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To lock my bathroom during renovations in the flat

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Hocuspoc · 18/05/2025 01:58

The flat has just one bathroom/toilet which has just been refurbished. Considering this is in London, the price of the renovation was extortionate.

Now we have painters and decorators coming in to paint the walls, skirting boards etc.
I really don't want them to use the bath or sink for keeping the tools and washing up.
It still bothers me how much the bathroom renovation has set us back and if someone was now to scratch the bathtub or break a tile I think I'd have a mental breakdown.
I want them to use the kitchen sink instead, or to set up some buckets on the kitchen floor - whatever they can come up with - just to stay away from the bloody bathroom.
I am tempted to lock the bathroom to prevent any damage or soiling.

And I feel this is horrible - it is as if I don't want them to use the loo or something (and it is not about that at all).
But then, the guys who did the bathroom had nowhere to go for 10 days while renovating it - so this is not an impossible set up.

I feel I am being unreasonable but honestly with the prices the contractors are charging at the moment I could not care less - they can certainly afford a quick coffee in a nearby cafe and use the loo there.
Thoughts.

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TheHerboriste · 18/05/2025 02:29

They can go to a coffee shop for the toilet or furnish their own portaloo.

GildedRage · 18/05/2025 02:28

i've never seen workmen use the tub for tools, how many days are they in for painting? will you not be in and out of your own home?
i just came on to say the more inconvenient you make things, the longer it will take for them to get the work finished and it will cost you more.

I would would think telling them (no tools in the tub, no washing brushes in the bathroom sink) would suffice.

IloveSootyandSweep · 18/05/2025 02:25

Usually when doing a bathroom the WC is removed and another put in on the same day. Are you sure they were without the toilet for all that time because that’s very weird
Plus
How did you manage without a toilet?

To others who have said just ask them not to wash brushes etc in the bathroom. I’m sorry, but that’s not going to be enough

Lock the bathroom but get a portaloo. You can’t not give them a toilet to use OP

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Hocuspoc · 18/05/2025 02:24

Ankther · 18/05/2025 02:20

Absolutely not. They have to have access to a toilet. If you want to hire people to do work for you rather than doing it yourself, you have to meet their basic needs and treat them like your fellow humans who are worthy of respect.

You can of course be clear that the bathroom is to be used for toileting only and not washing paintbrushes, but you cannot bar them from using the only toilet in the property.

Agreed, but the guys who renovated my bathroom had no toilet access for 10 days (because they took everything out first day).

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Ankther · 18/05/2025 02:20

Absolutely not. They have to have access to a toilet. If you want to hire people to do work for you rather than doing it yourself, you have to meet their basic needs and treat them like your fellow humans who are worthy of respect.

You can of course be clear that the bathroom is to be used for toileting only and not washing paintbrushes, but you cannot bar them from using the only toilet in the property.

TheHerboriste · 18/05/2025 02:20

Yes, lock it. Tell them explicitly they are to wash their brushes and tools elsewhere.
I had my entire house painted and he took his stuff away for washing. Never once used my sink. Other than to wash his hands.

HeatwaveToNightshade · 18/05/2025 02:15

Tell them where they ARE permitted to wash brushes etc. Something along the lines of ‘If you need to wash or store stuff, do it here. Not the bathroom. Ta very much’. Don’t leave them without somewhere to pee.

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Hocuspoc · 18/05/2025 02:08

FifiFiadh · 18/05/2025 02:03

They will piss in your kitchen sink.

Would you believe me that I care less about that at this point then them scratching a brand new bathtub 😞
I will happily change the kitchen sink after they are done, sigh...

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Hocuspoc · 18/05/2025 02:06

flyoverstate · 18/05/2025 02:02

You can lock the bathroom if you have hired a portaloo for people to use instead but no you can’t expect people to use buckets.

I am not expecting them to use buckets and the kitchen sink instead of the loo !!! it's for the washing up of the painting brushes etc...

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WineIsMyMainVice · 18/05/2025 02:03

Yabu

FifiFiadh · 18/05/2025 02:03

They will piss in your kitchen sink.

flyoverstate · 18/05/2025 02:02

You can lock the bathroom if you have hired a portaloo for people to use instead but no you can’t expect people to use buckets.