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To think it’s actually really unfair to be charged for bank holidays at nursery?

282 replies

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:08

And no, I’m not going to complain about it because I don’t want anyone to think I begrudge the staff a day off. I don’t. But I do resent paying for a service I’m not receiving.

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ACynicalDad · 20/05/2025 22:44

This pissed me off so much when we had kids in nursery, especially if not full time as those on MT&W lost much more to BHs than say a TW&T booking. Yes, they should be paid, no you should not be billed when no service is available, even if you pay a tiny bit more a day to cover it, this is not reasonable.

Elektra1 · 20/05/2025 22:41

Change your working days if you don’t like it. “They should pay from their profits” is an absurd statement. Everyone knows that nurseries are on their knees and barely make a profit.

jannier · 20/05/2025 22:39

Rememberwhatthedoorknobsaid · 20/05/2025 21:40

It is outrageous that you are charged for a service when it is closed. Lots of people slating your viewpoint and then in the same breath conceding that they have opted out of Mondays to avoid paying it themselves! How many people would be happy to pay their cleaner/builder/tutor for not attending on a bank holiday? You do not employ the nursery staff directly so if their employer wants to give them the day off, this needs to come out of a central fund and be budgeted for in a way that does not adversely affect a small proportion of clients.

Are you aware of the nursery funding crisis?

Fruitbat99 · 20/05/2025 22:28

TVWife · 20/05/2025 18:15

If they didn't charge for bank holidays they would have to charge more for the other days in order to cover costs but I do think it would be fairer on parents.

It seems unfair that a place for a child attending Monday, Tuesday and Friday costs the same as for one attending Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday when most bank holidays are on Mondays/Fridays

No, they don't have to, they could take it out of profits.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 22:24

You pay for all the staff's holidays, 5.6 weeks a year, not just the bank holidays. It's part of your fees. Why get upset about the bank holidays only?

Fragmentedbrain · 20/05/2025 22:22

Small business owners raking it in from nurseries are immoral creeps.

Ditto small business owners raking it in from elder care.

modgepodge · 20/05/2025 22:22

The classic answer to this has come up numerous times already - ‘I assume you are paid for bank holidays?’ No, actually im
not. I’m self employed and no work = no pay. so can I not pay the nursery or at least have the right to moan about it?

One of the things I do is run a club for children, including on a Monday. On the May bank holiday I couldn’t run it cos the school I run it in was closed. So, I didn’t charge the parents for that week. I can’t imagine many of them would have been happy to pay for it if I had tried to do that! Does everyone pay out for their kids football/ballet/gymnastics or whatever when it falls on a bank holiday? Or do you find that the activity provider doesn’t bill
you for that week?

MermaidMummy06 · 20/05/2025 22:22

It used to make me a bit ragey when DC were in child care. But it's just the payment system makes it obvious because they charge per day. I'm in Aus, where it's similar, and here there's a charging cap so they can't raise rates across the year to cover public holidays, so charge for them instead.

By contrast, DS is now in a private high school & we pay per term, not day, so paying for public holidays aren't even a thought. The annoyance here is that private schools get more school holidays which primary parents have to often pay to cover extra child care.

fungibletoken · 20/05/2025 22:22

Thisisittheapocalypse · 20/05/2025 22:09

But it is.

It is a national holiday and the staff still has to be paid for that day off. Just like you do in your job.

We get paid on bank holidays but it comes out of the company's profits. It has to because we can't/don't charge any work to clients that day. So it doesn't have to be a choice between paying your staff or charging customers. I'm not sure why so many people seem to see private nurseries effectively as charities!

mamabeeboo · 20/05/2025 22:19

Just to clarify, nurseries are not "struggling businesses". They may pay their workers a low wage considering the importance of their job, but I have two separate friends who are both in the process of buying nursery number 2 and 3 because it's so profitable.
( And it's a struggle to meet up with them because they are always on holiday!)

Barrenfieldoffucks · 20/05/2025 22:11

LegoLandslide · 20/05/2025 18:12

Yes, for everything else you pay a little extra every other working day and it works itself out. Nursery is the only example I've come across where you literally pay extra for a service you don't receive, if you only access it part time.

I agree it's annoying but I also accept that being annoyed is pointless as its now an industry standard.

Agreed. Like many other businesses, we have to pay our staff for bank holidays, but obviously this is just a coat of doing business. Not sure why it has become the norm for customers to cover that cost!

