My DS plays in a football team, they train twice a week (one weeknight and a Saturday morning) for over an hour each time. Then they always play a match on a Sunday.
Recently I have been getting a bit worried that the pressure seems to be increasing.
For example coach has told them if they are even one minute late for training they will be running extra laps. My DS has missed a few trainings over the last few weeks due to weekend away and celebration for his sister.
He has been told by the coach that he would play better if trained more.
My exh also helps out with the team and he puts pressure on him saying he has missed too many trainings lately.
Ex recently showed my DS a message on the parents Whatsapp group where the coach had said everyone EXCEPT DS was doing a team activity (we couldn't make it as a way). I don't feel like he should be showing him Whatsapp messages.
Not really sure what to do and if I am overreacting