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TeeGypt · 14/05/2025 19:58

In 1999, I went on an 18-30 type holiday to Magaluf. The hotel reception was mainly manned by an old English guy called Mick. He was quite a character, most notable for telling everyone that checked in that he had a cosh under the counter, so not to give him any trouble.

Over the 2 weeks we got to know him a little bit but ultimately we were just another group of “revellers”, and at the end of the holiday we went home. Mick was occasionally mentioned when reminiscing but that’s about it.

Earlier today I was coming through the train station and popped into a branch of Co-op for something. Never been in before. While browsing, I heard a voice that I recognised talking to member of staff - I turned to look round and it was Mick from the hotel!

After getting over the shock that he was still alive (he seemed ancient back in 1999), I asked whether he used to work in hotel in Magaluf. He said he had but was retired.

I told him I remembered him from 26 years ago and he was impressed by my memory. He said he still lived in Mallorca but was over visiting his sister. He was only in the station because he was changing trains and the onward service was cancelled.

Anyway, we went our separate ways but it seemed like an amazing coincidence.

Anyone had anything similar?

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PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 15/05/2025 20:01

I saw a (minor) celebrity at a party in a country I was visiting, he came in with his new girlfriend, which I knew from primary school (in my home country)

POPUpSt · 15/05/2025 08:29

We were flying to the US. Our first flight out of Gatwick was delayed and we ended up having to spend the night in Detroit as we’d missed the last flight for the night to our destination.

On the shuttle bus to the airport hotel we got talking to an American couple and it turned out the husband had spent ten years working in a factory on our street years ago! We lived in a small town in the NE of England at that point. They were very sad to hear that the factory had since closed and houses had been built on the site.

FigTreeInEurope · 15/05/2025 08:07

Erm.. when I was 17, my girlfriend, and the girl I was cheating on her with, caught the same national express coach from London to Leeds, and sat next to each other. I went to the bus station to meet the coach and got dumped by both of them on the spot.

I did learn my lesson.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 15/05/2025 08:03

My Dad was a nuclear test veteran, and it's a pretty small niche group to be in. Started a job and got chatting to a girl on break. Discovered her cousin was someone I know on Facebook as a bit of a mover and shaker in the campaigning for justice for test vets world.

On a similar theme, I was part of a local am dram group about 15 years ago, doing backstage and design. Discovered the latest leading lady was the daughter of my Dad's lymphoma consultant.....

Went to view a flat with my DP, and it turned out the downstairs neighbour was the girlfriend of a chap who had assaulted my DP in an incident that went to court and everything. We did not move in. It's not like we live in a small town either.

I used to have a shop, and in the early days acquired a slightly dotty elderly gentleman as a regular visitor. He needed some support, which was sometimes above my paygrade, so ended up getting ASC involved etc. Told my Dad and SM about it, using just his first name. Both of them kind of looked at each other and asked if his surname was "Smith" which I confirmed. They actually knew him years before and were able to give a bit of back story, which was pretty chaotic. I had to promise not to let my elderly "friend" know where they lived.....

I sometimes think it's quantum entanglement or something.....

LivingDeadGirlUK · 15/05/2025 08:00

I was getting the train to leeds and the guy sat opposite me spilled his coffee on my while he was getting off the train. He didn't say anything which I thought was rude!

Then when I got the train home he got on and sat next to me again, he said 'did I spill coffee on you this morning?!' and I got a proper apology.

AngelinaFibres · 15/05/2025 07:59

Went to youngest sons graduation and then travelled on to a very nice hotel in Dorset to celebrate the final ending of the University years. In the restaurant that night we sat on a table next to the parents of my husband's best friend through Primary school. Husband was brought up in Halifax but hasn't lived there since he was 10. He recognised the accent and then the face of friend's mother.

gannett · 15/05/2025 07:59

I feel like I randomly bump into people abroad way more often than I do in London, where we actually live.

Several years ago I was in Porto in December and while walking through an otherwise deserted park bumped into someone I last saw at university 15 years previously.

A couple of years ago I was in Naples for a work trip. Unexpectedly had an evening off, booked myself a spontaneous solo table at a restaurant across town... and at the table next to me, at the same time on the same day, were good friends of mine who were on holiday. That was a very fun night in the end. Funnily enough a few years before we'd have probably all known in advance we'd be there at the same time, as we'd have mentioned it on social media, but by 2023 none of us were broadcasting our personal lives any more, so it was a total surprise.

WaterfallsArePretty · 15/05/2025 07:54

When I did jury duty, I got chatting to a man on the same case. We came from the same town and he lived 5 doors down from me. I walked past his house every day.

TeeGypt · 15/05/2025 07:47

Thanks everyone, great stories and this probably isn’t as uncommon as I thought.

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Mapletreelane · 15/05/2025 07:34

onwards2025 · 14/05/2025 23:42

A lot of it isn't actually that random and has some foreseeability or predictability about it

Eg the holidays one happens a lot, but not surprisingly that other people you know or have a similar lifestyle to you in a certain part of the world are likely to like similar things to you so pick the same holidays, locations, venues etc

This is so true, we've bumped into people at Disneyland Paris several times. Also one resort in the Loire in France we bumped into 3 sets of school families in one holiday.

Bikergran · 15/05/2025 07:27

My brother was working on a checkout in Morrison's in Edinburgh when he got chatting to a customer who turned out to be our dad's milkman from Sheffield 40 years ago.

