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To think Starmer has shot himself in the foot.

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TheQuickRobin · 13/05/2025 20:17

This isn’t about my own opinion but political strategy.

So he does this Island of strangers thing wanting to appeal to Labour heartlands who have gone to Reform. But.

I just think Reform voters won’t believe him?

Tories hate him becaus he’s Labour.

Middle class Labour lefties will be put off by the message.

Who does he think he’s winning over?

Anyone on here had their opinion of him changed?

IABU - I thought he was a prat now I think he’s on my team

IANBU - EITHER I thought he was a prat, still think he’s a prat OR I liked him now think he’s a prat.

Very unscientific poll here!

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Gymnopedie · 14/05/2025 11:15

The Guardian today is saying the same as this thread:

Keir Starmer is caught in yet another trap of his own making | Rafael Behr | The Guardian

What gets me is that if the Tories had done what Labour are doing - winter fuel, disability, immigration - you wouldn't have been able to hear yourself think for the noise of Labour screaming 'nasty party' from the rooftops.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 11:09

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 11:07

Tbf if Labour are blaming the media and everyone else they won’t fix the issues that are driving the poll shift. Ok fine.

Labour isn’t blaming the media. I am. Farage has always had a completely disproportionate amount of media coverage.

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 11:07

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:04

You really need to stop blaming the media for Labour's failings.

Tbf if Labour are blaming the media and everyone else they won’t fix the issues that are driving the poll shift. Ok fine.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 11:06

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:05

About what?

This

Farage has very successfully managed to pin the blame for everything on immigration.

Upstartled · 14/05/2025 11:05

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:02

I think what Eastern means here (and I agree with) is that Labour policies (wfa, welfare reforms etc) have exacerbated the feeling of abandonment amongst the least well off. The red wall is turning to Reform.

100%

How anyone can think that this is the Labour government which was promised prior to the general election, is totally beyond me.

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:05

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 11:04

So you’ve changed your mind?

About what?

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 11:04

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:02

I think what Eastern means here (and I agree with) is that Labour policies (wfa, welfare reforms etc) have exacerbated the feeling of abandonment amongst the least well off. The red wall is turning to Reform.

So you’ve changed your mind?

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:04

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:54

The disproportionate amount of air time Farage gets for his abhorrent views has increased Reform’s support. Let’s see how much support they’ve got when they’ve been in charge of several councils for a few months, shall we?

You really need to stop blaming the media for Labour's failings.

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 11:02

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:47

No they haven’t. @TheNuthatch is entirely right, this is Farage’s doing.

I think what Eastern means here (and I agree with) is that Labour policies (wfa, welfare reforms etc) have exacerbated the feeling of abandonment amongst the least well off. The red wall is turning to Reform.

TheQuickRobin · 14/05/2025 11:01

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:15

@TheQuickRobin

But it’s not just the immigration, it’s the lack of expectations on integration on shared values and ongoing contribution too, which is I think that the “island of strangers” is intended to convey. I’m not saying I liked the wording - I don’t and would write it differently. But I think it’s not racist and xenophobic to say that there should be some expectations around shared culture, behavioural expectations and contribution to society. That shouldn’t be about villainising migrants, I totally agree, but about designing a system and a society that sets out its expectations better and in a compassionate way. It’s not compassionate to pretend that we don’t care at all about specific things and then be quietly or gradually more loudly resentful (or, in the case of wealthy liberals, privately grateful that they don’t suffer the consequences).

Verrrry interesting this comment seems to assume a lot of things about my own opinions which I have been careful not to say.

My question was about whether he would have changed anyone’s mind. I’m genuinely interested in whether taking gambles like this (in making what was, we can all agree, an off-brand speech for a Labour PM) ever pay off. It was clear what he was trying to do and my view is it won’t work.

As for my own opinions… I could be a fully paid up member of the EDL and feel he’s not going far enough. It’s just interesting how we make assumptions about others’ views on anonymous forums based on so little 😁

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TheQuickRobin · 14/05/2025 10:56

BeanQuisine · 14/05/2025 10:37

"IABU - I thought he was a prat now I think he’s on my team

IANBU - EITHER I thought he was a prat, still think he’s a prat OR I liked him now think he’s a prat."

What if you didn't think he was a prat, and your opinion of him hasn't changed?

I think he comes across as rather ineffectual at times, but is certainly a big improvement on the various cartoon characters the Tories have installed in recent years.

I also think there's been unjustified over-reaction to his "island of strangers" speech, which was a lot more balanced than some are claiming.

Fair! I should have expanded out the IABU category thought of that this morning

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BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:54

The disproportionate amount of air time Farage gets for his abhorrent views has increased Reform’s support. Let’s see how much support they’ve got when they’ve been in charge of several councils for a few months, shall we?

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 10:51

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:47

No they haven’t. @TheNuthatch is entirely right, this is Farage’s doing.

Your two comments show the lack of insight. Channel crossing numbers are up with Labour which increases Reform’s support.

I don’t mind if Labour ignore that as they’ll feel it in the polls.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:47

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 09:43

Labour’s policies too have prompted the rise. The rhetoric and higher numbers crossing works well for Reform. The former now switched of course to island of strangers stuff.

No they haven’t. @TheNuthatch is entirely right, this is Farage’s doing.

Toootss · 14/05/2025 10:47

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:54

Upstartled · Today 09:45
What happened to Smash the Gangs anyway, have they given up on that

I guess they’ve realised there’s nothing they can do about them.

There’s nothing they can do about it because we are such nice law abiding people the illegal imigrants can take the p.
There are warehouses full of inflatables in Germany - manufactured in Turkey. We could send in an SAS type raid and destroy the lot.

Somehow other countries are bending the rules and controlling stuff but our judges are on the side of the immigrants.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:47

There's more to the UK than London.

