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To think it’s actually really unfair to be charged for bank holidays at nursery?

282 replies

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:08

And no, I’m not going to complain about it because I don’t want anyone to think I begrudge the staff a day off. I don’t. But I do resent paying for a service I’m not receiving.

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Imdoodleladie · 21/05/2025 22:51

Usually these nurseys are owned by very wealthy people. In an ideal world the owners would pay out of thier considerable profits .Even though it would cost them a lot. I expect they make a large enough profit to afford to pay even half.. I understand your rant/vent. Unfortunately, it is what it is.

Tandora · 21/05/2025 22:44

FedupofArsenalgame · 21/05/2025 21:51

Difference is you have the option of driving or going to the gym. In this scenario you don't have the option to use the childcare you've paid for. And often have to pay for another lot on top as you need to work

Agree. It’s ridiculous. My childminder does not charge for days she isn’t working,

brunettemic · 21/05/2025 22:38

RawBloomers · 21/05/2025 10:26

Are you just so bad at math you can’t imagine how the nursery could calculate the cost of bank holidays and roll it into the day rate for everyone to cover?

I financial model as part of my job so yes I’m more than capable of doing the “math” thanks for asking. Given that cash management will be very important to a nursery, rolling up chances into prices over a 12 month period/cycle to account for specific dates in a completely different cycle will become quite difficult for them to do. Managing it this way aligns their cash in and their cash out far better/cleaner (by cash I mean payments, it’s a turn of phrase in cash you can’t figure it out). They most likely have basic bookkeeping services and someone simply doing their accounts so won’t have a full cash management approach. Happy to build you an excel model explaining it if that helps.

ladygindiva · 21/05/2025 22:15

Interestingly my friend who works in a nursery doesn't get paid for bank holidays. She either loses a days pay or is forced to take it as annual leave.

Barrenfieldoffucks · 21/05/2025 21:57

Exactly. I do not understand why this is the customer's cost to bear. It never affected us as we didn't use or need childcare at that stage, but as employers we pay our staff for bank holidays and that is part of the cost of employing staff.

FedupofArsenalgame · 21/05/2025 21:51

Tangled123 · 21/05/2025 16:58

It really annoyed me that we still had to pay for my daughter’s nursery when it was closed, especially when it closed for two weeks randomly in the summer. I see the logic though and they’d get the money out of us some way though. It’s also not like you can pay less for insurance or the gym (for example) if you end up not driving or working out for a day.

Difference is you have the option of driving or going to the gym. In this scenario you don't have the option to use the childcare you've paid for. And often have to pay for another lot on top as you need to work

Fruitbat99 · 21/05/2025 20:54

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 21/05/2025 16:48

This!

which I’ve noted the OP has failed to answer 🤔

No she hasn't, she answered saying she doesn't

Rainbowchicken · 21/05/2025 20:45

I was never charged for bank holidays, not all nurseries do. I would have been annoyed too tbh.

bouncinround · 21/05/2025 20:41

@jannier i definitely pay more than that.

Nursery costs for my two children for two days a week are nearly £1000 a month, that’s with funded hours.

I don’t begrudge the nursery staff a penny. But that’s not where it’s going. And I don’t object to a business making a profit, but it needs to be a fair profit.

Anyway, it isn’t really relevant to this particular bugbear TBH.

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jannier · 21/05/2025 20:38

Gail54 · 21/05/2025 15:34

The cost if childcare is exorbitant. They pay employed staff minimum wage. Their overheads can be high, but they cut every corner to it's minimum. Leaving huge profits for the Nursery Owners. Yes we pay for shop staff's holidays, hospital workers holidays either via taxes or in what you buy and pay for. But in thus and any other "care situation" the owners of these businesses know the paying customers are over a barrel for approx 5 years, until the child enters full time education. Most families want the income from both parents to fulfill the costs if living they lifestyle they demand, so that's the price you hacmve to pay. If you are prepared to down grade look after your own children you risk the chance of not getting back into your chosen profession or having to start off again at a lower grade or switch professions even. And all offerings will be at a .uch reduced salary than when you got pregnant. Even employers will think again and again over employing parents of child bearing ages. Should they invest time and money into employees who may one day walk away because their "ideal family" life is calling. As the say you pick your choice. Ideally I suppose you train in child care, you have your own children ensuring that your premises etc are up to scratch to take in additional children. Payments stay in your pockets. You then become the "owner" of a child care establishment and make big bucks while laying in the sun with your own children growing up nicely in private schools paid for by your businesses profits.

