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Not paying for garden work

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gardendramas5 · 16/05/2025 09:24

I’m pretty sure I’m not being unreasonable but I just want to see what other people think.

I purchased my house December last year. It was empty for at least 2 years (ex rental)

The previous owners kept the front and back garden tidy whilst it was on the market, no idea if it was them that did the work or if they paid someone. Both gardens are quite large. I started doing all of this myself when I took ownership.

Anyway, I’ve been away for the last week with family and came home on Wednesday to freshly cut grass, weeds pulled etc. I asked my neighbours if they had seen anyone but they were at work. It turns out that the previous owners hired a company to do the work and hadn’t notified them that they’d sold the house last year. I only found this out yesterday as the gardener turned up with the invoice. I explained I wasn’t aware of this arrangement and that he would have to invoice the previous owners for the work (I was polite and apologised for the inconvenience but made it clear I hadn’t asked for this work to be done and wasn’t prepared to pay for it either)

He knocked on again this morning and explained that he’d spoken to them yesterday and that they agreed to pay half (because it was their error) but that I should pay the rest because I’m the one benefiting from the work. I told him no sorry I’m not paying and he needs to take it up with them.

I do feel bad for the gardener, but it’s their fault. I didn't ask for this. They were awkward during the conveyancing process too so this doesn’t surprise me. AIBU?

OP posts:
AthWat · 16/05/2025 19:25

willstarttomorrow · 16/05/2025 18:27

I cannot believe people think you should pay half for a service you did not agree to or need/want. His contract is with the previous owner and he needs to take it up with them. He is in a crap position but it is not of your making. What if he had undertaken work you did not want, such as removing plants etc you wanted untouched?

This is the previous owner's oversight and they are being totally unreasonable not to put this down to experience and admit it was their fault. I imagine they do not have a leg to stand on. Maybe check there are no window cleaners, jetwash companies who will be kno cking on your door for payment in the future!

After a few weeks experience of this forum it would have amazed me if there wasn't a long queue of people lining up to say the stupidest possible thing anyone could imagine.

AthWat · 16/05/2025 19:20

RunningJo · 16/05/2025 18:04

I’m totally calm and not being rude at all, whereas your “smart mouth“ comment is beyond rude!.

At what point is does it say the gardener isn’t making much money?. I think you’re adding the details here unless I’ve missed some posts?.
I’m not at any point taking the mickey out of some ‘poor’ gardener and laughing that he isn’t getting his money!?
I was laughing at some of the comments, perhaps you need to lighten up a little and read some of them, as (some) are ridiculous (and yet none of them laughing at the gardener that I can see, including mine!)

He's a gardener, don't you know - a manual labourer! It's unthinkable that someone who can post here, who can read and write, could have less money than a working class type of person like a gardener! They are practically servants!

grumpygrape · 16/05/2025 19:13

You were only away for a week so this concept of ‘benefit’ is ridiculous.

Considering the recent weather. I hope he hasn’t damaged your lawns by cutting them too close….. Our gardener is not cutting too low in case we don’t get rain soon.

You owe him nothing, the previous owners owe him the full cost, this is entirely on them.

Nobody on here knows whether the gardener is on the breadline or raking (see what I did there ?) it in.

As this was his first appearance this year he should have checked he was still wanted.

Funnyduck60 · 16/05/2025 19:00

YABU. You don't care about the gardener either. You've had a bargin. Bet you get paid no matter what.

willstarttomorrow · 16/05/2025 18:27

I cannot believe people think you should pay half for a service you did not agree to or need/want. His contract is with the previous owner and he needs to take it up with them. He is in a crap position but it is not of your making. What if he had undertaken work you did not want, such as removing plants etc you wanted untouched?

This is the previous owner's oversight and they are being totally unreasonable not to put this down to experience and admit it was their fault. I imagine they do not have a leg to stand on. Maybe check there are no window cleaners, jetwash companies who will be kno cking on your door for payment in the future!

ACynicalDad · 16/05/2025 18:19

I'd plan to pay half as I'd benefited and out of goodwill, my wife would say don't pay it's not your contract and I'd be more scared of her so wouldn't pay, and I don't think that would be unreasonable either.

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 16/05/2025 18:16

I think it depends on the cost but I think I'd personally pay the half. You've effectively got half price gardening, which you'll enjoy and get the benefit of. Obviously it's an oversight on their part and they should've cancelled them, and the gardener probably should've knocked/checked, but actually you win out of this. Contractually the old owners owe him, but if it's less than £50 for half, I'd just pay and thank him but ask him not to do any more work - you never know when you might need a gardener too.

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/05/2025 18:12

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 18:11

Or maybe showing you're a reasonable person, who is exercising some common sense. I would feel bad for the bloke but that's me.

I'd feel bad for the bloke too. But I wouldn't pay for a service I hadn't ordered and didn't want. This is perfectly reasonable. If I was a millionaire, I'd pay.

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 18:11

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/05/2025 18:08

Why would you want to introduce yourself to your neigbours as being a mug and a pushover.....

Or maybe showing you're a reasonable person, who is exercising some common sense. I would feel bad for the bloke but that's me.

