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To let childcare change toddler?

37 replies

rushedround · 19/05/2025 07:09

Rushing around in the morning and smelled a suspicious whiff. Nursery about ten minutes away.

Is it reasonable just to let her be changed there? Or would you have made yourself a bit later and changed her?

OP posts:
MalcolmMoo · 19/05/2025 07:47

I always change her, I’d never dream of dropping her off with a dirty nappy.

Last week was literally about to step out the door with the pram to walk to nursery and realised she’d done a poo in the 30 seconds she’d been in the pram. She was straight out and quick change by the back door, back in pram and off to nursery.

Literally took seconds.

Sirzy · 19/05/2025 07:19

Imagine the uproar if a nursery said “we didn’t change them because we knew you would be arriving soon”

Poo on your watch you sort!

justkeepswimingswiming · 19/05/2025 07:16

You had time to type on here yet not change a nappy? Come on op that’s borderline neglectful.

ChocolatesAndRainbows · 19/05/2025 07:15

No change your child, trust me I did nursery years ago before becoming a nanny and we used to heavily judge any parent who left a child in a festering nappy for us to change. Would you want to sit in a car or pushchair in a full smelly nappy?

WhenWhere · 19/05/2025 07:14

It's awful that you need to ask.

Zanatdy · 19/05/2025 07:14

It takes 2 mins, not nice to have her in that nappy until you get to nursery.

thehistorymum · 19/05/2025 07:13

Change before you go

ThatIsABigSon · 19/05/2025 07:12

You change her before you leave.

itispersonal · 19/05/2025 07:11

Would you like to sit in your poo for 10 minutes! Change them and be late

Changepassword · 19/05/2025 07:11

Definitely changed her, it takes 2 minutes.
I'm guessing to make the 10 minute journey she'd be either sat in a car seat or pushchair, can't imagine that would be very pleasant.

BallerinaRadio · 19/05/2025 07:11

I think you know the answer to this

thismummyslife · 19/05/2025 07:10

Change her before you leave x