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If you enjoy your job, what do you do?

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UsernameShmusername2024 · 20/05/2025 07:38

Have struggled for years to really understand what I actually want to do. I've mainly worked in public sector policy type roles and currently am in a reasonably senior role where I manage direct programme delivery and also lead strategic decisions about programme design and aligning with local and national govt policy, etc. This is challenging and it's constantly an uphill battle to get different politicians to agree, to find internal funding to invest in projects, etc.
In some ways it's a great job - we'll paid, flexible, great manager and team, and I believe in our mission. BUT it also has the usual way-too-massive workload, I constantly feel like I'm not good enough for it and lack confidence - this sort of strategy role always involves slowly chipping away at things and it can be very demoralising and just generally hard work!

I'm early 40s so have years of working ahead of me and just can't imagine doing this sort of role forever but have no idea really what I'd be happy doing. If you enjoy your job, what do you do? Would love to get some ideas!

OP posts:
jazzhands84 · 20/05/2025 22:39

I own a fabric & yarn store
Almost everyone I speak to enjoys their time in my store and is happier when they leave.

JaceLancs · 20/05/2025 22:38

CEO of a charity - love my job although it is very demanding and pays far less than private or public sector would for what I do

1stWorldProblems · 20/05/2025 22:32

IT Support for primary schools - having previously been an Admin Assistant in a primary school. Best decision I've made in ages - now working in a fun, collaborative environment where my skills are respected.
Was previously treated like a child - even everyday emails needed proof reading by SLT and my IT skills were taken for granted / time for it was given only grudgingly. Though I'm aware every school is it's own empire - I was a Governor in another school & the working environment was set different.

bert3400 · 20/05/2025 22:25

Me & DH own a business, been doing it for 16 years. My role is pretty boring, admin, fee proposals, credit control and staff management...as the company has got more successful I have been increasing my hours and pretty much FT now ....the benefits (we work remotely and live abroad) are priceless and our income has given us an amazing life ...but I'm now thinking how I can hand over part of my role to someone, problem is I'm a control freak 😀

Walkthelakes · 20/05/2025 22:25

Secondary English teacher. Have been doing it fifteen years and still love it

christologymum · 20/05/2025 22:21

I oversee a team working in vocational mental health. My team work with the NHS to support people with severe mental illness to find meaningful paid employment. Oversee 38 staff. It’s rewarding, flexible (work from home mostly) have a good team around me, and fairly well paid with decent other benefits. Can’t imagine doing anything else now.

Fatrollypolly · 20/05/2025 22:18

Bookkeeping. I love creating my own systems for things and making sure things are done right.

ChandrilanDiscoDroid · 20/05/2025 22:17

Data scientist. It's like searching for buried treasure - hunting for meaning and insights that can't be seen with the naked eye. Great pay, constantly learning, never bored. Writing code is weirdly stimulating to the creative part of my brain.

vipersputpaidtomylastusername · 20/05/2025 22:16

Buyer for a well-known supermarket. Love it.

godmum56 · 20/05/2025 22:11

wow, 3 OT's so far!! well 2 practicing and one retired.

RunningJo · 20/05/2025 22:11

Toddlernightmare · 20/05/2025 21:28

I’m an Executive Assistant. I’ve done it for 8 years now in a variety of sectors and I love it. I’m a control freak and it just fulfils me so much. Plus the people I work for are always lovely, paid an eye watering amount and boy do I get perks.

I’ve been allowed to use holiday homes, event tickets, one even let us rent his second huge house for a year for £200 a month whilst we were struggling to save for a mortgage. I find Executives to be really genuinely lovely and generous people - which makes it easy to work alongside them and support them.

I work mostly from home as they are usually travelling, I get paid well and I can switch off at the end of the day. I think I’ve hit the sweet spot before I tip over into ‘personal’ assistant and I think I could do it forever.

Literally sounds like my ideal job!

bookworm8500 · 20/05/2025 22:10

Senior Occupational Therapist in social care. Used to be in the NHS but MUCH prefer social care 😁

Sunshineandrainbow · 20/05/2025 22:10

PickANumber · 20/05/2025 22:05

HR and I love all the issues,
my favourite is saying: No, I cannot send you home because you feel unwell. You’re an adult who has to make that decision based on your symptoms. But yes I will support you when you tell your manager

I think I would like a HR job.
Have worked in NHS and public sector frontline all my career I need a change.
Is there anything voluntary I could do to help my chances?

PinkPonyClubb · 20/05/2025 22:08

Teacher and Leader

NotMe1981 · 20/05/2025 22:07

I have a first class degree but have never really used it! After a whole lot of life crap I do what makes me happy. My weeks are a mishmash of different self employed work, including:

  1. being a book dealer of rare books
  2. dog walking and house sitting
  3. horse related yard work
  4. support work for a family with two autistic kids
  5. dog grooming
  6. ironing for a lovely family who live in a massive country pile, as and when their housekeeper is snowed under.
  7. festival work

My weeks are pretty busy! And no two days or weeks are the same. I think I have commitment issues when it comes to work 🤣

It’s mostly very flexible in terms of choosing when I work, so if there’s other things I want to do ‘for me’, eg my hobby or going away, then I just plan my work around that. Life is too short to be told how many days and when you’re allowed to not be working.

Ymiryboo · 20/05/2025 22:06

Plumber. It pays extremely well and I choose my hours. Previously I was a university lecturer. I hope to go to Rabbinical school soon.

Gettingbysomehow · 20/05/2025 22:06

Senior NHS podiatrist. We don't do nails or corns its more like a&e podiatry...acute. I could be removing a mummified foot or toe or treating severe diabetic ulcers, diagnosing all kinds of conditions like skin cancer or having people admitted for sepsis.
It's different everyday and never boring.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 20/05/2025 22:06

Global comms. Love it. Lots of travel.

PickANumber · 20/05/2025 22:05

HR and I love all the issues,
my favourite is saying: No, I cannot send you home because you feel unwell. You’re an adult who has to make that decision based on your symptoms. But yes I will support you when you tell your manager

pyzaz · 20/05/2025 22:04

data scientist - love uncovering the hidden meaning in huge volumes of data, I feel like a detective! Lots of coding which is no different mentally to doing crosswords and sudokus, which is what I would be doing all day if I wasn't working, so I might as well get paid to enjoy myself solving puzzles all day.

Enigma53 · 20/05/2025 22:03

TA in a SEN school.
Lovely job, crap pay.

Stuckinarut100 · 20/05/2025 21:59

Play therapist and I love the kids, the paperwork not so much.

Sunshineaftertherain1 · 20/05/2025 21:58

I'm a Behaviour Change Practitioner and work in a lovely team.

TheFunHare · 20/05/2025 21:58

Why don't you try some career coaching. I was in the same situation as you a few years ago where some of the basics were right but it wasn't adding up to what I wanted. You probably have all the answers to fix it but just need a little help getting there. It changed my life and I'm much happier now.

godmum56 · 20/05/2025 21:57

Retired now but I was in a multi faceted NHS job. I was an Occupational Therapist and worked in Community Rehab, but I also jobshare managed the team and was pulled out to do work on various other stuff, all change management/clinical documentation/IT based. I did love my job but when the labour party under Blair/Brown kicked off the amalgamation/reorganisation and we were constantly being told "how to do it better" I'd had enough.

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