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ElevenBells · 24/05/2025 06:31

After 10 years of being in the same job I have been offered voluntary redundancy at £20k (salary is 40k pro rata). Don’t particularly like my job, it’s dull and the office environment is toxic but the hours fit in with kids.
AIBU to take the money even though the job market is struggling and there’s few opportunities out there, especially part time which is what I would need. Realistically, I’d be applying for low level/minim wage jobs.
Background is that DH earns well but we have no savings as we weren’t able to get onto housing ladder until well into 30s so all savings have gone on deposit/jobs around the house.
I’m hoping to find a job, no matter how low the pay fairly quickly so I don’t have to dip into the redundancy payout and we can stick it in an ISA.
Is this madness? Senior management have assured staff that there are no plans for compulsory redundancies but they don’t have the best track record of keeping their word….

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ThierryHwasthebest · 25/05/2025 14:04

I did it last year after 35 years for the same employer. I don’t regret it for a minute but I was very lucky in that I walked away with a redundancy package which was equivalent of 3 years salary.
I have taken the year off and now going into a new career completely different but I didn’t want to go back into a corporate environment.

I might think twice if the package wasn’t something that I could live off for a year given the current job market.

Echlefecker · 25/05/2025 09:17

I took the leap.and did it 12 years ago. I was really fed up at work and it gave me the push to get out. I remember the solicitor when I signed the deal pressing me on how sure I was. She recognised that in our area there weren't the opportunities and I'd be giving up earning potential and pension. I did it anyway and I managed to get a job lined up before I left,.but it wasn't a massive happy ending at first. The money was soon swallowed up and I had to work double the hours to earn what I was earning before. I got two jobs, a school hours admin job and an evening job in a supermarket. It was good as I didn't need childcare but it was hard physically and I did struggle emotionally with the loss of my career and sense of self.
I ended up doing it for 5 years before the admin job morphed into something else and now I'm full time in a job that I love and I'm progressing in. I wouldn't have it any other way and I'm 100% glad I took the risk, but yeah it's a big decision!

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 25/05/2025 08:52

It's 6 months salary but worth a bit more than that as some will be tax free (not all of it as I would guess it's 20k inclusive of your notice period and stat redundancy and anything else they have to give you).

Do you think you can get another job within 6 months? That's an important question.

I would ask for at least 20k pay out on top of notice, holiday pay (for any unused annual leave) and stat redundancy pay.

You can probably negotiate more than currently is on the table as if you have been offered VR, they want people to go and going quietly and in a amenable way is better than the statutory process that will follow if they don't reduce staff

Middlechild3 · 25/05/2025 08:43

I've recently taken VR, I didn't have to but I was so fed up and unhappy in a toxic environment it felt like a golden rope ladder for me to escape. I'm older than you (from your kids ages) and have the security of a being able to take a pension within a year. I landed casual work straight away, but looking for a 'proper' job too. A couple of things I didn't think about. Leaving a job where you have longevity you have to start again in building those employment rights that kick in after 2 years, same with leave accrual. Other than that it's difficult to advise as everyone's circumstances and mindset are so different. As they are offering VR they are looking to save money/reduce headcount/restructure. If restructuring there may be new opportunities at your current place? If it's just cost cutting and there are no takers for VR it seems inevitable CR would follow in the organisation. It might not be a bad idea to spruce your CV up, and test the waters ahead of any decisions on your or your employers part.

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 25/05/2025 08:20

ElevenBells · 24/05/2025 06:57

He thinks I should take it, he knows I have very little job satisfaction but I’m much more cautious than him. I think I’m so institutionalised in my current job that I can’t even imagine working anywhere else 🤦‍♀️

My DH took redundancy about 3 years ago, it was a low paying job but his length of service meant a decent pay out. He found another job before he left his old one - still low pay but much nicer environment and hours that are perfect for working around our ds. We put his redundancy together with some savings and it meant we were able to sell our house and move to a nicer area.

He was very nervous about the jump, he's autistic with dyspraxia and had worked there since he was 19 but it was awful. He's so much better off where he is and it's given him some confidence too.

