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To be SO worried nothing on scan at 4 1/2 weeks?

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SillySally999 · 14/05/2025 20:15

I have a history of miscarriage so was referred to EPU on Monday when I found out I was pregnant

I know 100% I ovulated 26/04 which would make me 4 1/2 weeks
Clearable digital moved from 1-2 weeks to 2-3 weeks yesterday so I thought all was going in the right direction but a scan today showed nothing

The sonographer was really harsh - said thick lining but could be for any reason and now doing bloods today and Friday to see if HCG doubles and then will do a repeat scan

I have seen a sac before at this early on but a lot of googling says 5 weeks onwards is when you would expect to see this normally

I’m 40 and this is a very much wanted baby so in a right panic now and wish they didn’t scan me at all

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CantFollowInstructions · 15/05/2025 07:38

That seems way too early. I did IVF and they had me come in for an early ultrasound every time (due to increased risk of ectopic pregnancy with IVF) but the absolute earliest was 5+4! Even then there wasn't a great deal that see - just a gestational sac really. I'm now 20+1 weeks with my current pregnancy - my first ultrasound from 5+4 weeks is literally a circle 😅.

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 15/05/2025 07:32

I had this in both my pregnancies, during the fifth week. I was sent home and told to come back in two weeks, and both times everything was fine. I have to go up now and scrape the resulting teenagers out of bed.

They shouldn't have scanned and put you in this position.

Hang in there.

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SillySally999 · 15/05/2025 07:10

Thanks
Hopefully the bloods have doubled between yesterday and Friday x

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Overthebow · 14/05/2025 21:45

It’s too early. You’d expect to see a sack and yolk sac by 5.5 weeks, but 4.5 may be too early to see anything at all. I’d get a red scan at 6 weeks.

SeaShelli · 14/05/2025 21:42

My now 3 year-old didnt 'show' on a scan till 8 weeks. Sending lots of love

ForeverTipsy · 14/05/2025 21:34

Wishing you lots of luck OP.

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SillySally999 · 14/05/2025 21:32

I just wish they hadn’t done the scan as I was feeling really positive until today.

Strong symptoms - sore boobs, nausea and tiredness and lines all very very dark and clearblue going from 1-2 to 2-3

Annoyed with myself really for agreeing to the scan

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AloeVera889 · 14/05/2025 21:24

Too early. I held out until 7 weeks as everything I read said that before 6 weeks you may not see anything at all.

HollyGolightly4 · 14/05/2025 20:43

Dildocam is hilarious 😂😆

Didntask · 14/05/2025 20:42

I had dildo cam at 5+4 and could barely see anything. Just give it a couple more weeks 💐

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SillySally999 · 14/05/2025 20:38

Didntask · 14/05/2025 20:36

Was it an abdominal scan or dildo-cam?

😂 transvaginal - so yes dildo cam!

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SillySally999 · 14/05/2025 20:37

MidnightPatrol · 14/05/2025 20:27

I’m surprised they scanned you really - it was most likely you wouldn’t be able to see anything.

What was the rationale?

I have no idea
I was 100% expecting them to suggest bloods and so was really surprised when they called me for a scan as I am very sure os ovulation as have been tracking for months so I am 4.3 today

3 miscarriages in the last year so I gather high risk but no confusion about dates so I wish they hadn’t done a scan which has just increased my worry 😢

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TheatreTraveller · 14/05/2025 20:37

As others have said, far too early to scan. I waited until 6.5wks for my early scans for exactly this reason, it just causes further anxiety and worry.
Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

YouBoggleMyMind · 14/05/2025 20:36

It’s too early. A scan at 6 weeks at the earliest for this reason. Good luck 🤞🏻

Didntask · 14/05/2025 20:36

Was it an abdominal scan or dildo-cam?

AreYouBrandNew · 14/05/2025 20:35

In the kindest possible way, I think you have scanned too early. Wait another three weeks to 7.5 weeks

MidnightPatrol · 14/05/2025 20:27

I’m surprised they scanned you really - it was most likely you wouldn’t be able to see anything.

What was the rationale?

BunsenBurnerBaby · 14/05/2025 20:19

Hand hold. Only time will tell. I had multiple early losses (more than 11) so have been there. I now have 3 DC (twins the second time). Try to distract yourself until you know more.

HollyGolightly4 · 14/05/2025 20:18

I've got nothing to add, but I'm sorry you are so worried, it seems so early to scan and I can only imagine the nerves and the emotions. Deep breaths, you can only control the controllable 💐

BurnoutGP · 14/05/2025 20:17

Our EPAU don't scan before 6w for this very reason. Very difficult to see anything before then.