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Have I just been thrown out of GP Practice?

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Madmay25 · 13/05/2025 16:14

Long story short. Transferred ( no choice) to new GP Practice when my previous Practice closed. I had been very happy there.
The new Practice was very disappointing in several ways which led me to make several written complaints about GPs, Nurses, etc. The Practice did respond in writing to these complaints.

However, my latest complaint led to me now being advised that the Practice can arrange for me to move to a different Practice. This move would not otherwise be possible due to local GP pressures.

Is this the same as being kicked out? Should I agree to move elsewhere ? Worried it might be worse!
Do you think I am being unreasonable...complaining / expecting too much?
😕

OP posts:
justteanbiscuits · 14/05/2025 08:34

If the practice is so bad you have written multiple complaints, why on earth would you not want to move?

Madmay25 · 14/05/2025 08:15

Yes, having discussed this with family/ friends/ Mumsnet I am definitely going to move to a new Practice now. I still think my complaints were justified and will pursue the ' move on' issue as vulnerable people should not be treated this way.
I will make no further posts about this matter. Thanks to all for feedback 🙏

OP posts:
RentalWoesNotFun · 14/05/2025 08:11

I didn't know what the question actually was. So I voted you weren’t unreasonable (in expecting a written reply to your complaints). Some places are just badly run. Maybe this is one such place.

I'd complain about the way your complaints were handled and search for another GP by myself.
I did this when I moved house, Im in Scotland. You dont need to be transferred by them. Who knows what they may say about you that would put another practice off….!

ladeedarrrry · 14/05/2025 08:01

Mansionscoldandgrey · 13/05/2025 23:08

Hello Ian 👋

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Madmay25 · 14/05/2025 07:59

GP practices (in Scotland) are private businesses with the power this involves. You can only complain to the Practice, not local NHS.
I do want to take this issue further.

I spoke with CAB yesterday and they advised I can take it to Scottish Ombudsman . Unfortunately, first of all, I need to make a further complaint to the Practice...about the way my complaints have been handled.

OP posts:
OneQuirkyPanda · 14/05/2025 07:44

I think you need to examine why you have this compulsion to complain, several written complaints, but not wanting to change practices….

Lesleyann25 · 14/05/2025 07:20

My doctor surgery has changed in a big way since Covid. It can be pain with appointments etc but they seem to have more time for you now then before. For example i was on the talking therapies list for anxiety for 3 years after Covid was allocated a therapist straight away but things have changed so much.

RosesAndHellebores · 14/05/2025 06:16

@proudestmumofone1 I am afraid I have met far too many devils when dealing with the NHS. Not all who work in it are Angels, not even some of the incompetent ones.

JMSA · 14/05/2025 00:48

It sounds like you’ve made a pain in the arse of yourself and they’re fed up of you.

Proudestmumofone1 · 13/05/2025 23:53

Kindly @Madmay25 please accept the transfer to another practice with grace and make an appointment to request therapy for this utterly absurd mindset.

The notion that you ‘simply cannot stop complaining’ suggests mental health issues and you would be very fortunate to be helped by the angels that are the staff in our NHS.

Oh and if you’re NHS ain’t good enough for you, pay privately. But stop taking up their time (and therefore limiting their resources for everyone else who genuinely needs help) in an utterly selfish manner.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 13/05/2025 23:08

Hello Ian 👋

surreygirl1987 · 13/05/2025 22:47

Mareleine · 13/05/2025 16:17

Obviously you don't like the practice, they're now fed up of your persistent complaints, so take the move and make a note to stop complaining so much about everything at the new place. Complaints about so many different practitioners at the same practice suggest this is a you problem.

That's impossible to say. I have had to make multiple complaints about different staff members following the birth of my son (they cocked up BIG time, and it was a chain of events). I've also made complaints at my local GP surgery which were 100% justified (ie GP losing a referral letter and forgetting to do some essential paperwork). We don't know the quality of the OP's GP practice so cannot judge.

