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Breastfeeding a SIX year old - aibu?

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flufffffy · 21/05/2025 19:55

I was taking to another mother at gymnastics yesterday. She casually mentioned that she sometimes still breastfeeds her SIX year old. That sometimes her six year old will come to her and “have a go” and that she has milk left. I’m not making this up, it really happened, and she wasn’t pulling my leg.

I truly had no idea what to do with my face, so I made it look very polite.

Isn’t this a bit weird? I mean, the six year old will remember it when she’s older, surely?

I want to be told I’m being judgemental and unreasonable - because I feel bad for being so judgmental and horrified!

This child has no younger siblings, btw, so it’s not like she’s doing it because they are.

I have a six year old boy and there’s no way in hell I would occasionally breastfeed him! I breastfed up until he was 18 months, so it’s not like I’m not sympathetic to long-ish term breastfeeding.

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SiberianHusky · 21/05/2025 19:59

My DC is a teenager and remembers being breastfed at 4 and it's fine.
My concern with a 6 year old is that they might get bullied or they might be some emotional issue between the mum or the child like anxiousness but I'm only hypothesising with no research or knowledge!

titchy · 21/05/2025 19:59

Calliopespa · 21/05/2025 19:57

These big babies on the boobs threads are coming thick and fast.

Aren’t they just. Don’t feed it folks.

Millie90 · 21/05/2025 19:59

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Hafta · 21/05/2025 19:59

Everyone else said it's natural it's not it's bloody weird

Calliopespa · 21/05/2025 19:58

Dryshampoofordays · 21/05/2025 19:58

anthropologically mammals tend to feed until their young get their adult teeth. Obviously it’s not common but I wouldn’t judge. My in laws were horrified i went past age 2

I have impacted molars. Where does that leave me?!

Dryshampoofordays · 21/05/2025 19:58

anthropologically mammals tend to feed until their young get their adult teeth. Obviously it’s not common but I wouldn’t judge. My in laws were horrified i went past age 2

LondonLady1980 · 21/05/2025 19:57

Is there something wrong with a child having memories of being breastfed?!

I didn’t realise this was a red flag for causing childhood trauma…..

Millie90 · 21/05/2025 19:57

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heavenisaplaceonearth · 21/05/2025 19:57

I think till about four is fairly standard outside of those places that were conned by the formula companies. I’m not sure why “he will remember it” is such a taboo?

Calliopespa · 21/05/2025 19:57

These big babies on the boobs threads are coming thick and fast.

SiberianHusky · 21/05/2025 19:56

I breastfed my only DC til 4 years but I feel 6 is pushing

dairydebris · 21/05/2025 19:56

Just smile and nod and mind your own business.

MerrionMiriam · 21/05/2025 19:55

Strap in folks.