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Any teachers who have left teaching?

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TooMuchSaidAndDone · 17/05/2025 19:31

I've been a primary teacher for around 25 years. After a really stressful few months that I believed would resolve positively, but didn't, I've finally come to the decision that I need to be out of this.

I love my job but I can't face going in on Monday - I'm dreading it - and it's the first time I've felt like that about teaching for about 10 years. I just don't want to go in.

Of course, I will go in on Monday. And I will do everything I can to do my best for the children, as usual, but my trust in and respect for the HT and DHT has gone.

The last time I felt like this was 10 years ago.and I left that job and did supply teaching for a few years before taking this job. So I'm not really looking to go back into that.

I've also considered tutoring and, whilst I'm still open to it, my confidence has been shattered and I'm just not sure I'm ready for it yet.

So I wondered what other people who have left teaching have done and, more importantly, where do you look for jobs?

Thank you.

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TooMuchSaidAndDone · 17/05/2025 20:40

Thanks.

Yes, I know I need to frame it positively, and I will, but at the moment I just feel completely undervalued so it's hard to feel positive about it!

I'll be honest, I don't know what I want to do. I looked at retraining as a MH SW a few years ago but I'm not sure I want to go into something where so much of my energy is focused on other people's well being. I feel like I need to be my priority for a while.

I've always worked in education or volunteered in supporting others and, whilst I've loved it and its been hugely rewarding, it's also been draining and at the expense of my own health at times.

So, yes, definitely time for a new chapter.

How have people framed it to a new employer?

And thanks, I have heard of that fb group but had forgotten about it!

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Hubblebubble · 17/05/2025 20:39

I was a secondary English teacher and now I work for an educational publisher. Money worse than a NQT, but it's fully remote with amazing flexitime. I really enjoying having a life now.

ravenclaworslytherin · 17/05/2025 20:33

I gave up primary school teaching when I had my first child. I was a sahm for 6 years and now work in a term time only nursery. Much less money but if gives me the chance to teach again without all the stress of actually teaching. I no longer have to work in the evenings or at weekends

Middlemarch123 · 17/05/2025 20:27

Yes taught English at GCSE and A level for decades. Huge High School, loved the students, SLT finished me, was also DSL, which was a full time position in itself. After spending all weekends and evenings up to 10pm working, I was burnt out. Bit the bullet and left end of summer term last year. Best thing ever. Set up a local dog walking business, and work far less hours, and I am myself again.

SnugMintFawn · 17/05/2025 20:20

I’d recommend (if you haven’t already) joining a group on Facebook called ‘Life After Teaching - Exit the classroom and thrive’. Lots of good advice and support from people who have been there.

For what it’s worth, I left teaching and now work in admin. I earn less money but the improvement in my stress levels and work-life balance is so worth it.

Good luck x

PennyPippin · 17/05/2025 20:13

I was a secondary school teacher for 21 years and I left last July.

I now work in politics. Leaving teaching has been revolutionary for me. I’m less anxious, I don’t get Sunday night dread anymore. I get a lunch break, I can nip to the shops or go to the GP or dentist when needed.

i could never go back now when I know that the job was making me ill.

S0j0urn4r · 17/05/2025 20:10

Try Adventures After Teaching or Team Did Teach.

OneDayIWillLearn · 17/05/2025 20:10

Oh also, for what it’s worth, I think if you’ve been a teacher you’ve got some seriously good skills to take to pretty much any other job.

Maybe try to reframe the move away from teaching more positively though? Like ‘I’m ready for the next phase of my life’ rather ‘I’ve got to get out; I’ve had it up to here’.

OneDayIWillLearn · 17/05/2025 20:04

Yes I was a secondary school teacher for ten years then left to start a business with my husband, ten years ago. I taught part time for a year when we were starting. It was/ is a completely unrelated field that I had no training for but the skills of organisation/ people management etc were all very relevant to running a business. I did some short training courses (1 to 3 days) to help acquire the basic skills needed and after a few years in the job started a distance learning masters.

I love being my own boss and - though I loved teaching - could never go back now.

In first few years after leaving, I did some tutoring when I was asked by people to, and I also did a couple of part-time maternity leaves, and some examining actually. That was all quite good for a bit of extra cash while we built up the new business.

I think the best question to ask yourself is, what do you want to do? Rather than what is a good job for an ex-teacher to do. I know lots of people that left teaching and they’re doing a whole range of things. Do some short courses and use your network to get experience or opportunities to talk to someone working in areas you think you would like to work in, you’ll soon get an idea of where people find work in those fields.

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