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To have complained about today’s episode of Loose Women

234 replies

WithYou47 · 15/05/2025 20:44

My DH thinks IABU but I’m adamant this was inappropriate.

Loose Women had a ‘dummy’ of a man’s bottom on their show earlier and one of the presenters/guests inserted their finger where the sun doesn’t shine.

I was eating lunch at the time and found this extremely unbecoming for that time of the day.

I expect my complaint will fall on deaf ears, but it’s worth a go.

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ThatDaringEagle · 16/05/2025 09:51

Me too, bye, bye

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 16/05/2025 09:49

WayneEyre · 16/05/2025 09:42

Do something useful with your life and learn to write accurately and factually. The voting doesn't reflect what apparently happened)I didn't watch the programme).

100% this. I don't know why you are not listening to people telling you that you're wrong about this @WithYou47 and refusing to back down and admit you're wrong, and have spectacularly messed this up. But it's a bit odd, and I've had enough of you. So I'm out.

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WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 09:47

nomas · 16/05/2025 09:41

Are you the poster who says she can’t help complaining and has been asked to change GP surgeries?

No, I had an educational professional make an unsolicited sexual remark to me.

OP posts:
WayneEyre · 16/05/2025 09:42

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

Do something useful with your life and learn to write accurately and factually. The voting doesn't reflect what apparently happened)I didn't watch the programme).

nomas · 16/05/2025 09:41

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

Are you the poster who says she can’t help complaining and has been asked to change GP surgeries?

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 16/05/2025 09:41

ThatDaringEagle · 16/05/2025 08:23

That's simply because of the way you framed the query. You didn't state it was an article about detecting prostate cancer , and instead the inference was that it was on for shock/ titillation/ amusement purposes. Well done !!

P.s. you're the only arse in this saga !!

😆 😂

andweallloveclover · 16/05/2025 09:38

Lauralou19 · 16/05/2025 09:01

I usually find complainers have too much time on their hands/no real problems in life to complain about. When you’re faced with real life issues, especially health, it usually gives you a great perspective on the smaller things.

For the OP to not just complain but then go on a forum (which can be generally helpful for alot of genuine problems), and make a fuss over a section of a programme promoting cancer awareness is just plain sad. I hope her family doesn’t experience men’s cancer as ours has and im going to make sure I share that section of the programme on social media today. Perhaps everyone could do a similar thing or post on the Loose Women fb page how brilliant it was they showed that.

My Dad had cancer of the prostate and I am glad shows such as this do these segments. Who knows who may have been watching who will now go and have one. It could well save their life.

There is too much stigma and embarressment over our general health. People like Dame Deborah James made it acceptable and normal (as it is) to talk about your poo and your bowels. And we have great awareness for women on checking your boobs and what to look for. Why shouldn't we also talk about men and prostate cancer?

Good for Loose Men, I think its great that they showed this.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 16/05/2025 09:35

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

Still not admitting you're embarrassingly wrong, and NO-ONE agrees with you. Your first post literally said there was one of the Loose Women shoving their finger up a plastic model of a man's bumhole. Making out they were doing it for a laugh, and pissing about and being 'rude!' You asked AIBU to have complained about it?

On further investigation, it turned out to be a group of MEN on there (for the Loose Men version of Loose Women) who are illustrating how a prostate examination is done - on a fake, plastic bum For the purpose of helping men take care of their health and well-being.

Completely different to how you had painted the story. Some people when they first voted were responding to your first (very misleading) post, that had a completely different scenario to what actually happened, and THAT is why the voting is not representative of what people really think. YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR VOTE BY THE WAY EVERYONE if you want to change it.

No-one is supporting you @WithYou47 , everyone thinks you are being unreasonable and ridiculous. And you are doing yourself NO FAVOURS by doubling down and refusing to admit you're wrong, and you are continuing to post ridiculous posts.

Seriously @WithYou47 You are 100% embarrassing yourself here, and you can't even see it. What the hell are you playing at? 😂

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Ylylyll · 16/05/2025 09:34

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:55

I had an unreserved apology both verbally and in writing.

You didn’t though did you

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 16/05/2025 09:31

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 15/05/2025 23:40

Don't watch This Morning OP, they had a sperm race the other week just for fun.

Both shows are embarrassing but also informative on health matters.

Everyday is a school day for someone out there.

