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Sertraline for anxiety

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toastwithbutter · 18/05/2025 20:07

I’ve always struggled with anxiety but it’s so bad currently. My morning anxiety (over nothing specific) is so bad I struggle to get out of bed sometimes.

I have lots of nervous energy and feel on edge most of the time.

i have negative intrusive thoughts.

I don’t think I’m very fun or relaxed any more, at all.

I’ve always been so scared to medicate myself but with two young children and a busy life I need to do something to overcome this crippling anxiety.

Can you give me your Sertraline success storiws please as this is what the doctor has recommended.

Will it help me feel less panicky and calmer? More relaxed and carefree? Less irritable?

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FoxLoxInSox · 24/05/2025 18:58

AnotherNaCha · 24/05/2025 14:43

No it’s a very common side effect. People in pharmaceuticals often joke that you “can be happy or can have a libido, not both”

As soon as I stop, it comes back. As soon as I start, numbness so it’s not a depression side effect - and I take them for PMDD

I didn’t dispute it’s a common SE. I both work with such meds professionally in a specialism, and am a long-term user of SSRIs myself.

I was pointing out that in each individual it’s difficult to pin-point exactly how much is the SSRI and how much is a complex interplay between sex and mood disorder. Or a bit of both.

Auburngal · 24/05/2025 14:46

I take this. I originally had it because I had panic attacks caused by customers' impatience and rudeness. I do wish customers realise that their behaviour is one of the main reasons that people leave retail.

Now I still take it as still very worried about unable to find work.

AnotherNaCha · 24/05/2025 14:43

FoxLoxInSox · 24/05/2025 12:39

Decreased libido is also a known symptom of anxiety and depression. So it’s v difficult to tease-out what is caused by a SE of the meds, and what is a symptom of the condition.

No it’s a very common side effect. People in pharmaceuticals often joke that you “can be happy or can have a libido, not both”

As soon as I stop, it comes back. As soon as I start, numbness so it’s not a depression side effect - and I take them for PMDD

Arraminta · 24/05/2025 13:22

Newmum738 · 18/05/2025 21:49

It was great at first but you need more as time goes on. I came off it in the end. I’d prefer to use other methods.

No, you really don't need more the longer you take it. Several friends have taken the same dose for over a decade, and are very happy with it

SewingIsMySuperPower · 24/05/2025 13:12

Oh @toastwithbutter I really feel for you.

I was the same. Came on suddenly. Horrendous morning anxiety, loads of nervous energy, constantly in edge/emotional, and really awful negative and intrusive thoughts.

I resisted sertraline for a while, but wasn't getting better. So I started just before Xmas. I started on 25mg. My initial side effects were AWFUL. I won't sugar coat it. I was significantly worse. Stopped eating, stopped sleeping. The intrusive thoughts ramped up and I was crying all the time. But I persevered, increased to 37.5mg for a few days then up to 50mg and once I was on 50mg, the side effects subsided and I started feeling better. I'd say maybe 2 weeks after I went up to 50mg it was like a switch had been flipped. I wasn't totally better, but started having more good days than bad.

I'm still on 50mg. But I also started HRT 1.5 weeks ago (low dose). I was having cyclical relapses (not as bad, but still distressing for me). I was initially convinced some of my symptoms were peri menopause related but the dr said i was 'too young' 🙄 finally 3rd Dr I saw agreed with me and I'm hoping that will finish levelling me out!

It is definitely worth taking an SSRI, but it won't be an immediate fix, and you do need to be prepared for that xxxx

FoxLoxInSox · 24/05/2025 12:39

AnotherNaCha · 23/05/2025 20:11

Thanks, yes it seems to be every other woman I know too though. Very frustrating to have to make that choice

Decreased libido is also a known symptom of anxiety and depression. So it’s v difficult to tease-out what is caused by a SE of the meds, and what is a symptom of the condition.

AnotherNaCha · 23/05/2025 20:11

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:09

For a small proportion of people there is evidence of sexual dysfunction as a SE.

Thanks, yes it seems to be every other woman I know too though. Very frustrating to have to make that choice

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:09

AnotherNaCha · 23/05/2025 19:05

Sertraline really helped me get my life together, and back on a path out of darkness (situational and just me). But it absolutely killed libido and was in a new relationship, so stopped eventually. Even a day or two in 25 mg and the ability to feel anything below the waist disappears! Anyone else had this or found a SSRI that doesn’t cause this?

For a small proportion of people there is evidence of sexual dysfunction as a SE.

