Why are so many men perverts?

Have you always had cropped hair, no makeup, more masculine clothes? Just trying to think what triggers them into being like this as I assumed it was the same for every woman, and just being near a female makes them feral.

@Disturbia81 I have short, not cropped hair that is styled. I wear very little make up but usually have lipstick and earrings on when I leave the house of I am shopping or going to work. I usually wear jeans or trousers, but wear dresses in warmer weather. I don't look masculine at all.

I am pretty flat chested though and no strange man has ever tried to grab my tiny boobs. I also wear glasses.

So maybe it is the classic glasses and flat chest that keeps me out of trouble?

But how many times have how many of them been attacked in the streets, or harassed by groups of women?

Try watching that video I linked.

I believe you 😆 I’m just saying it does happen.

That’s good and refreshing to hear 😊

Have you always had cropped hair, no makeup, more masculine clothes? Just trying to think what triggers them into being like this as I assumed it was the same for every woman, and just being near a female makes them feral.

I look nothing at all like that description, and that's my point, it's REALLY not the same for every woman.

The only unpleasant encounter I have ever had in supermakets are people being too slow or in my way.

Yes to have sex with. It was happening when I was young and still happening now, many women do want no strings sex. Not saying all women at all, just saying it does happen. But not to the level men do it.

I think you are right and yes, I had a happy and secure childhood with two loving parents.

I have also been happily married for over 40 years and probably look unapproachable because I stride purposefully walk confidently and have an air of "don't mess with me because I won't take any bullshit".

I wasn't always like this. It took many years to feel this confident.

Those are the places it happens though. Commented whispered in supermarkets and walking along the road, uncomfortable staring, men waiting outside a shop for me to finish so they can say something, as I get older I see more how insidious it is.. we’re just lumps of flesh being hunted.
I have a resting bitch face and sadly it doesn’t put them off
Have you always had cropped hair, no makeup, more masculine clothes? Just trying to think what triggers them into being like this as I assumed it was the same for every woman, and just being near a female makes them feral.

Men are just primates, locked into primate ape dominance patterns, and since neither thought nor intelligence are valued nowadays their animal selves are being unleashed.

That sounds exactly like the kind of language that incels use when talking about women.

Some men are such creeps

That just about sums it up in a few words. there are some "normal" men still out there.

I’m on your side on this thread, and hate it when people say women are just as pervy/abusive etc

BUT I do know many women who go out to pull, it’s part of the night out starting from being young and beyond.

You’ve reminded me of this video of role reversal. Getting old now but makes the points.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=V4UWxlVvT1A&t=8s&pp=2AEIkAIB

Men are just primates, locked into primate ape dominance patterns, and since neither thought nor intelligence are valued nowadays their animal selves are being unleashed.

But you are not disproving my point

‘Some men don’t see women as human beings’
Clearly, or there wouldn't be any abuse/ rape and pervs in general.

No one is denying this, but it doesn't mean we assume that every man we see is a potential perv, anymore than we assume that every parent we see is potential abuser until proven otherwise.

If I walk past 500 men and ONE man tries to sexually assault me, I will only remember the perv, and might get wary of everyone in case I end up facing another one. It doesn't mean that all 500 men are potential rapists because one is.

I’ve had women talking about their labias, hot gardeners and feeling so horny they could shag anything.

also women go out to pull all the time.

I have a very don't mess with me attitude and I think men see it as a challenge not a deterrent. Sadly my experience has been the nice guys are few and far between and I've traveled so met lots of people over the years. Male entitlement is alive and kicking.

men don't see women as all the way human

that's when I believe this is ridiculous, and untrue.
It's not a case of "not all men" 🙄, it's simply that men are not a different species or by definition and nature litter ally an enemy or a predator. That is nonsense.

NO ONE is pretending there are no pervs. but you could compare with child abuse. No one is denying that child abuse exist, and it's uncomfortable to understand why it even happens in the first place. It doesn't mean that "all parents are potential abusers, because they see children as inferior and not all the way human, but some hide it better than others". It would be exactly the same reasoning.

Maybe I have a "don't mess with me face"?

Or maybe it is because of where I live - rural with not great public transport, so I mostly drive. When I get the train I have my head stuck in a book.

Our village streets aren't teeming with people and it is usual to his hello to anyone you walk past whether you know them or not. The only time I come across lots of people is at work, in town or the supermarket.

It’s socialisation, they believe they have the right to do so. I’m sure most women have sexual thoughts, but we know it’s not polite or appropriate to repeat them.