Ugh I just need to vent. Mum has been ill for last 4 years and lost her partner...and is turning 60 in september. Brother has not been in employment for years and does nothing but game. She has very few friends if any and family not bothered because she is cantankerous and pushed everyone away. If i take her away i will have to pay for everything as she is on sickness.
My aunt asked me what I was planning for my mum, and it just made me realise that it all falls to me. I did a lil meal for her 50th and took her to canada for her 40th. Obvs I want to do something and I love her....but i just need to vent that its always me when no one else cares or picks up the bill.
Anyone else experience this?