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Not paying for garden work

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gardendramas5 · 16/05/2025 09:24

I’m pretty sure I’m not being unreasonable but I just want to see what other people think.

I purchased my house December last year. It was empty for at least 2 years (ex rental)

The previous owners kept the front and back garden tidy whilst it was on the market, no idea if it was them that did the work or if they paid someone. Both gardens are quite large. I started doing all of this myself when I took ownership.

Anyway, I’ve been away for the last week with family and came home on Wednesday to freshly cut grass, weeds pulled etc. I asked my neighbours if they had seen anyone but they were at work. It turns out that the previous owners hired a company to do the work and hadn’t notified them that they’d sold the house last year. I only found this out yesterday as the gardener turned up with the invoice. I explained I wasn’t aware of this arrangement and that he would have to invoice the previous owners for the work (I was polite and apologised for the inconvenience but made it clear I hadn’t asked for this work to be done and wasn’t prepared to pay for it either)

He knocked on again this morning and explained that he’d spoken to them yesterday and that they agreed to pay half (because it was their error) but that I should pay the rest because I’m the one benefiting from the work. I told him no sorry I’m not paying and he needs to take it up with them.

I do feel bad for the gardener, but it’s their fault. I didn't ask for this. They were awkward during the conveyancing process too so this doesn’t surprise me. AIBU?

OP posts:
Genevieva · 16/05/2025 10:25

The previous owners are legally obliged to fulfil their contract by paying in full, but I’d probably give him a hefty tip as a good will gesture.

LumpyandBumps · 16/05/2025 10:19

MagpiePi · 16/05/2025 09:36

The previous owners should pay him in full.
If they want you to pay them back half then they should get in touch with you directly, not expect the gardener to be their messenger.

I agree with this

spoonbillstretford · 16/05/2025 10:19

I would pay them if they had done a nice job. But certainly you are under no legal obligation to do so and the previous owners are the ones he should pursue for payment if you are not willing or can't afford to make the gesture.

Confused118 · 16/05/2025 10:19

so the gardener wants you to pay half of someones elses mistake, so he pays nothing of someone elses mistake?

How does that make any sense?

MissPobjoysPonies · 16/05/2025 10:19

This is work you didn’t ask to be done, was undertaken without your knowledge and a service you don’t want.

Whilst unfortunate for the Gardener, you can’t just turn up after 5-6 months with no prior warning and expect to be paid. The communication between the previous owner and Gardener is the issue. Pretty sure any legal action would stand firm with you.

Id be pissed off someone accessed your property without permission as well!

Blueeeee · 16/05/2025 10:18

It's usually the previous owners who might do a goodwill because they might still get post sent to the old address or someone ask after them and then the new owners might feel more inclined to help.

Inertia · 16/05/2025 10:17

The thing that would bother me most here is that someone has got into your property so easily while you were away. If he’s genuine, does he have garden gate keys?

Have you even checked whether he is genuine? If he had a regular contract, why did it take 5 months for him to turn up?

FamBae · 16/05/2025 10:15

YANBU

WWW3434 · 16/05/2025 10:14

Mindymomo · 16/05/2025 09:40

As a gesture of goodwill, I would pay the half, it’s not the gardeners fault the previous owner didn’t contact them to cancel and if anyone can tackle taking out all weeds and cut 2 large lawns professionally, I would be happy, but I understand you not wanting to pay.

But why should OP want "goodwill"? Goodwill for who? She wont be using the gardener again as she wants to do her own gardening, so why should she be out of pocket?

Goodwill is for companies that want people to keep using them.

Blueeeee · 16/05/2025 10:13

ConflictofInterest · 16/05/2025 10:05

Wow, forget payment, as a keen gardener I'd be absolutely furious if someone had done my gardening. It's no mow May for a start! Tell him you want compensation for the damage he's done and he'll quickly vanish. I'm amazed he wouldn't check at the start of the season that the arrangement was still in place.

There are some people who call themselves gardeners when all they do is cut off grass and pull out shrubs. No real skill or knowledge of plants.

Blueeeee · 16/05/2025 10:12

You never asked for this 'benefit' so no I wouldn't pay. The gardener must have known the property was on sale and should have confirmed or texted the previous owners and they should have notified him of the sale, it's not like it happened overnight!
I wouldn't pay, obviously staying polite to them all but firm.