Thisisittheapocalypse · 20/05/2025 22:09

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:09

I literally say in my post I don’t begrudge the staff a day off. That’s not what this is about.

But it is.

It is a national holiday and the staff still has to be paid for that day off. Just like you do in your job.

doodleschnoodle · 20/05/2025 21:48

And mine have both gone Mondays and Fridays so would have been pretty rubbish otherwise.

doodleschnoodle · 20/05/2025 21:47

Ours doesn’t close on bank holidays. It’s great! It’s closed two weeks at Christmas and that’s it.

fashionqueen0123 · 20/05/2025 21:46

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

If you work part time avoid Mondays. Not just for this reason but because it also means your holiday gets swallowed up by them. If you avoid Mondays you get to choose a different day for your holiday.

ConfusedxApple · 20/05/2025 21:44

My youngest attends nursery on Mondays and we are not invoiced for bank holidays when they are shut. Daily fees are an eye-watering £95 though (London) so I assume they have factored in bank holidays to that in order to spread the cost amongst all parents. I think that's fair.

Rememberwhatthedoorknobsaid · 20/05/2025 21:40

It is outrageous that you are charged for a service when it is closed. Lots of people slating your viewpoint and then in the same breath conceding that they have opted out of Mondays to avoid paying it themselves! How many people would be happy to pay their cleaner/builder/tutor for not attending on a bank holiday? You do not employ the nursery staff directly so if their employer wants to give them the day off, this needs to come out of a central fund and be budgeted for in a way that does not adversely affect a small proportion of clients.

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 21:11

that’s your bad planning

Well, for one thing, not everyone has the luxury of choosing the days they work. Quite a few organisations will happily agree to part time but they tell you which days you are working.

DH WFH Monday and Friday. I therefore work on those days. So it’s good planning from the point of view of our family. It does not mean I should have to pay for a nursery that isn’t open.

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Youcancallmeirrelevant · 20/05/2025 21:07

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

That's your bad planning, I changed my working days to send my kids Tues,Weds and Thurs so I didn't have to pay for bank holidays. Most people I know avoid sending their kids both Mondays and Fridays

beesandstrawberries · 20/05/2025 21:07

I didn’t even know that was a thing - that is ridiculous. You pay for a service, you’re not receiving that service so why should you have to pay. You’re not an employer, it’s not your company so why should the costs fall on you.

I feel for the people who have to work bank holidays and find alternative childcare - ultimately paying twice.

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 21:05

CeciliaMars · 20/05/2025 20:55

But if they had a day off unpaid, it wouldn’t be a bank holiday for them. The whole point of bank holidays is that they are an extra paid day off. Therefore service users such as yourself have to cover this. YABU.

No one is suggesting they should not be paid; the opposite.

What we are suggesting is that this pay should not solely be the responsibility of the parents of the Monday children.

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jannier · 20/05/2025 21:01

LegoLandslide · 20/05/2025 18:12

Yes, for everything else you pay a little extra every other working day and it works itself out. Nursery is the only example I've come across where you literally pay extra for a service you don't receive, if you only access it part time.

I agree it's annoying but I also accept that being annoyed is pointless as its now an industry standard.

Unfortunately the government now control 3/4s of the childcare businesses and have say over the remaining 1/4 if you can think of any other private businesses who have the charges and terms and conditions dictated by government id like to know which industry it is.

mcmooberry · 20/05/2025 21:00

I hate this too, the minute I went on Maternity leave I changed my DS's Monday to a Tuesday

CeciliaMars · 20/05/2025 20:55

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:09

I literally say in my post I don’t begrudge the staff a day off. That’s not what this is about.

But if they had a day off unpaid, it wouldn’t be a bank holiday for them. The whole point of bank holidays is that they are an extra paid day off. Therefore service users such as yourself have to cover this. YABU.

Pjrunner · 20/05/2025 20:45

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:08

And no, I’m not going to complain about it because I don’t want anyone to think I begrudge the staff a day off. I don’t. But I do resent paying for a service I’m not receiving.

You’ll get a lot of heat for this post. (I did when I made a similar point!). I felt the same as you. I find it bizarre to be charged when they are closed. The same I always felt there should have been a little flexibility on holidays/sickness.like a certain amount of days a year. Also my nursery would choose to close after lunch just before Christmas but still charge for a full day. I’m self employed and a single mum with no other childcare and so end up losing a days work AND pay for nursery when they are closed so it’s a double whammy. they have us over a barrel!!
My daughter is at a pre-school now and doesn’t go on a Monday!

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