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To think schools should have a class to teach basic life skills

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beesandstrawberries · 18/05/2025 21:02

We all learned so much in school that we haven’t used in day to day life - I mean when have we ever touched a Bunsen burner since school? But none of us was learned the basics of life and how to navigate it - things like:

  • Showing how to do basic meals, cooking pasta safety, use of kitchen appliances correctly
  • paying bills
  • what a mortgage is, how to deal with contracts and paperwork
  • how to meter readings
  • change a lightbulb, basic tool use in the home
  • how to check fire alarms
  • credit card education
  • managing money, spreadsheets to manage them
  • insurances like life insurance and what ones you need
  • education on abusive relationship signs
  • things like peer pressure
  • how to write formal letters/emails

I think we learn so many things that mean nothing when we leave school. If you teach kids basic life skills from a young age, it would make kids a lot more well rounded and less anxious in the ‘real world’ when it comes to managing money and not getting in debt. Even learning things like the warning signs of abusive relationships to young and impressionable teens as I think if I heard the signs then, I would have know what to look out for to prevent myself from getting in one as an adult.

I remember being in the real world and not knowing how to have good money management and I’m 28 and have no idea how to change a lightbulb. Even education for kids to learn about their bodies, that their outie bellybutton is normal and so are their stretch marks - so they don’t go into adulthood thinking their bodies are imperfect.

Children deserve more than Shakespeare or how to play football in pe. They deserve a kick start to life

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LlynTegid · 18/05/2025 21:05

Parents should but many don't. In some cases because they lack some of the skills.

mygrandchildrenrock · 18/05/2025 21:05

I absolutely agree with you that children need to have those skills and knowledge to become competent adults. However, families rather than teachers would be better placed to help children develop them.

MyUmberSeal · 18/05/2025 21:05

All things that decent parents teach at home.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 18/05/2025 21:05

And at 28 if you can’t work out how to change a lightbulb (hint, google it) then the problem is not the school you went to.

Stripeyanddotty · 18/05/2025 21:05

So what do you think parents should do?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 18/05/2025 21:04

This is what parents are for. HTH.

MrsJRHartley · 18/05/2025 21:03

Or parents could do it.