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:08

woodpeckersounds · 18/05/2025 21:18

A genuine question to those who are taking sertraline.. is it masking your symptoms or curing it? I’ve always believed these drugs mask the way we feel. I’d like some insight. Sorry to jump on your thread OP.

If we think of “how we feel” as being how we experience the world and how that is affected by physical sensations of anxiety plus our anxious thoughts / cognitive distortions; then yes - medication changes this as it dampens down the out-of-control “threat-system”.

What medication doesn’t do is address any underlying psycho-social causes for the anxiety, clearly.

So it’s best to use medication hand-in-hand with a talking therapy, plus making lifestyle changes such as reducing stress, increasing exercise, sleep hygiene etc.

AnotherNaCha · 23/05/2025 19:05

Sertraline really helped me get my life together, and back on a path out of darkness (situational and just me). But it absolutely killed libido and was in a new relationship, so stopped eventually. Even a day or two in 25 mg and the ability to feel anything below the waist disappears! Anyone else had this or found a SSRI that doesn’t cause this?

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:04

Catsservant · 23/05/2025 18:56

I’ve never heard this before and as someone on Paroxetine for a long time and now citalopram I wouldn’t say this is my experience. SSRI are not known for need higher increasing doses unlike benzodiazepines unless they have stopped working. Op I found I was anxious in normal situations eg exams, they won’t stop that.

You’re entirely correct. Anti-D’s don’t have any tolerance-related issues. They don’t lose efficacy with long-term use.

Anytnjng you hear around this is purely anecdotal and usually due to the placebo effect

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:03

Ps: you can self-refer to your local NHS Talking Therapies service. Not sure of your area but if you type that into google with your home city it will bring up the website.

(MH Practitioner here)

FoxLoxInSox · 23/05/2025 19:01

Sounds like really classic (and horrid to experience) anxiety. Sertraline is an incredibly commonly-taken medication which a surprising proportion of the population take/have taken. It works gradually and imperceptibly, so don’t expect to notice much difference for a few weeks. Some people have initial side-effects of increased anxiety but please persist as these subside.

GP should’ve signposted you to NHS Talking Therapies also (first line treatment for anxiety) as lifestyle factors, psycho-ed and/or CBT are just as (if not more) important tools in addressing anxious thoughts and feelings.

Catsservant · 23/05/2025 18:56

Newmum738 · 18/05/2025 21:49

It was great at first but you need more as time goes on. I came off it in the end. I’d prefer to use other methods.

I’ve never heard this before and as someone on Paroxetine for a long time and now citalopram I wouldn’t say this is my experience. SSRI are not known for need higher increasing doses unlike benzodiazepines unless they have stopped working. Op I found I was anxious in normal situations eg exams, they won’t stop that.

OopsyDaisie · 23/05/2025 18:21

I feel quiteva few of the symptoms you have described @toastwithbutter but I think they are situational and have to do with my relationship.
So I'm very worried of going on meds and the side effects... I have a job where I need ti focus a lot, and there arw multiple things I need to manage at the same time... Can anyone help to advise on how it affects your ability to focus ans be "on the ball"? (Sorry, I hate this expression too)

Dangermoo · 23/05/2025 09:29

Oh bless you OP. One day at a time while the meds kick in. At some point, hopefully you will wake up and suddenly realise you can face the day. As I said before, the tablets make you not think about those things because they balance things out in your head. As you're not worrying so much, the physical symptons will go. They may come back briefly now and then but will go quickly with your new coping strategy. Stay away from negativity and surround yourself with just your family and anything positive. Good luck and let Sertraline do its thing xx

toastwithbutter · 22/05/2025 20:25

Thanks everyone.

i started today. I was too chicken to take the 50mg so split it in half. Have been psychoanalysing how I feel all day. Mostly relief to be honest to know I’m doing something.

Ive made a list of how I felt ‘before’ - it’s pretty bad. Hoping I look back in a few months feeling much better!

I feel a bit vulnerable doing this but I’ll pop the thoughts around how I’ve been feeling here incase anyone can relate….

