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To think people applying for hybrid roles while living nowhere near the office - then refusing to come in - are part of why the job market feels so broken right now?

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YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 12:45

I keep seeing jobs advertised as hybrid (e.g. 1-2 days in the office) but loads of people applying clearly have no intention of ever commuting. It clogs up the process for people who actually can attend in person and probably makes employers less flexible overall. Is this just me being petty or is it actually a thing?

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BoredZelda · 15/05/2025 13:48

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:32

I’m not in a formal hiring role but I’ve been involved in shortlisting and supporting recruitment a few times recently and I’ve seen applicants based hours away applying for hybrid roles that clearly require regular office presence. In some cases, they’ve even said in interviews or follow-ups that they’re “hoping the in-office bit won’t be enforced.” It just feels like there’s a growing trend of people applying to anything labelled ‘hybrid’ and treating it as remote by default. I’m all for flexibility but when the expectations are clear upfront, it gets messy.

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That doesn’t sound like “I’m seeing jobs advertised” 🤔

Way before “hybrid” was the in thing, I applied for roles that were fully office based and at in applications and interviews made it clear I needed 2 WFH days. My view was, they either want me or they don’t. The reality is, if an applicant is the best, most employers will work with them to be able to hire them. I work for a company who had never offered WFH pre-covid. My CV was gold dust, because of the experience I have. They are able to win work they wouldn’t have had a chance of getting without me. They interviewed other candidates who would work in the office 5 days a week but didn’t have my experience. Post Covid, I’m the only one permanently on a 3 WFH/ 2 office based and actually they don’t even enforce that. They know I’m worth keeping.

If people only applied for jobs where they tick every single box, nobody would ever apply for a job. The employer is free to choose which boxes are most important to them. The job market is always evolving. This is no different.

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 15/05/2025 13:46

Have you ever recruited?

At least 50% of applicants are completely unsuitable for basic reasons. This is nothing new and no, it isn't why the job market is "broken", whatever that means.

FrenchJunebug · 15/05/2025 13:46

I often recruits for roles in my team. You cannot stop people from applying! It's up to the recruiter to look at every application on its merit. I have offered positions to people who had to commute a long way and it is part of the interview process to clearly state that office presence on certain days is mandatory.

boatface25 · 15/05/2025 13:45

ConkerGame · 15/05/2025 13:35

Most roles don’t actually require it though. It’s just employer preference. Usually a decision made by a straight white male in his 50s/60s who has no childcare responsibilities and is rich so can live in a 4 bed house in London.

I'd be interested to see the evidential support for that statement.

skymagentatwo · 15/05/2025 13:45

@YourRealMauveSnake I employ people who can do the job, if they can do the job from home they are not required in the office.

I advertise hybrid working to appeal to all, my recruitment team can filter out the best candidates. I think you need do do your own job and move with the times, it just shows how inflexible you are and if your threatened by a colleague who choses to work from home and if you consider your only advantage is you want to work in the office for a few days or more then I suggest you train harder at your role and become more flexible.

Wining on a public forum, is not a good luck for someone claiming to be above others and says a lot about you.

IcedPurple · 15/05/2025 13:43

ConkerGame · 15/05/2025 13:35

Most roles don’t actually require it though. It’s just employer preference. Usually a decision made by a straight white male in his 50s/60s who has no childcare responsibilities and is rich so can live in a 4 bed house in London.

It's not the 1950s!

There are people of both genders and of all ages, races and family set ups in management these days.

Anyway, it's up to the employer to decide what their business 'requires' or not. If you refuse to leave your home for work then obviously you should not apply for a job which requires some time in the office.

Ghosttofu99 · 15/05/2025 13:39

Poopeepoopee · 15/05/2025 12:53

Thats for the recruitment team to worry about...'

Thats what happens when you get robots to recruit humans. It all falls to shite.

Bring back proper CVs and interviews with a well trained HR department.

No one does HR training anymore have you noticed?

Perfect response.

Interviews should be down to a mix of the candidates experience and the interviewer’s judgement, not about who scores more points based on using the most buzzwords.

BangFlash · 15/05/2025 13:37

This happens at my large employer, people applying who live at the other end of the country. They say they’ll come in, do a couple of times then just stay home and wait to see if we sack them. Generally not.

Im really not keen on hybrid. Networking is important. If everybody wfh then you set up a network, if everyone’s in the office then it’s easy. In hybrid nothing set up properly for wfh but also not everyone in the office at the same time so the networking element doesn’t work.

if employers want people in then fine, waste of money in my view but they will have their reasons.

