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Not paying for garden work

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gardendramas5 · 16/05/2025 09:24

I’m pretty sure I’m not being unreasonable but I just want to see what other people think.

I purchased my house December last year. It was empty for at least 2 years (ex rental)

The previous owners kept the front and back garden tidy whilst it was on the market, no idea if it was them that did the work or if they paid someone. Both gardens are quite large. I started doing all of this myself when I took ownership.

Anyway, I’ve been away for the last week with family and came home on Wednesday to freshly cut grass, weeds pulled etc. I asked my neighbours if they had seen anyone but they were at work. It turns out that the previous owners hired a company to do the work and hadn’t notified them that they’d sold the house last year. I only found this out yesterday as the gardener turned up with the invoice. I explained I wasn’t aware of this arrangement and that he would have to invoice the previous owners for the work (I was polite and apologised for the inconvenience but made it clear I hadn’t asked for this work to be done and wasn’t prepared to pay for it either)

He knocked on again this morning and explained that he’d spoken to them yesterday and that they agreed to pay half (because it was their error) but that I should pay the rest because I’m the one benefiting from the work. I told him no sorry I’m not paying and he needs to take it up with them.

I do feel bad for the gardener, but it’s their fault. I didn't ask for this. They were awkward during the conveyancing process too so this doesn’t surprise me. AIBU?

OP posts:
EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 16/05/2025 14:08

Springtime43 · 16/05/2025 14:07

I doubt the OP has any legal obligation to pay the gardener. This reminds me of a work colleague who got home to find her garage had been re-roofed. It turns out the builder got the wrong street, but still wanted her to contribute.

And did she?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 16/05/2025 14:07

As an aside I wonder if the poster is in a position to claim trespass and criminal damage? He has gone on her land uninvited and has taken plants and chopped grass etc without permission. Surely legally I would have no right to wander into some random person’s garden and start hacking away at stuff? It’s then even more galling to be asked to pay for the service as well!

Springtime43 · 16/05/2025 14:07

I doubt the OP has any legal obligation to pay the gardener. This reminds me of a work colleague who got home to find her garage had been re-roofed. It turns out the builder got the wrong street, but still wanted her to contribute.

dogcatkitten · 16/05/2025 14:07

Where has the gardener been until now? Surely he should have been doing work before this and if not they should have expected a jungle, didn't they notice the garden was perfectly tidy already? How much is the bill? If it's not much I would pay half, if it's a lot no way.

SwingTheMonkey · 16/05/2025 14:07

There’s 2 parties at fault here, to a lesser or greater extent, and neither one is op.

The gardener should have checked his services were still required after a long hiatus and the previous owner should have cancelled his services when the house sold.

The 2 parties should find a solution between themselves and leave op out of it. As I said upthread, I did the same thing with a window cleaner. I’d never have expected anyone else to share the cost of my mistake, however sparkly their windows were.

BrickBiscuit · 16/05/2025 14:04

boatface25 · 16/05/2025 13:51

Legally you don't have to pay, but I would pay half.

Very generous of you. Just get the gardener’s bank details and get on with it.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 16/05/2025 14:04

Out of interest how much does he want?

I would say legally his contract was with the previous owner and therefore he needs to pursue the full debt with them. Morally you could argue you have been the beneficiary but again, not through choice. If he has agreed that the previous occupier can pay half then that doesn’t mean he has the right to demand you pay the other half. That would depend on your good will and it sounds like you don’t feel like the work was required so the good will isn’t there.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 16/05/2025 14:01

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:44

You sound a delight. Very classy

Why thank you, you've summed me right up.

RobertaBeckett · 16/05/2025 14:01

Hiw much is the bill . And is money tight for you?

If you've got plenty I'd perhaps pay half if money is tight then sorry no

GreenCandleWax · 16/05/2025 13:52

The previous owners have been professionally careless and negligent by not communicating clearly. The blame rests with them as they did not inform the gardener that they no longer needed him. He may well have had an agreement with them to do the garden every six months, say, and was unaware it had changed if they not give him notice. But that is between him and the owners, and you are not obliged to pay for work you did not ask for or know about. If it is not a large sum you could go halves on it to help the gardener out, but I'd be making my feelings known to the previous owners.

radishgate · 16/05/2025 13:52

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:44

You sound a delight. Very classy

And you sound like a complete snob.