ItsNotMeEither · 15/05/2025 07:27

DreamTheMoors · 15/05/2025 01:07

I was little, about 9, at sleepaway camp at a lake. I’d convinced my parents I wouldn’t be homesick but I began to cry. And this nice lady took aside and comforted me. She made sure I was okay every day the rest of the week - we became pals.
I grew up, went to uni and started working. One morning I had to go to the courthouse - there was my old friend, dressed in a smart suit, holding a small bouquet of flowers. I had to introduce myself, but she remembered me, and she began to cry.
She was eloping and nobody knew she was there. I watched her get married.

Aww, this is also very sweet. ❤️

Sharptonguedwoman · 15/05/2025 07:26

Outingname · 14/05/2025 21:21

I was in Chennai airport (India) for work in January,and had to go to the desk to discuss a charging pack in my checked luggage and another lady had the same. She used to work in a building on the same road as my office.

Wow!

Sharptonguedwoman · 15/05/2025 07:24

I was on holiday in France, visiting a cave under a little town. Met someone I knew.

ItsNotMeEither · 15/05/2025 07:21

4kids3pets · 15/05/2025 01:06

Grew up in school with a lad who was my best friend, I can't even explain beyond best friend,soul mate, sadly both of us had to deal with both our mums and cancer around 18 just as we started going out together properly. We drifted apart due to all that was going on in our families, appointmens,helping with care etc. My family moved very quickly from our home village to be nearer a hospital for my mum's daily chemo and some operations.We lost touch. By the time I was 25 things had settled, my mum had recovered and wanted to move back to our home village, I was so excited to see my best friend but when we moved we found out he and his family had gone and that his mum had died from the lung cancer she had..Nobody knew where they had gone. I searched all the usual channels, rang old numbers and by age 32 had still not found him..By now we are in 2019 and my mum booked a 2 week break in wales in July, off we went and near the holiday cottage stopped at a supermarket for supplies. As my mum was unloading the trolley I was idly glancing about and literally the saying your heart stops for a second and the next thing I was flying across the aisle to the next till down saying oh my god oh my god, he looked up yelled my name and the next thing we were both hugging and crying and talking nonsense. His very kind manager let him off work right away and once he learnt the story of how I had been looking and turns out he had been looking for me the manager let him have the 2 weeks off on holiday with us. We were married 31 days later and now have 4 beautiful kids and my now hubby/best friend moved back up to us and got work. Life circumstances separated us but I will never ever forget till the day I die how we found each other again oh and I have 3 pets to 🤣🤣

You win the internet today! This is beautiful! ❤️

DanceToTheMusicInMyHead · 15/05/2025 07:19

I went to uni 250 miles from home. Sat in my first tutorial and was chatting to the boy next to me. Realised quickly he was from the next village from me. Turned out his mum and my mum sit next to each other in their choir!

itsgettingweird · 15/05/2025 07:07

I went on a teen holiday organised by a company - it was 16-18 and parents didn’t go.

2 years later I took a job with another company near me that organise teen holidays and on day one meet the instructor - who was the instructor I had there.

different companies and different counties. Same type of activity.

LadyGnome · 15/05/2025 07:00

I was staying in a hostel in Malaysia and got chatting to another British woman there. She was the older sister of someone I was in primary school with. Her parents lived just up the road from mine.

Tarkan · 15/05/2025 04:48

We went on a caravan holiday a few hours from home (so not as impressive as the abroad stories) but without us knowing, a neighbour from a few doors down ended up two caravans away from us for the same exact week we were there.

And when I met DH we found we had been in the same places at the same time multiple times. We know we must have talked during some of them but didn’t really remember each other. Then we realised that his dad who had sadly died a few months before we met was my childhood postie who would have delivered all my exam results and once retrieved our dog who decided to escape the house (and hated people touching his collar but was fine with my FIL holding it to take him home).

Mishmashs · 15/05/2025 03:39

Not me but close family members, both involving f mountains! Years ago my sister was hiking a mountain trail in China. Dusk was coming and she was beginning to worry she had taken a wrong turn and heard something coming down the path. She was nervous it was some kind of wild animal which could be aggressive (that she had been warned about), it was a bloke and she spoke to him to check the way down - he only worked for my uncle back in the UK!

again years ago parents on top of a mountain in Oman. Stopped to admire the view from a viewing point and there was a British man there. Got chatting, turned out to be my sister’s piano teacher from 30 years earlier when they all lived in west Africa.

TheOriginalEmu · 15/05/2025 03:27

I moved from the U.K. to Vietnam for a year when I was 18. I knew nobody, so my first night there I went to a little bar around the corner. Sat at the bar and when I ordered my drink the guy sat next to me said hey you’re Welsh! He was from the same town as me and we had quite a few friends in common, but didn’t know each other. He was there as his family are Vietnamese and he was visiting for a couple of weeks.

We went out for a few years after that.

RabbitsRock · 15/05/2025 03:20

4kids3pets that’s absolutely lovely! Gave me goosebumps ❤️

ButteredRadish · 15/05/2025 02:53

Bumped into an ex in the US

TempestTost · 15/05/2025 02:49

One: On a plane to Bermuda, sat next to a lady returning home from visiting her daughter. The daughter lives in a house a few down from the one I grew up in where I had babysat the kids from time to time.

Two: I was working in an army HQ as the lowest ranking person on the staff in an office type of job. A new captain came to join the office staff for our section. It turned out to be a guy who lived across the street from me when I was very small and used to babysit me. More embarrassingly, he had quite a lot of whiskers for a teenager at the time and I used to like to rub my face on them until I turned red.

FindingNemosBall · 15/05/2025 02:37

NYE 2022 DH (BF at the time) & I spontaneously decide to fly to TianJin to see in the new year under the big clock on the river. 2nd Jan we're in the airport boarding our return flight when we bump into an ex of mine! Apparently his GF's (now wife) family lived in that city!

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