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I have begun relying on AI and I don’t know how I feel about it.

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Tusktusk · 21/05/2025 22:16

So far this month I have used AI to:

Analyse my colours (thanks MN) and suggest outfits

Create a menu of packed lunches around my dietary requirements and preferences, complete with a shopping list

Plan a holiday itinerary

Save me hours and hours of work and stress by suggesting really useful ways to overcome very particular work difficulties, having been thrown into an out of my comfort zone situation. I have used AI for this on a daily basis this week

Tonight, instead of posting my current family dilemma on mumsnet I chatted about it with Claude. The responses were really good. Wise, thoughtful, non judgemental, practical, understanding… like the best mumsnetters.

Am I starting to rely on it too much?

What have you been using it for?

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/05/2025 19:11

CapitalAtRisk · 26/05/2025 19:05

Ha ha. Is that your best comeback? Because you haven't actually thought about the power that is involved in looking at various websites for some useful input?

I'm actually the very definition of a Luddite and if I had any choice wouldn't be using modern technology at all frankly. And Luddites weren't just regressive thickos. They gave a shit about the people industrialisation displaced. As do I. If you really think the positives of AI etc outweigh the negatives, that's fine. I happen to disagree. It's called a debate.

CapitalAtRisk · 26/05/2025 19:05

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/05/2025 19:03

Alright Claude, don't worry it seems you and Hal have more fawning friends than opposers.

Ha ha. Is that your best comeback? Because you haven't actually thought about the power that is involved in looking at various websites for some useful input?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/05/2025 19:03

CapitalAtRisk · 26/05/2025 18:57

But Google just lists websites for me. That I must then visit. Maybe two or three, to get a useful answer. And those websites use server power. And so do my visits.

It's about time people stopped parroting "OMG AI uses soooo much power!" and started using critical thinking.

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Alright Claude, don't worry it seems you and Hal have more fawning friends than opposers.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 26/05/2025 19:03

It has no personal biases

It displays consistent racist and sexist bias

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 26/05/2025 18:59

taxguru · 26/05/2025 18:40

True though. The march of technology will wait for no one. Embrace it or get left behind. Best to go with the flow rather than trying to hold back the tide.

Fuck that shit. Who wants to live in a world where people outsource basic thought functions to a fucking plagiarism machine?

Whatalife88 · 26/05/2025 18:59

changedusernameforthis1 · 21/05/2025 23:02

I used mine to help me decide on what to do with the garden. Just uploaded a photo and asked it to make it look better. Also got links to buy the things in the photo and can't wait to get started.

Got a good few recipes tailored to my health needs as all I could find myself was same old.

It actually massively helped today when my card got declined at Tesco checkout. Money was in there, but it just wasn't working and everyone was staring. I asked the staff to keep my trolley aside as I tried to fix it and asked AI for advice.
Was told to buy an online gift card instead. Literally saved my day.

DW found a dress she'd been searching for for years - no photos, just a description of it and the year she bought it.

I also check with it before buying something to find out where else could be selling it cheaper.

Hate how my hair looks, so I put up a photo of my face and asked for suggestions. Came up with one that really suits me and makes me feel better about myself.

For those people who say they'd never use it due to the damage it causes, I hope you also don't drive, don't fly, don't use air con or run fans etc in summer, only use fully recyclable packaging and never buy anything online for home delivery. Considering we're all on Mumsnet anyway, it might be worth checking what damage using the internet does while you're at it. It all contributes.

Please can you tell me the name of this app? Ty

CapitalAtRisk · 26/05/2025 18:57

ThisRoseReader · 26/05/2025 15:28

Google Search: Uses 0.0003 kWh per query, emitting 0.2g CO2.
ChatGPT: Uses 0.0029 kWh per query (10x more energy), emitting 68g CO2.

But Google just lists websites for me. That I must then visit. Maybe two or three, to get a useful answer. And those websites use server power. And so do my visits.

It's about time people stopped parroting "OMG AI uses soooo much power!" and started using critical thinking.

YourQuirkyLimeSnail · 26/05/2025 18:50

It has no personal biases and can process huge amounts of data quickly.

I think it's the future of a lot of healthcare among other things.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/05/2025 18:48

I'm beginning to think that episode of Black Mirror where the plebs have to generate electricity by riding static bikes and "win" freedom would appeal to so many posters here.

doodahdayy · 26/05/2025 18:45

taxguru · 26/05/2025 18:40

True though. The march of technology will wait for no one. Embrace it or get left behind. Best to go with the flow rather than trying to hold back the tide.

We’ll all get left behind whether you kiss AI arse or not.

taxguru · 26/05/2025 18:40

True though. The march of technology will wait for no one. Embrace it or get left behind. Best to go with the flow rather than trying to hold back the tide.

pelargoniums · 26/05/2025 18:33

TangenitalContrivences · 26/05/2025 15:23

You will be very rapidly left behind. If you don’t get on this wagon you’ll be surplus’s to requirements.

Fucking hell 😂

Ten times funnier if you read this in a sinister robot voice

Sdrena · 26/05/2025 18:30

TangenitalContrivences · 26/05/2025 15:23

You will be very rapidly left behind. If you don’t get on this wagon you’ll be surplus’s to requirements.