Oh hey I forgot about that! 😂 🐸 (Sorry I was looking for a spem emoji but couldn't find one, so I searched for tadpole, and the closest I got was frog.) 😂

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 16/05/2025 09:31

PinkArt · 16/05/2025 09:26

How Trump of you. 'I gave people fake news and got them riled up so they voted the way I wanted them to'.

Edited

😂 Bang on!

PinkArt · 16/05/2025 09:26

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:17

Well 1 in 2 of you clearly agree with me given the voting!

How Trump of you. 'I gave people fake news and got them riled up so they voted the way I wanted them to'.

JoyousEagle · 16/05/2025 09:25

GravyBoots · 16/05/2025 09:15

Are you the complain to school lady about the teachers sexual comments?!!

Ahh that was it. I knew there was something to do with a poster complaining to a school about something everyone thought was ridiculous. This has the same feel to it.

GravyBoots · 16/05/2025 09:15

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

Are you the complain to school lady about the teachers sexual comments?!!

Someone2025 · 16/05/2025 09:13

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:17

Well 1 in 2 of you clearly agree with me given the voting!

No one disagreed with the fact that you complained about the text, it was all the other hysterical behaviour that people thought was ridiculous

Lauralou19 · 16/05/2025 09:01

andweallloveclover · 16/05/2025 08:50

YABU to complain. Why do people feel the need to complain constantly about things? If you don't like it just turn the bloody TV over.

It was Loose Men today and they were talking about prostate cancer and showing what happens in an examination. They are raising awareness for it and trying to get rid of the stigma and the possible embarressment that men may feel going for one. Good for them.

I usually find complainers have too much time on their hands/no real problems in life to complain about. When you’re faced with real life issues, especially health, it usually gives you a great perspective on the smaller things.

For the OP to not just complain but then go on a forum (which can be generally helpful for alot of genuine problems), and make a fuss over a section of a programme promoting cancer awareness is just plain sad. I hope her family doesn’t experience men’s cancer as ours has and im going to make sure I share that section of the programme on social media today. Perhaps everyone could do a similar thing or post on the Loose Women fb page how brilliant it was they showed that.

Tulipsontoast · 16/05/2025 08:59

You complained about raising awareness about prostate cancer. Well done.

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:55

TY78910 · 16/05/2025 08:53

My thoughts exactly 😂
Also acknowledgement of your complaint and a ‘sorry you feel that way’ is not the same as upheld.

I had an unreserved apology both verbally and in writing.

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TY78910 · 16/05/2025 08:53

Butchyrestingface · 16/05/2025 08:51

Ah, so you're a serial (or cereal, more like) complainer. 💡

My thoughts exactly 😂
Also acknowledgement of your complaint and a ‘sorry you feel that way’ is not the same as upheld.

Butchyrestingface · 16/05/2025 08:51

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

Ah, so you're a serial (or cereal, more like) complainer. 💡

andweallloveclover · 16/05/2025 08:50

YABU to complain. Why do people feel the need to complain constantly about things? If you don't like it just turn the bloody TV over.

It was Loose Men today and they were talking about prostate cancer and showing what happens in an examination. They are raising awareness for it and trying to get rid of the stigma and the possible embarressment that men may feel going for one. Good for them.

Butchyrestingface · 16/05/2025 08:50

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:17

Well 1 in 2 of you clearly agree with me given the voting!

Imagine having the pure brass neck to double down with that when you've omitted vital contextual information and misled people in the OP.

Think I might start my own thread.

"AIBU to think people should not make a lot of noise in the street at 3am?"

Vote: 100% YANBU.

ANOTHER POSTER: The noise came from the a fleet of fire engines putting out a towering inferno in a neighbouring building.

ME: Oh but voters clearly agree with me!

WithYou47 · 16/05/2025 08:49

There’s nothing wrong with complaining - heck, I raised one recently which had people up in arms on here but I turned out to be vindicated when it was upheld!

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ConnieHeart · 16/05/2025 08:40

WithYou47 · 15/05/2025 21:56

I was channel hopping at the time - how was I to know it was to do with that subject? I’d even argue then it was inappropriate.

Given the normal tone of the show I assumed it was a sexual discussion and they were demonstrating a prostate massage for sexual
purposes.

Then you shouldn't complain if you don't know what it was about! I found the whole episode to be quite informative

nomas · 16/05/2025 08:35

slashlover · 16/05/2025 07:38

By your thinking, I sexually assault the mannequins at work every time I change their clothes. Some parts are just easier to hold when lifting them.

I hope the mannequins are in a union.