In laws and partners family visiting to see new baby 👶

Is got to my mums, your DH can stay and deal with his family. Thats his choice, your have yours.

The last thing you want with a new born is poor sleep and noise.

At least your mum will help out.

Wow. That's... Very hospitable...
Unless the family members have form for being intrusive/unpleasant in some way, I can't imagine telling family who were on a plane for 12h to visit me and paid thousands for the privilege, that I can see them 2h a day !
Obviously I wouldn't be playing host with them - they need whatever they can get it themselves. But aside from that I can't see what the issue is with them staying at home, so long as they clean after themselves.

They absolutely need to stay in a hotel or airbnb, you’re sitting here worried if they’ll be uncomfortable but they don’t seem to have the same consideration for you x

This sounds like it will be incredibly stressful for you OP. Honest of with a tiny baby you will want your space and to be able to relax and rest. They need to stay elsewhere(or you stay at your parents).

I don't know why they haven't booked alternative accommodation.
It won't work.

This is the definition of squalor!
Horrendous.

At one month old, you will be spending as much time in the living room as you will in the bedroom, across all 24 hours of the day. Baby doesn’t know and won’t know that it’s suppose to sleep quietly beside you all night.

You will be walking the halls, going in and out of the kitchen, singing, using the bathroom, changing baby’s clothes, changing your clothes, putting washing on. The house will be busy at all hours. Does your DH know this?

Visitors in your only living room will be totally inappropriate.

How long are they all staying op?

I think your patience for house guests will change and you will want to relax and enjoy your new baby.

When my DD was a month old some nights we would be awake the entire night and it would have been hard if we had been stuck in one room with family sleeping in the living areas. I would not have wanted to be making up beds, dealing with extra food shops and cooking for two families while having no personal space because they barge in.

Tell him you will be there in the morning and during the day but head home in the evening to put the baby to bed.
Then dh can kip on the sittingroom and parents and sister can have the bedrooms.

So what if they think that you're being rude; they're not considering you! That's rude.
Either way someone will be 'rude' but it doesn't have to be with you being stressed, exhausted, and overwhelmed as well.

Goodness OP, absolutely not. With a one month old you could have had a section, struggle with feeding, up and down all night every night, crying and exhaustion. This is such a bad idea. If they take you going to your parents as rude then so be it. You need to look after yourself and the baby. You and baby are the first and only priority.

Honestly, take it from those of us who have had a baby or two - this is absolutely not going to work! There are plenty of cheaper caravan parks etc in Cornwall rather than a B&B. If they want to visit, they need to find accommodation

Nope nopety nope nope no.
Do not under any circumstances let this happen.

That’s going to be hell on Earth with a newborn.

I’d be going to my parents house with the baby, your partner can do as he wishes. But they shouldn’t be staying with you. They should get a hotel.

Its not rude, it’s sensible.

This is fucking nuts. Don't set yourself on fire trying to keep visitors happy when you will be postpartum.

Your comfort comes first. Your baby's comfort is your comfort. Do you want your baby to feed poorly and be miserable? Not sleep? Be readmitted to the hospital? Travelling to and fro every day in summer is not a good set up for your baby either. Plus, you will be using the bathroom frequently for things like pericare.

They stay in a hotel. You do not have the room to house them.

Put your vulnerable infant first. Relatives can take care of themselves. Your baby can't.

You need to work on your people pleasing and set boundaries with everyone including your husband.

No, no, no.
This will be far too stressful. You're going to need space and they are being ridiculous expecting you to cope with this many visitors and a new baby.
If DH really won't listen take yourself and the baby off to your parents.

Tell your husband he needs to sort it, or you and baby will go to your parents while they are here and won’t be travelling back and forth as much. Your baby - and you - is priority here!!

The ones based in the UK stay either at a hotel, air bnb or your parent’s house. It’s not practical for them to stay in the living room and you need space with baby if they need to sleep, feed etc.

Put your foot down now otherwise it will be a nightmare when baby comes. Your DH needs to prioritise you and baby now.

They need to stay in a hotel. I’m not one of these people that doesn’t want visitors around a newborn, but on a practical level, your house becomes a 24 hour working machine. We was having to make a bottle every 3 hours to feed baby, so when one of us slept the other had the baby. I don’t think visitors would enjoy people making bottles or creeping around at 3am haunting the house.

Honestly that’s way too many people for a 2 bed house. Even 4 adults and a baby would be tough. Is there only one bathroom also?

I would never have agreed to that many people staying at once especially with a newborn. Your partner is underestimating how hard it will be all under one roof.

if the sister lives in the uk why is she visiting at the same time?

They all need to either go to a hotel or to your parents and DP needs to tell them that. You don't want house guests with a 1mo

A million times this.