Luddite26 · 25/05/2025 08:08

Radiatorvalves · 24/05/2025 06:37

All of the payment should be tax free so it’s equivalent to more than 6 months money. And while not generous it’s more than statutory redundancy which might be round the corner. I’d take it and look for a new job.

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ThrowawayAccount29 · 25/05/2025 08:06

Justbidedmytime · 24/05/2025 07:17

Your benchmark is low if you took £10k on circa £50k salary for 9 years wevice!!

I thought that too! I got more than that for 10 years NHS service on a lower salary. However, their package is 1 months gross pay for every full year served which is how I ended up with £28.5k. (Maximum is 20 years I think)

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 08:06

Skipskipperroo · 25/05/2025 08:03

The university I work at offered six months salary if you have been there 2 years but over 3 years they offered a huge package according to the number of weeks served. All places are different.

Yes, all places are different. The package you describe is not on the radar in the sector, I'm wondering if you would share the name of the uni?

Skipskipperroo · 25/05/2025 08:03

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:49

Yes, around 6-7 months' salary, tax free up to a certain high threshold. That's really good, it will last nearly a year. Why would it be higher? That defeats the purpose of VR/VS, meaning many, many more jobs would have to go to meet savings targets...

The university I work at offered six months salary if you have been there 2 years but over 3 years they offered a huge package according to the number of weeks served. All places are different.

ThrowawayAccount29 · 25/05/2025 08:01

Do it!! I took VR from the NHS in 2023 and got £28.5k. I was so nervous the first day after I left, knowing I was jobless. However, I secured a job within 5 weeks which paid £13k pa more in the Civil Service 🙌 🙌 The Security checks took forever so I temped for a bit but now I’m loving it. We used the money to pay off our debts and have a dream holiday.

WooTangLang33 · 25/05/2025 07:55

I did and got another job the same week, my ex was telling me I would never get anything else and to stay put. I had done 18 years and got £17,000 (I worked park time). Best time I ever did, you need a different mindset, the working world is a massive place.

helibirdcomp · 25/05/2025 07:55

Why not contact local employment agencies to see what their view of the current employment situation and the type of employment they can offer

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:53

Skipskipperroo · 24/05/2025 07:57

Yes it's from a university! They were pretty desperate for people to take it so the package was too good to turn down.

The longest servers will get around £150k.

I am au fait with the university redundancy packages across the sector at the moment, and the package you describe is not available at any of them. Care to name the university?

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:51

ElevenBells · 24/05/2025 07:52

I do use after school and holidays clubs. I’m not against them. However, ideally I don’t want my kids being in school from 7.30am- 6.00pm 5 days a week. If I have to take a lower paid, part time job in order to avoid that then I am happy to do so.
And £5 per child for after school clubs/holiday clubs????? 😂😂😂😂😂

She said £5 per hour per child, which is correct.

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:49

Maray1967 · 24/05/2025 07:37

Lucky you! VR in universities will be around 6 months salary - including for 30 years service.

Yes, around 6-7 months' salary, tax free up to a certain high threshold. That's really good, it will last nearly a year. Why would it be higher? That defeats the purpose of VR/VS, meaning many, many more jobs would have to go to meet savings targets...

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:46

Skipskipperroo · 24/05/2025 07:27

I've just taken VL and got £32k. I've been there less than 2 years. You need to negotiate more!

I also hated my job and am starting a new job when I leave so I've been very lucky.

Employers don't pay severance or redundancy pay to employees who have been there less than two years.

DeskJotter · 25/05/2025 07:41

Justbidedmytime · 24/05/2025 06:33

That is a pathetic redundancy package for a decade service and current salary £40k

It's really not.

AliBaliBee1234 · 25/05/2025 06:34

Justbidedmytime · 24/05/2025 07:17

Your benchmark is low if you took £10k on circa £50k salary for 9 years wevice!!

Not everyone gets an enhanced package and the statutory amount is capped.