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:37

ForRealThisTime · 15/05/2025 13:30

i was always told if you think you can do a job apply for it even if you don’t tick every box. I don’t tick the box of being prepared to do hybrid work, but if I am the best or most qualified candidate the employer may well be willing to compromise so why shouldn’t I apply?

It has always been said men will apply for jobs if they tick most of the requirements, whereas many women think they need to tick everyone.

I also see a lot of jobs advertised as remote and then in the last paragraph it says that there is a requirement to go into the office x-days a week- so it swings both ways

Yeah I do agree that people shouldn’t wait to tick every box especially with how job specs are written. And yes, some ads are definitely misleading (remote vs hybrid gets blurred all the time).

My point is more about the intentional mismatch: people applying to roles that clearly state regular office attendance, while having zero intention of ever doing that part. If someone applies hoping to negotiate - fair enough. But a pattern of treating hybrid as remote-only does muddy things for candidates who are actually willing to meet the terms. So yes, it does swing both ways and I think clearer expectations (from both sides) would help.

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ConkerGame · 15/05/2025 13:35

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:23

I don’t disagree - forcing people in just because an office exists is a poor reason. But when a role is advertised as hybrid (e.g. 2-3 days in), it’s fair to expect applicants to factor that in. The issue isn’t with people wanting to avoid commuting - it’s with people applying to roles that do require it, then pushing back as if it wasn’t clearly stated. That’s where it creates bottlenecks for everyone else.

Most roles don’t actually require it though. It’s just employer preference. Usually a decision made by a straight white male in his 50s/60s who has no childcare responsibilities and is rich so can live in a 4 bed house in London.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 15/05/2025 13:34

AndorTheRelentless · 15/05/2025 13:17

Why do people need to be in for 3 days a week?

Smacks of "we've paid for an office, so you have to use it" Some of us dont want to waste around 10 hours a week (hour in and hour out) traveling

If somebody advertises a job, giving their clear requirements, it doesn't matter whether you think they should or shouldn't pay somebody to do the job that they want doing, in the way that they want it doing.

If that's not the job that you want to do, or not the way that you want to do that job, nobody is forcing you to apply for it.

ConkerGame · 15/05/2025 13:32

OhamIreally · 15/05/2025 13:19

Yes it annoys me too OP. Don’t apply for a job in London then moan you can’t come in.

I have colleagues who live in 4 bedroom houses complaining about the cost of getting to work. They want it both ways. I want the London salary but accept I’m never going to be able to afford a home like theirs because I live in London.

Don’t expect others to lower their expectations for a decent family life just because you’ve decided to be a martyr / slave to the workplace!

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:32

LoveIndubitably · 15/05/2025 13:24

I keep seeing jobs advertised as hybrid (e.g. 1-2 days in the office) but loads of people applying clearly have no intention of ever commuting.

Can I ask how you are seeing this information (people's location/ intentions when applying)? Are you in a hiring role?

I agree - if it's a hybrid role, you need to come in. I have no idea about who applies though!

I’m not in a formal hiring role but I’ve been involved in shortlisting and supporting recruitment a few times recently and I’ve seen applicants based hours away applying for hybrid roles that clearly require regular office presence. In some cases, they’ve even said in interviews or follow-ups that they’re “hoping the in-office bit won’t be enforced.” It just feels like there’s a growing trend of people applying to anything labelled ‘hybrid’ and treating it as remote by default. I’m all for flexibility but when the expectations are clear upfront, it gets messy.

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ForRealThisTime · 15/05/2025 13:30

i was always told if you think you can do a job apply for it even if you don’t tick every box. I don’t tick the box of being prepared to do hybrid work, but if I am the best or most qualified candidate the employer may well be willing to compromise so why shouldn’t I apply?

It has always been said men will apply for jobs if they tick most of the requirements, whereas many women think they need to tick everyone.

I also see a lot of jobs advertised as remote and then in the last paragraph it says that there is a requirement to go into the office x-days a week- so it swings both ways

Didimum · 15/05/2025 13:30

It's a management problem – they need to be more robust with sticking to policy.

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:29

Pottedpalm · 15/05/2025 13:23

I don’t understand, if it is in your contract to do certain things, how can you ‘refuse’?
and if you refuse, surely you are sacked?

In theory, yes, you sign up for a contract and not meeting those terms should have consequences. But in reality, enforcement is often inconsistent. Some employers don’t want to push too hard during probation or are desperate to fill roles, so people end up staying despite clearly not meeting the hybrid expectation. That’s what I was getting at - this disconnect creates frustration on both sides, especially for those who are willing to meet the terms.