Most nurseries are in crisis not making huge profits if the government pay £5 per hour per child how can there be a huge profit when you look at staffing ratios, additional staff, rent, electricity, food costs, consumable costs etc. ?

jannier · 21/05/2025 20:32

tomorrowchild · 21/05/2025 12:38

I’ve never had to use a nursery for my dcs and I’m suprised that you would be charged for bank holidays when they are not open! I agree the staff costs should be factored into the overheads or split fairly between all customers. Not a direct bill to the Monday users. I work in retail and although we don’t get a paid day off, we do get a bank holiday premium for working. The company does not raise their prices specifically on that day though to be able to pay the bank holiday staff their extra pay. Could you imagine popping into your local supermarket and paying an extra 25% for your loaf of bread on bank holiday Monday just because the staff are being paid a little extra? It’s the company policy to give paid time off to the nursery workers so they should factor that cost in somewhere else

How would they raise prices to cover it if the government had come along and cut the prices by 25% and said you can only increase prices on chocolate and alcohol but if the customer wants to they can add their own to the shopping bag for free and you deliver it ....essentially nurseries are now not allowed to charge extra for anything needed to provide the eyes and and extras must be voluntary and they can't insist on additional hours.

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:29

Edited to add into my post above

Bitchesbelike · 21/05/2025 19:29

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

I totally get it. If I sent my kids to nursery every Tuesday. I would pay for 52 days childcare and recieve 52 days childcare.

but if my child went to nursery every Monday; I’d pay for 52 days childcare and only recieve 48 days childcare

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:27

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 19:25

Well that's not entirely true. I get 28 leave days and no bank holidays. This is in the private sector.

Every job I've ever had has been the same. We used to get paid time and a half on a bank Holiday but that's a thing of the past now.

28 days leave is 5.6 weeks.

That is exactly what I have just said.

Some employers state it differently (eg break out the bank holidays), but it still has to add up to the same.

Just to edit - maybe it's the way I have worded it.

What I mean is it doesn't have to be the actual bank holidays, but it has to add up to the same amount.

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 19:25

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:05

In the UK?
You are entitled to a minimum of 5.6 weeks paid annual leave per year (pro rata for part time) this includes bank holidays, so some people get it broken down onto 4 weeks annual leave plus 8 days bank holiday.
Others just get it rolled up into one lump of 5.6 weeks.

Companies are of course allowed to give above the statutory minimum. But they cannot give less.

Well that's not entirely true. I get 28 leave days and no bank holidays. This is in the private sector.

Every job I've ever had has been the same. We used to get paid time and a half on a bank Holiday but that's a thing of the past now.

Andthelittleonesaidrollover · 21/05/2025 19:05

Brokeandold · 21/05/2025 17:57

I work in a term time, committee run, not for profit setting, we don't get paid for bank holidays.
No idea if the parents get charged for bank holidays tho.

In the UK?
You are entitled to a minimum of 5.6 weeks paid annual leave per year (pro rata for part time) this includes bank holidays, so some people get it broken down onto 4 weeks annual leave plus 8 days bank holiday.
Others just get it rolled up into one lump of 5.6 weeks.

Companies are of course allowed to give above the statutory minimum. But they cannot give less.

TipsyMaker · 21/05/2025 18:02

I don't understand this, for Bank Holidays I HAVE to take it as annual leave, so I'm paid but it's out of my leave entitlement. Surely that's a better way to do it?

Brokeandold · 21/05/2025 17:57

I work in a term time, committee run, not for profit setting, we don't get paid for bank holidays.
No idea if the parents get charged for bank holidays tho.

drspouse · 21/05/2025 17:47

TourangaLeila · 20/05/2025 18:11

So, how will they pay the staff if you don't pay for the day?

By evening out all the actual open days across payments.
So in a month with one bank holiday there might be 21 open days.
All parents pay 1/21 of the running costs per child for each day they book.
All staff get 1/31 of the month's pay per day.

EveryDayisFriday · 21/05/2025 17:43

My issue was always that I've never had to pay for a service on days that the service provider isn't open. However, child care is the only service that this doesn't apply to for some stupid reason.

Yes the staff should be paid for BHs, out of the overall fees received and not charge their customers for days they aren't open.

bouncinround · 21/05/2025 17:12

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:05

Ooooh, I've never been told off on MN before. Are you feeling all important now?

It’s not telling you off, but come on. If you just walked into a conversation without listening to a word that had been said previously and someone said ‘Anna’s just said that’ it would be a fair point!

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TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:05

Ooooh, I've never been told off on MN before. Are you feeling all important now?

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 17:03

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:02

You don't begrudge the staff their paid holiday entitlement OP, so really what you're unhappy about is that you're specifically billed for a BH? The alternative is to not charge for a bank holiday and instead increase the daily rate to cover holiday pay for the staff. If you're not objecting to them being paid then surely it's irrelevant how it's broken down and invoiced?

RTFT... smh

TaupeRaven · 21/05/2025 17:02

You don't begrudge the staff their paid holiday entitlement OP, so really what you're unhappy about is that you're specifically billed for a BH? The alternative is to not charge for a bank holiday and instead increase the daily rate to cover holiday pay for the staff. If you're not objecting to them being paid then surely it's irrelevant how it's broken down and invoiced?

SpicyWater · 21/05/2025 17:01

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 21/05/2025 16:48

This!

which I’ve noted the OP has failed to answer 🤔

If you care to read the op's replied properly, you will see that she has indeed answered this question. 🤦‍♀️