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How does learning to read really work ? When does the c - a - t sounding out stop ?

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fonic · 17/05/2025 07:51

Hello very smart ladies of Mumsnet. I’m curious about the learning to read process. My DD is in reception.

She has gone from learning single letter sounds M A etc, to blending the sounds C - A - T. Etc. all fine.

now she’s moving through the RWI programme with the different books. She recognises some words really well- especially the red words of course- like AND and THE. Here she sees it and doesn’t need to sound it out, she just knows it by sight reading.

but lots of other words, she still needs to sound out. I see her fluency getting better, but it’s quite a slow process.

how does this work ? Does it just go on like this for ages ?

she seems to be moving through the book bands and the sentences are getting longer, but I do wonder how she’s actually processing as I can’t always tell that it’s much better. She’s on the pink books now, if that helps. Which should mean she’s doing alright, but I just can’t always see it when she reads.

it’s probably not helped by the fact that she often doesn’t want to do her reading practice and isn’t in the mood for it, so she doesn’t really try.

OP posts:
fonic · 17/05/2025 08:11

Yeah she’s been learning Fred in your head for ages, she just doesn’t always do it. I guess I should remind her every time. But I also don’t want to discourage her. She gets easily put off if I get too involved..

OP posts:
Joanne200019 · 17/05/2025 08:10

I teach RWI, pink is good for this point in reception. Reading the same book several times helps with fluency so reading at home is really important. Try getting her to “Fred in your head” - think the sounds then say the word rather than saying each sound. Also make sure you read the story words inside the cover before reading the book so the trickier words are not completely new to her. It is a slow process but it sounds like she’s doing well!

Tulipsanddaffodils3 · 17/05/2025 08:09

If she's RWI and moving through the books, it's time to start "Fred in your Head", kind of explains. I add an intermediate stage of "whisper Fred" where they whisper the sound as quiet as they can before attempting the blend. Try it with easier books or green words just. Agree though it's totally normal!

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Apksbdv · 17/05/2025 08:05

My DC just seemed to click with this at a certain point, my younger one is learning quicker than the older one so I think around year 1/year 2.

Covidwoes · 17/05/2025 08:02

Hi OP, primary teacher here. This is completely normal for reception. It does take time, and often the books are quite boring, as there is only so much you can write about with words like cat and mat! Keep reading more interesting stories to her to maintain her interest in reading. My DD could blend well by the end of reception, but reading has always come very naturally to her. Her younger sister, who starts school in September, will take longer I think.
I have had children still sounding out by Y3 and having phonics interventions in early KS2, but these are generally children who find reading challenging. I’d definitely expect more sounding out in Y1, and increased fluency by Y2. Hope that helps!