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If you enjoy your job, what do you do?

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UsernameShmusername2024 · 20/05/2025 07:38

Have struggled for years to really understand what I actually want to do. I've mainly worked in public sector policy type roles and currently am in a reasonably senior role where I manage direct programme delivery and also lead strategic decisions about programme design and aligning with local and national govt policy, etc. This is challenging and it's constantly an uphill battle to get different politicians to agree, to find internal funding to invest in projects, etc.
In some ways it's a great job - we'll paid, flexible, great manager and team, and I believe in our mission. BUT it also has the usual way-too-massive workload, I constantly feel like I'm not good enough for it and lack confidence - this sort of strategy role always involves slowly chipping away at things and it can be very demoralising and just generally hard work!

I'm early 40s so have years of working ahead of me and just can't imagine doing this sort of role forever but have no idea really what I'd be happy doing. If you enjoy your job, what do you do? Would love to get some ideas!

OP posts:
Redglitter · 20/05/2025 23:28

VIOLETPUGH · 20/05/2025 19:52

Police dispatcher - never a dull moment !

Came here to say that too 😊

MakyJo · 20/05/2025 23:28

Another Advisory teacher here - some challenging days but absolutely love it and wouldn't want to do anything else x

Sugargliderwombat · 20/05/2025 23:27

Eyfs teacher and forest school lead :)

Youstolemygoddamnhouse · 20/05/2025 23:25

Men0pauze · 20/05/2025 23:12

Healthcare assistant and phlebotomist. Work at a GP surgery. Absolutely love it.
Earn minimum wage, and the day is long and busy, but after a career in finance which paid well but I found soul destroying and unrewarding, I finally wake up excited for my day. And when I leave work, my day is done, unlike in my previous career.
Love it so much I’m now training as a nurse in my 50s

Good for you. Nurse here and you’ll love it. Don’t know if I’ll do my current until i retire but there are plenty of other options in the NHS that aren’t ward based.

Youstolemygoddamnhouse · 20/05/2025 23:23

Currently a nurse. I’ve worked in many roles within the NHS. General practice, kids and people with LD. Was also a restaurant manager and journalist previously in my 20s. Love being a nurse but can’t see it being forever.

ShitaBrick · 20/05/2025 23:22

Town planner, in the public sector. It is very demanding but also very rewarding, and every time I think it’s getting a bit stale, a new project turns up to revitalise me. I feel like I’m being paid for doing my hobby. Love it.

Labiabella · 20/05/2025 23:20

Foostit · 20/05/2025 23:15

I have to say this is the last job I expected to read on this thread! I don’t think I know anyone who still enjoys teaching in the current climate. I don’t recognise ‘enjoyable’ or ‘rewarding’ as accurate descriptions either!

Both my sister and best friend left teaching in the last two years. It's surprising isn't it how many on this thread are in education and enjoying it.

Foostit · 20/05/2025 23:15

IsoldeWagner · 20/05/2025 07:39

Secondary school teacher. Enjoyable, demanding, varied, rewarding.

I have to say this is the last job I expected to read on this thread! I don’t think I know anyone who still enjoys teaching in the current climate. I don’t recognise ‘enjoyable’ or ‘rewarding’ as accurate descriptions either!

Men0pauze · 20/05/2025 23:12

Healthcare assistant and phlebotomist. Work at a GP surgery. Absolutely love it.
Earn minimum wage, and the day is long and busy, but after a career in finance which paid well but I found soul destroying and unrewarding, I finally wake up excited for my day. And when I leave work, my day is done, unlike in my previous career.
Love it so much I’m now training as a nurse in my 50s

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 20/05/2025 23:11

I do similar to you op but love it. It's challenging but rewarding. Maybe be try and identify what bits you aren't confident about and whether the frustrations can be ironed out or whether it's just time to move on. Base the move around your skills and what you enjoy though not others ideas because different people experience jobs differently.

grears · 20/05/2025 23:10

Politics producer for a news channel. It has been a wild few years!

