap them in a sandwich bag and bin it. Generally I have chicken salad or any other meat with salad. I like Pret and M&S sandwiches but they're an occasional treat, we'll get them a few times a year at the station when going on a day trip or to take on a flight.

MarySueSaidBoo · 24/05/2025 22:35

I love bread and love sandwiches even more. Unfortunately since turning 50, my type 2 diabetes doesn't share that love, and I've had to cut out all processed/starchy carbs. So I'm a fork jabber, usually into a protein/salad/veg combo. My current fave is making a feta and red onion tortilla, with a green salad and homemade coleslaw.

Barneysmomma · 24/05/2025 22:35

I usually make tuna mayo & cucumber sandwiches for lunch on work days but I use wholemeal thins rather than bread- not as heavy but very tasty. Probably too many UPFs but I'm lucky if I get to eat undisturbed so it has to be something quick. Had an M&S supergreen salad the other day as a treat which was lovely & I wasn't hungry until dinner.
Also sometimes have jam or lemon cheese in thins but DH says that's just 'cos I'm from Yorkshire!

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 24/05/2025 22:30

Not me. Still love a sarnie, especially with a few crisps in.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 24/05/2025 22:29

Nomoreidea · 24/05/2025 22:18

Are bagels not bread? They sound good though

Yes,essentially they are but they're boiled briefly then baked which does something to the gluten in the flour and makes them chewy.

Nomoreidea · 24/05/2025 22:18

pinkstripeycat · 24/05/2025 22:15

I rarely eat bread these days and it’s helped me to lose weight. I have, on the other hand, been eating protein bagels for brekky, lunch and tea.

Today I wanted bread and bought a seeded baton. I had half for lunch with tuna and half for tea with chicken. Lovely!

Are bagels not bread? They sound good though

Bluebellsparklypant · 24/05/2025 22:17

I love squished down sandwiches and a packet of crisps still, sometimes I even put crisps in my sandwich

pinkstripeycat · 24/05/2025 22:15

I rarely eat bread these days and it’s helped me to lose weight. I have, on the other hand, been eating protein bagels for brekky, lunch and tea.

Today I wanted bread and bought a seeded baton. I had half for lunch with tuna and half for tea with chicken. Lovely!

suburburban · 24/05/2025 22:15

I often take a sandwich for work

salad doesn’t fill me up enough and I will snack more in the afternoon

TubeScreamer · 24/05/2025 22:13

I have a sandwich most days for lunch. Quick and easy and no thought needed.

YenSon · 24/05/2025 22:11

I’m mostly disorganised plus have a teenage son who eats anything not locked away, especially if it’s a Tupperware of leftovers. I tend to only have around 10 minutes to eat so I grab anything that is edible to stuff in my work bag. Pitta bread and hummus, banana/pear, cereal bar, bread to toast. My Friday lunch crumpets were mouldy, which I discovered as I was about to out them in the toaster. I had to make do with an emergency cuppa soup, bruised banana and a square of dark chocolate donate by a colleague! Most of my colleagues have a re-heated hot meal or salad

Emmz1510 · 24/05/2025 21:53

I still love a sandwich. Not a shop bought one though. Prefer to make it myself, on good quality bread. When I’m dieting (which, currently let’s just say I definitely am NOT) I never eat them, but I do love them.

Rolercoaster · 24/05/2025 21:44

Most of us are now more aware of sugar spikes, what causes these, and how they affect our health. Sandwiches really isn't a good lunch option, and it will usually only lead to you being hungry and picking in the pm. People tend to look for more protein based lunches now

BurntBroccoli · 24/05/2025 21:15

Comedycook · 24/05/2025 10:39

If making myself I don't really do sandwiches as I find loaves of bread are just far too large. Even as a family of four, we hardly ever get through them before they expire. So if I was going to make a bread based lunch, I'd probably choose a brioche roll, bagel or wrap before traditional sliced bread.

I just freeze the whole loaf and take out what I need per slice. If I make a sandwich for work, I just use the bread frozen then wrap in a sheet of kitchen roll and put in a Tupperware box. Stays really fresh.

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