Bearbookagainandagain · 16/05/2025 10:11

It's not that much whether you are BU or not. Legally this has nothing to do with you, you havent contracted the gardener, the previous owners did. They must pay the full bill.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 16/05/2025 10:08

Having a gardener is a luxury that many people gladly pay for and benefit from.

But lots of people are not in a situation to employ a gardener - whether they like to do the gardening themselves, they can't afford/don't see it as a priority in their household budget, or simply don't care if their garden is wild and overgrown.

You can't simply say that somebody has benefited and so they should just pay up anyway. As for those saying that it isn't that much money, you have no idea at all of how significant that amount of money is to another person. For all you know, OP could be needing to use a food bank to feed her charity - yet she's magically supposed to have a chunky sum set aside to shell out on unnecessary and unwanted gardening?!

Wynter25 · 16/05/2025 10:05

YANBU

ConflictofInterest · 16/05/2025 10:05

Wow, forget payment, as a keen gardener I'd be absolutely furious if someone had done my gardening. It's no mow May for a start! Tell him you want compensation for the damage he's done and he'll quickly vanish. I'm amazed he wouldn't check at the start of the season that the arrangement was still in place.

Badbadbunny · 16/05/2025 10:03

Are you sure the gardener isn't trying to con you? Mid May is VERY late for the first gardening visit of the year. They should have been doing the lawn since Easter at the latest. Likewise, there's been pruning, dead-heading etc to do for a few weeks now of the early flowering shrubs. "If" they are genuine, they should have realised that "someone else" has already mowed the lawn since they last did last Autumn!

It's a pretty common scam for "some" unscrupulous workmen to do work that no one has asked them to do and then they try to persuade you to pay them. Very easy if this gardener knew that someone new has moved into a house!

Kissedbyfire1 · 16/05/2025 10:03

Years ago we found ourselves in a very similar situation. Someone ordered a service to be carried out on an item of property that we owned- we knew nothing about it until we got the bill. We refused to pay, the service provider took us to small claims and we lost. We had to pay.

ohyesido · 16/05/2025 10:01

You don’t have any obligation to pay anything. You didn’t have a contract with him.

ChompinCrocodiles · 16/05/2025 09:59

Unless you live on a massive estate and we're talking a bill of hundreds, yabu.

Pick your battles. Just pay the twenty or thirty quid or whatever it is. You've got a half price lawn-mow, move on.

Apart from anything, I really don't think it's worth being this stubborn and difficult with a local gardener, of all people. All of your new neighbours will absolutely get to hear about it if the bill goes unpaid and it will colour opinions of you for a long time.

I've lived here for six years and I still remember the new window cleaner warning me about number 5 who had apparently refused to return Steve next doors battery charger 🤣 I've never had any issues with number 5 but I'd STILL be wary if he asked to borrow something!

TheignT · 16/05/2025 09:58

I'd be quite happy to get home from a week away to find the grass cut. I think paying depends how much work has been done and what it cost. If they cut the grass and it was £40 and I was asked to pay £20 id pay. If it was lots of work and it was £200 and I'm expected to pay £100 I wouldn't pay.

Hdjdb42 · 16/05/2025 09:58

Depends, do you want to use him in the future? There might be a time that you want help with the garden. Is it worth paying half and leaving it on good terms, in case you ever need him?

Nosleepforthismum · 16/05/2025 09:57

I’d pay half to keep the peace. It won’t be that much money and a bad reputation amongst the trades is quickly spread. My neighbours have pissed off a number of tradesmen, gardeners and window cleaners by disputing payments, paying late and generally being difficult. They recently commented how expensive everything seemed to have become, seemingly unaware their reputation precedes them and are now subject to the “arsehole tax” put on by everyone that now comes to quote.

Pootles34 · 16/05/2025 09:55

How much is it, did he do a good job? If not much and a good job, I'd be tempted to pay half to keep him on side - good gardeners are hard to get, and I would prefer to have the option of him coming back to do hedge trimming, any big jobs etc. But that's only if you want to - no obligation on you at all I wouldn't say.

pimplebum · 16/05/2025 09:53

If only £20-30 I’d pay the man and send sellers an invoice making it clear they dick heads

Doggymummar · 16/05/2025 09:52

CyberStrider · 16/05/2025 09:51

Jesus, where do you live? Word will get round!

Besides, I wouldn't think badly of someone who didn't pay a gardener for work they hadn't agreed to.

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