AnneElliott · 16/05/2025 18:08

No they should pay. I did similar when I told the window cleaner we’d moved but forgot to tell him when the date got put back. Of course I paid the bill even though I didn’t benefit from the windows being cleaned.

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/05/2025 18:08

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 18:06

All of this.

Why would you want to introduce yourself to your neigbours as being a mug and a pushover.....

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 18:06

BigHeadBertha · 16/05/2025 17:43

Of course you don't have to pay for a service you didn't order or even know about.

But if I had the cash to spare, I'd probably give the gardener half anyway.

It's not his fault, either. And, if he's doing the gardening himself, that's pretty hard manual work for low pay. Also, you did get the benefit of his labor.

So, while I agree with you in theory, I also feel like you're bordering on being difficult and insensitive. So instead of answering your question, I'd ask you one: Is this really the way you want to introduce yourself to the neighborhood?

Edited

All of this.

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/05/2025 18:04

Do not pay this. You don't owe it, didn't order it and didn't want the service.

RunningJo · 16/05/2025 18:04

BigHeadBertha · 16/05/2025 17:51

No, the idea of paying someone who likely doesn't make much for manual labor, which you benefitted from, who wasn't at fault either, and who might well be your neighbor, is actually quite far from "batshit" or "madness." Calm down and quit with the smart mouth. It's not appealing, you know.

Edited

I’m totally calm and not being rude at all, whereas your “smart mouth“ comment is beyond rude!.

At what point is does it say the gardener isn’t making much money?. I think you’re adding the details here unless I’ve missed some posts?.
I’m not at any point taking the mickey out of some ‘poor’ gardener and laughing that he isn’t getting his money!?
I was laughing at some of the comments, perhaps you need to lighten up a little and read some of them, as (some) are ridiculous (and yet none of them laughing at the gardener that I can see, including mine!)

Lauren1983 · 16/05/2025 17:55

The previous owners should be paying it all. The OP doesn't owe a penny and doesn't need to do anything as a 'goodwill gesture'. She isn't running a business where that would be applicable.

As has been said what if the previous owners have contracts with other service providers? The OP could end up paying for a gardener, a window cleaner, a bin cleaner and goodness knows what else.

BigHeadBertha · 16/05/2025 17:54

CopperWhite · 16/05/2025 17:51

Gestures of goodwill are for business to show to customers who have given them work in the past and may do agin in future.

They are not for individuals to show to tradesmen whose business they have no interest in.

No, a gesture of goodwill just means that somebody has done something friendly or helpful. Its use isn't limited to business arrangements.

CopperWhite · 16/05/2025 17:51

Gestures of goodwill are for business to show to customers who have given them work in the past and may do agin in future.

They are not for individuals to show to tradesmen whose business they have no interest in.

BigHeadBertha · 16/05/2025 17:51

RunningJo · 16/05/2025 17:14

Sorry but some of the replies to this are utterly batshit. 🤣
To suggest the OP pay anything towards a gardener she neither asked for, knew about, or arranged is madness. 🤣

No, the idea of paying someone who likely doesn't make much for manual labor, which you benefitted from, who wasn't at fault either, and who might well be your neighbor, is actually quite far from "batshit" or "madness." Calm down and quit with the smart mouth. It's not appealing, you know.

Dutchhouse14 · 16/05/2025 17:46

It's not really on you but as a gesture of goodwill and because you've benefited from the work I would pay half, unless you really can't afford to

BigHeadBertha · 16/05/2025 17:43

Of course you don't have to pay for a service you didn't order or even know about.

But if I had the cash to spare, I'd probably give the gardener half anyway.

It's not his fault, either. And, if he's doing the gardening himself, that's pretty hard manual work for low pay. Also, you did get the benefit of his labor.

So, while I agree with you in theory, I also feel like you're bordering on being difficult and insensitive. So instead of answering your question, I'd ask you one: Is this really the way you want to introduce yourself to the neighborhood?

GlidingSquirrels · 16/05/2025 17:41

Obviously not for you to pay, if you'd wanted to spend money on a gardener you would have booked one.

Happyher · 16/05/2025 17:36

His contract verbal or otherwise is with the previous owner. Nothing to do with you. They’ve put him in a dodgy position as he might have damaged your own plants and was actually trespassing. I’m sure you aren’t affected by the last sentence but that’s the position they put him in

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 17:34

SwingTheMonkey · 16/05/2025 17:26

But it’s not a hassle for op and she prefers to do her own garden. Or she’d hire a gardener…

OK, agreeing to differ. I'm saying what I would do.

SwingTheMonkey · 16/05/2025 17:26

Dangermoo · 16/05/2025 17:16

Well she wasn't a party to the contract and no, she's not liable. However, I would look at it from the view that I've got a nice tidy garden which saves me the hassle. I would then request him not to come again. For me, not paying would be petty. Of course the Gardner could just settle for half of the bill from previous owners.

But it’s not a hassle for op and she prefers to do her own garden. Or she’d hire a gardener…

Debinaround · 16/05/2025 17:24

Kissedbyfire1 · 16/05/2025 14:45

It was £200-300. Not a huge amount, but that’s not the point.

It would be a huge amount to me 🤣 Even though you could afford it I bet there was lots of other things you could have spent that money on. The blimming cheek!

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