Needacupofteaandcrackers · 25/05/2025 06:12

I turned down be because despite good days I wasn’t sure dh would still respect me

JustMyView13 · 24/05/2025 09:47

IDontHateRainbows · 24/05/2025 08:58

Yes, the months notice is probably if employee gives it. If employer gives it, as in a redundancy situation, it will be minimum one week per full year served

Oftentimes, employers will pay notice in addition. Not always though.

Greenartywitch · 24/05/2025 08:58

Take it! a year's wage (I assume your salary is 40K pro rata) tax free is a good deal.

Also when companies start making voluntary redundancies it could be that compulsory redundancies are next so you might end up losing your job anyway and getting a less favourable pay out in a few months...

I hate my current company and I would take this offer with a big smile on my face!

IDontHateRainbows · 24/05/2025 08:58

JustMyView13 · 24/05/2025 07:37

If they’re making cuts, then things won’t stay as you know them forever.
You should get notice pay and holiday pay on top. At 10yrs service I’d be surprised if you’re on a months notice. I’d take the money, I’d find a job full time - make it work for 6 months then put in a flexible working request.

Yes, the months notice is probably if employee gives it. If employer gives it, as in a redundancy situation, it will be minimum one week per full year served

WasherWoman25 · 24/05/2025 08:55

What is your actual salary? (I can’t work out if £40k FTE or you are getting £40k) and what do you currently do with your salary, assume not save it given you have no savings, so how do you plan to live while you find a job and then take a £15k pay cut?

You talk about putting the money in an ISA but I don’t see how the money won’t be needed?

2JFDIYOLO · 24/05/2025 08:48

I did that, fifteen years ago after 25 years in the civil service. It was a good package and I'd do it again.

The good

The job had become tedious, with few development prospects. I'd learned new infinitely transferable skills and left with great memories, lasting friends.

Since then I've had opportunities and experiences I'd never have had if I'd stayed. My CV looks amazing ...

The bad

I'd never had to apply for a job since uni and I didn't have the first inkling of how to begin to think about trying to do it. Not a clue. And meanwhile the internet had happened and I was mystified. Because my employer had failed to give us one second of support and training how to survive out here.

If there is outplacement training available - grab it.

Polish your cv with all the keywords relevant to your profession and role you want.

Polish and use your linkedin to leverage your network - that's where the jobs are, not on the job sites.

And the ugly ...

Not only was I redundant, and unemployed, I was also peri menopausal, and I crashed. I was grieving the end of something that had been half my life, no longer able to describe myself in my accustomed terms. Who and what even was I. Everything had changed.

Yes, I had a cushion of cash. But a big chunk went on credit card debt and I just wallowed in the rest until one day I realised ... It's nearly all gone.

Because I'd failed to be prudent and to plan and set goals.

I had a huge piece of luck when a recruiter found me online and I got a six month contract where I reinvented myself and I'll always be thankful to him. That's happened three times since then. So make yourself VISIBLE.

I started my own business too - I highly recommend EVERYONE do that (the tax expenses, the extra personal development, contacts, extra income). Seriously, do it. You can be an employee AND self employed at the same time.

I had a brilliant 18 months contract that ended a year ago. I did a £5K month once during that, too.

Today, I'm having difficulty paying my mortgage.

It's very very difficult out here. Brilliant people on LinkedIn are shaken by how hard it is currently to get a new role.

Ageism is rife. Be strategic how you compose your CV etc if you're over 40.

Keep your wits about you. That money will flood out of your hands. Start looking for a new job NOW - the practice of applying and interviewing will be valuable. Be aware of your mental, emotional and physical state and be kind to yourself if you do go ahead.

All the best.

PinkTonic · 24/05/2025 08:41

DurinsBane · 24/05/2025 08:16

It’s a great package! Statutory would be a week for every year, so total £7,650. And I’m not sure they have to pay the 1st 2 years so it could be less….

They do have to pay the first two years but nevertheless it’s a lot more than statutory which is a week per year as you say, but the week is capped. There will be notice and any outstanding holiday entitlement on top (taxable). I don’t know why so many people are saying it’s a poor offer, it’s more than 6 months full time pay given it’s tax free.

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