So my sister and I are very close. It’s the kind of relationship where I could say “you can’t out in that you look hideous”. There would be no fallout as it’s recognised it’s coming from a good place.
Anyway, she’s getting married and we are just very different. I’m more detail oriented and type A. Where is a little slap dash and low effort.
I would say I have good taste and friends often ask me to go furniture or clothes shopping with them.
Sister showed me her wedding invites and they were truly awful. I shared alternatives. Said they were a little dated. Offered my services re ribbon tying and wax seal applying. But sister was like “who gives a shit”. I can tell she is getting annoyed.
No word of a lie she had used a border not too dissimilar to the one I had attached. Her wedding is very much not cheap either!
Do I change the habit of a lifetime and allow her to make shit choices??
Im very aware it’s her wedding so will for say “and the end of the day it’s up to you, it’s your wedding”.