Oh definitely - that’s why I recommend to our friends and acquaintances from East Asia to go to the countryside and cities like Bath and Cambridge - though maybe crime is rising in those cities.
We’ve got a friend who is a guide and apparently some people think UK is smaller than it is.
“We’d like to go to Edinburgh and maybe Islay or Skye, then York which I think is near Chatsworth so we want to go there too, and then Cambridge and Oxford colleges, and of course the Cotswolds are a must, including Blenheim Palace, and to end up with Salisbury Cathedral and the Eden Project. Oh yes, and my grandmother was born in Brighton so I’d love to have a quick look round there.
Can we fit that in a long weekend?”

Sorry, that’s completely off topic.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:44

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 09:52

Looks like it. That was bound to fail.

Just like “Stop the boats”, that went well too.

Badbadbunny · 14/05/2025 10:40

Zebedee999 · 14/05/2025 10:35

Labour deserted the working class decades ago. In fact I'd go so far as to say Labour despise the working class.

It started with Gordon Brown calling Gillian Duffy a bigot in 2010. Thornberry hating and mocking white van man / St George's Cross in 2014. Starmer blocking and mocking the working class for voting Brexit and being anti immigration due to the wage suppression the working class suffers etc. And so it goes on.

Labour have hated the working class for decades hence why they voted Tory in 2019 and Reform now.

Nail on the head. Brown really did set the scene with his bigoted woman comment all those years ago. It's a line in the sand, date wise, which proves that the immigration problem isn't even a recent thing, it goes right back 15-20 years or more. Yet the London centric elite politicians just won't accept it's a problem, because they're the ones benefitting from top end ethnic restaurants and cheap quality labour (private nannies etc). They don't see the reality of Just Eat drivers in uninsured cars, money laundering barber shops, modern slavery, gangs of young adults abusing women in the street, etc out in the more disadvantaged regions which they've ignored for decades. It's taken a long time, but now the problems are so widespread across the country, that the politicians can't get away with pretending the problems don't exist and that anyone who says anything is a rabid extreme right racist. Finally they've woken up, but it's taken Farage to galvanise enough voters to make an impact.

BeanQuisine · 14/05/2025 10:37

"IABU - I thought he was a prat now I think he’s on my team

IANBU - EITHER I thought he was a prat, still think he’s a prat OR I liked him now think he’s a prat."

What if you didn't think he was a prat, and your opinion of him hasn't changed?

I think he comes across as rather ineffectual at times, but is certainly a big improvement on the various cartoon characters the Tories have installed in recent years.

I also think there's been unjustified over-reaction to his "island of strangers" speech, which was a lot more balanced than some are claiming.

Badbadbunny · 14/05/2025 10:36

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:05

Visitors will just stop coming.

Yes they will. It’s such a pity as there’s so many interesting and beautiful things to do and see in London.

There's more to the UK than London!

Zebedee999 · 14/05/2025 10:35

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 13/05/2025 20:22

Yanbu, I'm a leftie but I voted green and I'll never like him

Stuff like this, i saw coming. See also, disability benefit cuts. Didn't do it to PIP because of the middle clash backlash, but has decided to attack working class universal credit claimants claiming the disability element

Disgusting and unprincipled man. I know we'd never get a Jeremy corbyn again, but someone who at least cares about the poor and those who work all hours keeping our country going, would be great!

Labour deserted the working class decades ago. In fact I'd go so far as to say Labour despise the working class.

It started with Gordon Brown calling Gillian Duffy a bigot in 2010. Thornberry hating and mocking white van man / St George's Cross in 2014. Starmer blocking and mocking the working class for voting Brexit and being anti immigration due to the wage suppression the working class suffers etc. And so it goes on.

Labour have hated the working class for decades hence why they voted Tory in 2019 and Reform now.

Goldenbear · 14/05/2025 10:33

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:24

and @TheQuickRobini think we all do recognise that it is difficult to convey. The reality is that a set of bad choices have been made and quite a lot of people are feeling negatively about that. That doesn’t and should not imply disliking those people individually or specifically. But it does imply recognising the issues that have arisen and designing the system so that fewer people with identical profiles to those people settle and become citizens in future.

But your setting up this narrative of the “good” and “bad” migrant, that perpetuates racist ideas that harm everyone in society.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:27

London was better when it wasn't just for visitors, when people lived in the properties sitting empty. This totally has changed the character of the place. It is happening in the city by the sea where I live, it is totally changing the vibe of the place, endless period properties that were once homes to people, sitting empty - the buy to leave or the endless Air BNBs.

I agree with you on this and the amount of properties in London and elsewhere bought as investments and left empty is shocking.
However, I suppose if tourists stop coming because of crime then the Air BNB owners will go out of business and the properties will go on the market.

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:24

and @TheQuickRobini think we all do recognise that it is difficult to convey. The reality is that a set of bad choices have been made and quite a lot of people are feeling negatively about that. That doesn’t and should not imply disliking those people individually or specifically. But it does imply recognising the issues that have arisen and designing the system so that fewer people with identical profiles to those people settle and become citizens in future.

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:15

@TheQuickRobin

But it’s not just the immigration, it’s the lack of expectations on integration on shared values and ongoing contribution too, which is I think that the “island of strangers” is intended to convey. I’m not saying I liked the wording - I don’t and would write it differently. But I think it’s not racist and xenophobic to say that there should be some expectations around shared culture, behavioural expectations and contribution to society. That shouldn’t be about villainising migrants, I totally agree, but about designing a system and a society that sets out its expectations better and in a compassionate way. It’s not compassionate to pretend that we don’t care at all about specific things and then be quietly or gradually more loudly resentful (or, in the case of wealthy liberals, privately grateful that they don’t suffer the consequences).