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LoveIndubitably · 15/05/2025 13:27

What is happening is that at interview people say they will commute for 2 days a week then they do it for a month then negotiate because it’s too difficult. At interview stage we are not allowed to say no based on where they live, it has to be how they perform at interview.

That must be infuriating. How could an employer somehow weed this out? I agree you can't based purely on distance.

ilovesooty · 15/05/2025 13:27

AndorTheRelentless · 15/05/2025 13:17

Why do people need to be in for 3 days a week?

Smacks of "we've paid for an office, so you have to use it" Some of us dont want to waste around 10 hours a week (hour in and hour out) traveling

Whether it's right isn't the issue. If the company has made a business decision to make attendance at the office a requirement people shouldn't apply for roles they're not prepared or able to fulfil.

Ddakji · 15/05/2025 13:26

Is this in your workplace, @YourRealMauveSnake? Or are you in recruitment?

LoveIndubitably · 15/05/2025 13:24

I keep seeing jobs advertised as hybrid (e.g. 1-2 days in the office) but loads of people applying clearly have no intention of ever commuting.

Can I ask how you are seeing this information (people's location/ intentions when applying)? Are you in a hiring role?

I agree - if it's a hybrid role, you need to come in. I have no idea about who applies though!

YourRealMauveSnake · 15/05/2025 13:23

AndorTheRelentless · 15/05/2025 13:17

Why do people need to be in for 3 days a week?

Smacks of "we've paid for an office, so you have to use it" Some of us dont want to waste around 10 hours a week (hour in and hour out) traveling

I don’t disagree - forcing people in just because an office exists is a poor reason. But when a role is advertised as hybrid (e.g. 2-3 days in), it’s fair to expect applicants to factor that in. The issue isn’t with people wanting to avoid commuting - it’s with people applying to roles that do require it, then pushing back as if it wasn’t clearly stated. That’s where it creates bottlenecks for everyone else.

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Pottedpalm · 15/05/2025 13:23

I don’t understand, if it is in your contract to do certain things, how can you ‘refuse’?
and if you refuse, surely you are sacked?

Waitfortheguinness · 15/05/2025 13:23

AndorTheRelentless · 15/05/2025 13:17

Why do people need to be in for 3 days a week?

Smacks of "we've paid for an office, so you have to use it" Some of us dont want to waste around 10 hours a week (hour in and hour out) traveling

This is entirely the employers call, they don’t have to justify it to you!
if you don’t like their rules……don’t work there.
A place of work is not an adult day care setting, nor a place to pander to employees.

Cakeandcheeseforever · 15/05/2025 13:22

cadburyegg · 15/05/2025 13:21

I agree with you.

Some of my colleagues live 100+ miles away. We are supposed to come in to the office 2 days a week. 1 of them negotiated just coming in 1 day and tbf does do so. 1 of them comes in 2 days a week but moans continuously about having to do so. 1 of them is supposed to come in every other week but I haven’t seen him in weeks.

What is happening is that at interview people say they will commute for 2 days a week then they do it for a month then negotiate because it’s too difficult. At interview stage we are not allowed to say no based on where they live, it has to be how they perform at interview.

Parking is also allocated on priority need and those living further away get priority so now people who are hardly ever in the office will get a parking permit so they can get a space every time they come into the office even if it’s once every 3 months. Those of us who live closer (and who have paid a fortune to live commutable distance) won’t get a permit even though we are coming into the office more often. People with children used to get priority too but now we don’t.

@cadburyegg that seems very unfair about the parking permits. It should be based on how many times you’re in, not just distance

cadburyegg · 15/05/2025 13:21

I agree with you.

Some of my colleagues live 100+ miles away. We are supposed to come in to the office 2 days a week. 1 of them negotiated just coming in 1 day and tbf does do so. 1 of them comes in 2 days a week but moans continuously about having to do so. 1 of them is supposed to come in every other week but I haven’t seen him in weeks.

What is happening is that at interview people say they will commute for 2 days a week then they do it for a month then negotiate because it’s too difficult. At interview stage we are not allowed to say no based on where they live, it has to be how they perform at interview.

Parking is also allocated on priority need and those living further away get priority so now people who are hardly ever in the office will get a parking permit so they can get a space every time they come into the office even if it’s once every 3 months. Those of us who live closer (and who have paid a fortune to live commutable distance) won’t get a permit even though we are coming into the office more often. People with children used to get priority too but now we don’t.