LillyPJ · 16/05/2025 13:51

YANBU You have no contract with the gardener so you don't have to pay, whether you benefit or not. It's the previous owners' fault and they are responsible for paying the bill.

boatface25 · 16/05/2025 13:51

Legally you don't have to pay, but I would pay half.

BrickBiscuit · 16/05/2025 13:50

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:44

You sound a delight. Very classy

… but totally correct.

MoHub · 16/05/2025 13:48

Yanbu.
I would also make sure the gardener is clear his services are no longer needed.

The 50/50 split proposal kind of implies a handover to a new client. You could come home on another occasion he's done more work and now expects 100%

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:44

Idontjetwashthefucker · 16/05/2025 13:34

Bollocks. OP didn't ask or want her garden doing, she owes nothing to anybody

You sound a delight. Very classy

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 16/05/2025 13:41

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:31

whilst you didn’t cause this situation, of course not, I still think it says quite a lot about your character that you’re refusing to pay half when even though you didn’t request it, it has saved you some work. Let’s be honest here, it has saved you a lot of time.

But time IS money; and money IS time.

Some people prefer to do jobs themselves rather than paying somebody else to do them and some people simply cannot afford to outsource jobs that they can do themselves.

Rich people may pay others to do their ironing, cleaning, washing, cooking, gardening, driving, life admin etc. - and this all saves them a lot of time, but obviously costs them a lot of money.

Ordinary - and also poorer - people could not pay to buy all of this extra personal time, even if they wanted to. Aside from the fact that spme people actually enjoy cooking, driving and other chores.

In reality, you appear to be saying that people who are not sufficiently well off to outsiurce household tasks automatically all have a bad character.

This isn't somebody who agreed to a paid-for service and then reneged on paying the bill; this is somebody who never remotely asked for the service but has been given a bill for it anyway.

TheHerboriste · 16/05/2025 13:40

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:31

whilst you didn’t cause this situation, of course not, I still think it says quite a lot about your character that you’re refusing to pay half when even though you didn’t request it, it has saved you some work. Let’s be honest here, it has saved you a lot of time.

Nonsense.

Maybe she enjoys caring for her garden and didn’t want to “save time.”

Maybe he pulled “weeds” she planned to cultivate.
Maybe she just doesn’t want a stranger on her property.

OP is the wronged person in this scenario. Let the gardener be more careful about checking with clients.

mumda · 16/05/2025 13:40

I wouldn't pay.
You have no contract with him.
The previous owners engaged him and should have disengaged him.

Did they really have a "yearly" job done?

The fact you've been there since December and this is his first visit makes me feel like he's trying it on for business.

Just say no.

Biggles27 · 16/05/2025 13:38

I’d say not your problem!

Sharptonguedwoman · 16/05/2025 13:37

I'd pay half, tbh.

WokeMarxistPope · 16/05/2025 13:36

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:31

whilst you didn’t cause this situation, of course not, I still think it says quite a lot about your character that you’re refusing to pay half when even though you didn’t request it, it has saved you some work. Let’s be honest here, it has saved you a lot of time.

OP hasn't said that it's work she would have chosen to have done at that time or at all. The person who booked the service should pay for it, and it says something about their character that they haven't.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 16/05/2025 13:34

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:31

whilst you didn’t cause this situation, of course not, I still think it says quite a lot about your character that you’re refusing to pay half when even though you didn’t request it, it has saved you some work. Let’s be honest here, it has saved you a lot of time.

Bollocks. OP didn't ask or want her garden doing, she owes nothing to anybody

ButteredRadish · 16/05/2025 13:31

whilst you didn’t cause this situation, of course not, I still think it says quite a lot about your character that you’re refusing to pay half when even though you didn’t request it, it has saved you some work. Let’s be honest here, it has saved you a lot of time.

DrPrunesqualer · 16/05/2025 13:31

TheHerboriste · 16/05/2025 13:30

Exactly. I don’t mow in May and would lose it if someone lopped down my lawn.

I knew you would
It’s all in the name
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