Chickoletta · 20/05/2025 23:09

Great to see so many teachers on here!
We were saying in the staffroom today that we feel really lucky ti have a job that gives our brains a good work out, even if we’ve been in the job for 30 years or more. I love the academic challenge of researching a new topic to teach at A level and preparing candidates for Oxbridge interviews.

Amazingdaisyray · 20/05/2025 23:06

Hospital doctor. I love it

Chickoletta · 20/05/2025 23:04

Teacher. Head of a large dept and have some other responsibilities. It’s bloody hard work but I love my colleagues, my kids and my subject.

SharksSwimThroughMyVeinsNow · 20/05/2025 23:01

SENCO at a specialist primary school

Hillsaremyhappyplace · 20/05/2025 23:00

Secondary school teacher. Part time. Love it!

Drizzle6183 · 20/05/2025 22:58

Senior Board Director for a very large company.

I’ve done it so long now that it has become very repetitive and pretty tedious. I enjoyed working behind a bar when I was a student more than I do my current role.

The pay is huge though so I very much enjoy the impact that has on my life and future security for my DS.

Labiabella · 20/05/2025 22:56

I retrained as an airline pilot after 15 years working in healthcare.

Best job in the world, and wished I'd done it sooner.

Was a long and expensive journey to get here, but now I'm 47 and been a pilot now for 8 years.

You can do anything you set your mind to, just takes commitment and a good dollop of self-belief.

Hobbes8 · 20/05/2025 22:53

This is such an interesting thread - thank you for starting it. I’m a fairly senior NHS manager, and whilst I find it pretty interesting for the most part, my job is at risk and there’s going to be cuts everywhere for the forseeable future. Maybe there’s a completely different path for me to take?

Bushmillsbabe · 20/05/2025 22:50

Paediatric physio, working with children with complex needs. I love the variety, the teamwork but most of all I love getting to know the children and families. Been in same area for 11 years now and its crazy seeing children I treated as babies now preparing for secondary school - their needs are often lifelong, they 'join' our team as babies and stay with us until 18/19 years old. We get to know their siblings, parents, grandparents, go through highs and lows with them. I have sadly been to some of their funerals, but being invited shows the mutual respect the families and teams hold for each other.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 20/05/2025 22:46

This is such a lovely read. So many people enjoying their public sector/caring/charity roles and no one solely motivated by money. I am also in a healthcare role and have interesting and challenging work and great colleagues.

BadNewsBelle · 20/05/2025 22:43

After working in retail for 14yrs and becoming Store Manager (which absolutely broke me dealing with zero support from upper management, extremely short staffed and expected to do 4 job roles at once.- 2 store locations) I left, took 6 months off work and enjoyed summer with my 6yr old and 18 month old. In September 2023 I impulsively applied for my current job - GP Receptionist. I agonised from I submitted my application, through interview and even when I accepted the job if I was doing the right thing. Honestly the best job I have ever had - I love the work, dealing with patients, all of it. Best decision I ever made. Great colleagues, very rewarding and I'm not going home mentally or physically exhausted. I'm in NI and our GPs are very much into getting into the old way of how surgery used to be. So we have pre-bookable in advance appointments for the next 4wks with GPs, Practice Nurses, MH Practioner, Treatment Room. Urgent phone calls and face to faces that open each morning at 8.30am everyday as well as the routine pre-bookable. Our GPs are really great. Sorry was so long, I usually see alot of negative comments regarding GPs and Receptionists (with good reason when I read how some surgeries operate now) and wanted to highlight we aren't all bad ☺️ best job I ever had, honestly.

CrazyGoatLady · 20/05/2025 22:43

Clinical Learning and Development manager for a healthcare company. I enjoy supporting people to learn and grow.

OpheliaNightingale · 20/05/2025 22:43

@UsernameShmusername2024 I used to be employed as a professional declutterer which was amazing!

I currently work as a coach/therapist.

Notbaskets · 20/05/2025 22:43

Occupational Therapist in a psychiatric setting.

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