I doubt whether knowing how to prompt AI or not is going to be the deciding factor as to whether someone is ‘surplus to requirements’. If it’s going to steamroller whole industries, then the ability to get ChatGPT to create a PowerPoint presentation or devise a holiday itinerary is not going to save anyone.

I completely agree, btw, with the pp who pointed out the glee some seem to have about the comeuppance we AI cynics are going to get.

TangenitalContrivences · 26/05/2025 17:00

Maggiethecat · 26/05/2025 16:54

sounds like people are going to be surplus soon

Well let’s face it quite a lot already are. We will have to decide how we deal with that increase on %

Maggiethecat · 26/05/2025 16:54

TangenitalContrivences · 26/05/2025 15:23

You will be very rapidly left behind. If you don’t get on this wagon you’ll be surplus’s to requirements.

sounds like people are going to be surplus soon

taxguru · 26/05/2025 15:53

Clearing out MIL's house, there are a few very old pieces of furniture and some very old ornaments. OH was going to send the ornaments to the charity shop and get the council to come to take the furniture to the tip (they charge for that!).

After seeing someone mention using AI for pictures, I took some photos and have uploaded to ChatGPT to ask it what they are, and what they're worth. Wow! Glad I did. I know you can't be 100% certain, but it's given really accurate descriptions/dates of many of the items with pretty impressive values. I've checked a few things out myself just to check and it seems to be spot on. Realistically, could be looking a several hundred pounds worth (at lowest valuation prices) and maybe into a couple of thousand if they go well at auction!

Some of them were inherited by MIL from her parents/grandparents, so when ChatGPT dates them to Victorian era, it could well be right!

happytobemrsg · 26/05/2025 15:41

I’m currently using it to meal plan to my specific preferences. It’s brilliant

ThisRoseReader · 26/05/2025 15:28

CapitalAtRisk · 21/05/2025 23:54

Do you know how much energy Google queries need?
Do you know how much energy websites that Google sends you to need?

And I'm sorry you're so worried about your skills and power of critical thought, but today I made a mod for a CMS I use with Claude and ChatGPT, and I'm not even sorry.

Google Search: Uses 0.0003 kWh per query, emitting 0.2g CO2.
ChatGPT: Uses 0.0029 kWh per query (10x more energy), emitting 68g CO2.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 26/05/2025 15:25

Did you mean to sound a bit like a.fascist there?

TangenitalContrivences · 26/05/2025 15:23

Superhansrantowindsor · 25/05/2025 06:11

No I don’t fly but yes to the other two. Thing is though - I have decided that those things in my life are needed. Since I have managed fine without AI up to now - it’s no burden to stop using it. We got an account set up for us at work. Used it a few times to make some worksheets then thought it wasn’t worth it. My life is definitely not as good for the environment as it could be so little things I can do easily like recycling, walking where possible and not using AI are at least a start.

You will be very rapidly left behind. If you don’t get on this wagon you’ll be surplus’s to requirements.

YourQuirkyLimeSnail · 26/05/2025 13:06

I've started doing the same and think it's great.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/05/2025 10:08

The biggest problem around the idea of AI potentially achieving "consciousness" is that A, we don't fully understand consciousness in humans as it is, and B, in this era of misinformation/disinformation we could be manipulated by humans to believe it has, even if it hasn't or it isn't because how the heck would we know?

I have so many thoughts around all this, and fully accept that many are probably fuelled by paranoia and fear of the unknown.

One such fear is that we have been primed to "follow the science" - we saw how that became a dogma during Covid, and even though science is actually based on continuous testing and questioning many people became fixed on certain ideas and beliefs and even when it became obvious that it was a constantly evolving situation it was difficult for many to shift the original beliefs, which lead to so much division and unpleasantness.

Also, I see a parallel between the concepts of "God" and AI - something all seeing and all powerful that can be used both practically and psychologically in many potentially damaging ways.

When you lose trust in your very senses, due to the information being presented and the possibility that it isn't "real" we're in scary territory.

I remember a few years ago, there were bus shelters, where the end panel appeared to show the street beyond, but scenes like UFOs and dinosaurs could be digitally superimposed as if visible through the panel. I was appalled then - the "what ifs" went through my head. "What if" it startled someone enough that they ran into the road? "What if" someone with mental health issues believed what they were seeing and it caused them to spiral? I really didn't think it was just harmless fun, as presented.

There is a huge scope for harm with all this, and I wish I had confidence that TPTB and the innovators were all invested in benign outcomes and benefits, but the world being as it is at the moment, that confidence is sadly lacking.

I just can't shake the feeling that this is not going to end well, and we might not have time to realise it.

doodahdayy · 26/05/2025 09:47

I had no idea many people were so dependent on it until several MN posts say similar

Maggiethecat · 26/05/2025 09:42

I’ve been sleepwalking through the rise of AI and its implications.
Need to learn more about it but so far I feel very uncomfortable about the scope for dependency on it especially given that we live in the disinformation era.

doodahdayy · 26/05/2025 09:26

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 26/05/2025 05:54

Why the fuck do you need a computer to do your colours? Just hold bits of cloth near your face and see which looks nice. Ai has no fricking clue what you look like or what your colours are, it is just spitting out strings of words that you think sound authoritative.

It appeals to the unimaginative and gullible. I think you can upload a photo which I think is gullible in itself.

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