Feel I have lost sight of what’s normal
Gotten worse since having children
Lack of sleep and hormones are a trigger

Very bad morning anxiety maybe 60% of the time for no reason (just physical symptoms, brain feels clear but anxious in the pit of my stomach the moment I wake)

Nervousness around social events or anything out of the ordinary - dread for days beforehand
Panic feelings with work to presentations or review/121 situations
Overthinking and feel paralysed sometimes like I cannot concentrate or do anything at all
Occasional panic attacks and a constant fear of panic attacks
A feeling of being unable to be present in the moment as my brain is constantly working overtime

Physical symptoms - shaking, loss of appetite, insomnia, intrusive thoughts, feeling sick, exhaustion, obsessive thought eg ruminating on what could happen and worrying about it
Dry mouth, heart palpitations, throat closes up

Worrying about the world and very upset about current news especially children suffering in the world

Everything feel heavy, I don’t feel light mentally

Not wanting to leave my children - ever

Lack of fun and relaxation - mostly unable to properly relax or let go and have fun any more

Good days and bad but anxiety is there probably 75% of the time

Want to feel calm and able to cope, instead I feel like if anything went wrong it would tip me over the edge, feel on high alert, fight or flight, full of adrenaline - exercise is the ONLY thing that helps

If a friend told me she felt like this… I’d probably tell
her to get some medication so trying to do the same and tell my brain it’s fine.

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Newmum738 · 19/05/2025 14:27

hazelnutvanillalatte · 18/05/2025 22:38

@Newmum738 do you mind sharing what works for you?

Rhodiola Rosea supplements worked quite well. Hypnotherapy- Paul McKenna has loads of free stuff on You Tube and I do that every night. Sea swimming - I’ve done this weekly all year round. Sleep. Really good self care. Acceptance. Breathing. Being kind to myself and accepting my limitations. Generally slowing down where possible. The Sertraline helped and I needed it but I’m glad I’ve come off it now. Carefully weaned myself off - got down to 10mg every third day before stopping completely.

noctilucentcloud · 19/05/2025 09:33

woodpeckersounds · 18/05/2025 21:18

A genuine question to those who are taking sertraline.. is it masking your symptoms or curing it? I’ve always believed these drugs mask the way we feel. I’d like some insight. Sorry to jump on your thread OP.

For me, a bit of both. My antidepressant reduces my anxiety to a level where I can go out and try things, which means that instead of the anxiety and panic being reinforced and growing (and my world shrinking), it reduces over time. It also means that I'm able to engage and work with therapy, which again reduces my symptoms longer term. But for me, I still need medication to keep my anxiety at bay and to stop it spiralling. If I didn't my anxiety would grow to a point where I couldn't go about my daily life and apply the things I've learnt. I don't think it's possible for my anxiety to be fully cured, but it's well managed. And one of the things that keeps it well managed is the anti-depressant.

Dangermoo · 19/05/2025 09:13

woodpeckersounds · 18/05/2025 21:18

A genuine question to those who are taking sertraline.. is it masking your symptoms or curing it? I’ve always believed these drugs mask the way we feel. I’d like some insight. Sorry to jump on your thread OP.

I do think they mask anxiety. I can go days or weeks and think I haven't thought about hyperventilating or wanted to keep swallowing today. They can divert your attention away from your symptons so you're less likely to panic etc.bloody lifesavers.

Dangermoo · 19/05/2025 09:09

I was on Seroxat for 20 years but a year ago they suddenly stopped working. I had all the original anxiety and depression symptons come flooding back. I had to wean off seroxat for one week before I started sertraline. I had a bit of nausea as a side effect with more frequent bowel movements. It took 16 weeks for them to fully kick in. However, that timeframe changes for everyone. What it does it make you not think about your symptons. You can function day to day and see light again. You think they are never going to start working but they will. The only downside is the vivid dreams but I'd rather take those than the horrible, crippling anxiety.

RebelliousHoping · 19/05/2025 09:05

woodpeckersounds · 18/05/2025 21:18

A genuine question to those who are taking sertraline.. is it masking your symptoms or curing it? I’ve always believed these drugs mask the way we feel. I’d like some insight. Sorry to jump on your thread OP.

Thank you for asking 🙏

SodYouIllGoOnMyOwn · 19/05/2025 09:02

I started taking Escitalopram for lifelong anxiety and it has been life-changing.

owlexpress · 19/05/2025 08:54

hazelnutvanillalatte · 18/05/2025 22:38

@Newmum738 do you mind sharing what works for you?

Mindfulness and meditation are genuinely very good. It sounds like a cliché but it's true. Also exercise, fresh air and eating well. Thing is, I wasn't in the headspace to do those without the sertraline. It doesn't have to be one or other, you can take sertraline as an adjuvant to lifestyle and mindset changes.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 18/05/2025 22:38

@Newmum738 do you mind sharing what works for you?