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To ask if those of us who enjoy a sandwich for lunch are a dying breed

284 replies

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 10:23

Lunchtime in the office, I'm the only one tucking into a sandwich. Everyone else seems to be jabbing away with their fork at something in a Tupperware container.

Are we butty lovers a rarity now?

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the80sweregreat · 24/05/2025 11:57

Certain bread doesn’t agree with me , but I often crave white Tiger bread that’s fresh with a nice filling
I used to eat a lot of sandwiches, but not so much lately.

5foot5 · 24/05/2025 11:57

I no longer work 😁but for the later few years I switched to mainly salads and soups. Before then I mostly had sandwiches, however I frequently found that by home time I was a bit shaky and "duthery". It felt like low blood sugar or something. I used to have a mile and a bit to walk home so often ended up buying a Twix or something to give me a boost.

Then I started taking the salads, primarily as a way to lose a bit of weight. I was surprised to find that after a salad lunch I never got the shakiness later on. If for any reason I had not taken a salad and bought a sandwich again then the sensation often returned.

I think I read an explanation once which I have half forgotten, something to do with the bread causing an energy crash or something?

Anyway it worked better for me.

ProfessionalWhimsicalSkidaddler · 24/05/2025 11:57

SlaveToMyFanny · 24/05/2025 10:31

Oh, what do you have? I need ideas for my lovely new stainless steel lunchbox.

Stainless steel! Wow!

some form of seasoned chicken and salad mostly (fun I know)
however, a great one is a little like a cottage pie. Minced beef onion and gravy cooked normally and then placed in a Pyrex dish. Mash cauliflower and broccoli on top in place of mash and a thin layer of cheese on top. Place in oven for 15/20 mins. We’ve done the same with curried chicken but you have to use a lot of chicken.

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 11:54

The thought of eating cold or re-heated leftovers doesn't appeal.

Also, in my head, bolognese, stew, brocoli are to be eaten at tea time not lunch.

I sometimes have homemade soup when wfh but without bread it seems lacking.

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MasterBeth · 24/05/2025 11:48

I make myself a sandwich most mornings. Just feels the easiest, most obvious lunchy thing. I am 56 years old.

MasterBeth · 24/05/2025 11:48

I make myself a sandwich most mornings. Just feels the easiest, most obvious lunchy thing. I am 56 years old.

henlake7 · 24/05/2025 11:42

Peanut butter and jam sandwiches here (made with defrosted bread).
My lunches are depressing to match my job!

lavenderlou · 24/05/2025 11:40

Dc have bagels or wraps in their packed lunch - there isn't much else they can take that doesn't involve lots of effort for me. I either take leftovers or make a sandwich for myself. Said is not filling enough and often takes more time to prepare.

pizzaHeart · 24/05/2025 11:34

I suspect sandwiches are more “on the go” thing. If people can heat up in a microwave, sit in the office for their lunch then they do leftovers. It’s quicker to put some of your yesterday stew in a Tupperware box rather than to do a sandwich.

We do sandwiches still but we bake our own bread so maybe that’s why - feels a bit healthier.

anon2022anon · 24/05/2025 11:24

I love a sandwich. Unfortunately, I don't work a job where I can eat them regularly any more, my arse is large and gets bigger very quickly where bread is involved. When I had a job on my feet all day, I'd happily eat them most days.

My Christmas treat to myself is a loaf of Jackson's bread, a tub of lurpak, and sandwiches or toast whenever I fancy until it's gone.

ItGhoul · 24/05/2025 11:23

Oh, I absolutely love a sandwich. A well made sandwich is one of life’s greatest culinary pleasures. Not a rubbish limp bland one but a proper nice fat freshly made one.

anon2022anon · 24/05/2025 11:22

PluckyBamboo · 24/05/2025 11:19

(Missing the point but....) what do you make at home that creates all these leftovers? I never have leftovers of anything? Do you deliberately make extra so e.g cook extra veg so it can be relegated to the leftovers tub?

Yes. If I do a bolognese for 2 of us, I'll use 500g of mince and get 2 large portions and 2 lunch portions. I'll cook a full head of broccoli most evening meals, the rest goes with lunches the next day.

PluckyBamboo · 24/05/2025 11:19

(Missing the point but....) what do you make at home that creates all these leftovers? I never have leftovers of anything? Do you deliberately make extra so e.g cook extra veg so it can be relegated to the leftovers tub?

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 11:17

Glad to read the butty love on this thread ❤️

Never shop bought for me. Mornings ChezBerlin, I put the coffee on whilst DH showers. Then he makes lunch whilst I shower.

He's a carb dodging vegan so bungs stuff in a tub for himself and crafts me a tasty sandwich. He puts an ice pack in my lunch bag so I don't have to put it in the fridge at the office where it will be shamed by the Tupperware brigade 😋

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Menapausemum1974 · 24/05/2025 11:15

I have developed a gluten intolerance but am now craving some salt and pepper tiger bread 🥴🤦‍♀️ However that can't happen so will have some greek yoghurt, berries and honey. My teenage son however inhales regular bacon sandwiches followed by nutella ones 🤣

melsid · 24/05/2025 11:02

Nope not me I love a sandwich 😋😋

PomegranateVase · 24/05/2025 11:01

@Toiletbrushanswer

I so pleased I’m not the only one!

RedRiverShore5 · 24/05/2025 11:00

OP, maybe they are all MNers, as bread is generally frowned upon on here.

Chocolate85 · 24/05/2025 11:00

I love a wrap or sandwich and have them most working days. I don’t like mayo amongst other things so most shop bought ones are ruled out but my home made are lovely.

Gettingbysomehow · 24/05/2025 11:00

I love a nice big sandwich but they make me very fat and having lost 5 stone I'll be sitting there with my salad and a fork.

fatgirlswims · 24/05/2025 10:58

I love sandwiches but I do regard them now as an indulgent treat! I am what one might called a porker (or former porker thanks to
Mounjaro)

We are a dying breed! My ex SIL declaring she loves sandwiches made my heart sing!

Cheese and pickle or ploughmanS

i do not care for a wrap- too dense and chewy. I need soft pillowy bloomer bread

nothing makes me happier than making a platter of sandwiches for an event. Always using mary
berry’s advice!

GAJLY · 24/05/2025 10:57

I always have a smoked cheese bagel! But sometimes it's easier to grab a box of left overs from the fridge! I currently have lasania and pasta in mine!

BingoBling · 24/05/2025 10:55

I like a sandwich. Dd is early 20s likes a sandwich too.
If I had a straightforward salad for lunch I would be starving by 3pm.

TossieFleacake · 24/05/2025 10:54

I love a sandwich.

Honestly, they are basically what's sustained me since my marriage ended last summer.

Thank you ham sandwich.

WitchHag · 24/05/2025 10:54

ive got right off Sarnies and I used to love them. But it’s nothing to do with health, carb avoidance and all that.

It’s because the bread has gone bad, pre-packaged sandwich bread is awful! Thick and chewy and tasteless, always one or a combination of those. The butter is……something? I looked at it once, it’s a a sort of almost clear colour lard like paste 😳
And anything with a particle of moisture makes it soggy - tomatoes anyone?

whether it was always the case, and I’ve been spoilt with high quality bread and decent fillings, I’ll still make a sandwich at home, with decent ingredients.

But you’d have to pay me to eat a shop bought one (same for Cornish pasties or pies in plastics wrappers)