However, OP, I would say if it is that bad and not improving, it might be worth considering moving anyway, especially if they don't take on board your concerns.

TooGoodToGoto · 13/05/2025 22:30

RosesAndHellebores · 13/05/2025 22:24

I was with my former GP.for 8 years when we moved house. During that 8 years they:

Refused to suppprt us in relation to MH care for our 16 year old "CAMHS are useless and won't see her so find a therapist off the internet". In front of said 16 year old.

Countless incorrect prescriptions or ones that were never at the pharmacy although the practice insisted they'd been sent.

I was given prescriptions for other patients. And someone else's referral was sent to me when a copy of mine was sent.

Probably the most arrogant bunch of doctors I have ever met and the rudest receptionists.

Referrals not made.

I was told.all people in my Town could only be referred to the local hospital at the instruction of the CCG (this was not true).

The final straw was when they sent me a fit note signing me off work for two weeks.post surgery. I hadn't had surgery or requested a sick note. They muddled me with another patient.

I changed Dr's two years ago. There is no comparison. The new practice is 1000% better. They even answer the phone.

If OP had detailed this type of thing, she may have got different responses, but she doesn’t want to and has just said she’s a compulsive complainer.

So……..

TooGoodToGoto · 13/05/2025 22:27

blubbyblub · 13/05/2025 21:37

Although it sounds like she was happy at the other place

So this place clearly do things differently, doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

RosesAndHellebores · 13/05/2025 22:26

ClairDeLaLune · 13/05/2025 22:19

You have a compulsion to complain? FFS. Do you think the NHS have nothing better to do than to respond to unfounded complaints from you? No wonder it’s in the state it is. And no wonder your surgery want to get rid of you. God help your new surgery!

We don't know if the complaints were unfounded or not.

The NHS is in the state it is because for decades people have accepted sloppy standards.

RosesAndHellebores · 13/05/2025 22:24

I was with my former GP.for 8 years when we moved house. During that 8 years they:

Refused to suppprt us in relation to MH care for our 16 year old "CAMHS are useless and won't see her so find a therapist off the internet". In front of said 16 year old.

Countless incorrect prescriptions or ones that were never at the pharmacy although the practice insisted they'd been sent.

I was given prescriptions for other patients. And someone else's referral was sent to me when a copy of mine was sent.

Probably the most arrogant bunch of doctors I have ever met and the rudest receptionists.

Referrals not made.

I was told.all people in my Town could only be referred to the local hospital at the instruction of the CCG (this was not true).

The final straw was when they sent me a fit note signing me off work for two weeks.post surgery. I hadn't had surgery or requested a sick note. They muddled me with another patient.

I changed Dr's two years ago. There is no comparison. The new practice is 1000% better. They even answer the phone.

ClairDeLaLune · 13/05/2025 22:19

Madmay25 · 13/05/2025 16:42

Wow, thanks for so many quick responses. First time posting here.

It seems I am being unreasonable. Just cannot stop complaining..it's like a compulsion.
I will move on now..and try not to complain.

You have a compulsion to complain? FFS. Do you think the NHS have nothing better to do than to respond to unfounded complaints from you? No wonder it’s in the state it is. And no wonder your surgery want to get rid of you. God help your new surgery!

TaggieO · 13/05/2025 21:57

BakelikeBertha · 13/05/2025 21:00

I simply CAN NOT believe the way so many people are ripping into the OP, everyone is entitled to complain if they don't get good treatment, or if people make mistakes, or are rude. To act as if all doctors surgeries are the best thing since sliced bread, is ridiculous! Yes, I'm sure that a lot of us on here have a lot to thank doctors and nurses for, I have myself, but equally there are some really rude, nasty and aggressive medical staff out there, and when they make mistakes, it can cost lives, so if we don't complain when things aren't right, and they end up killing someone, then everyone would be saying, 'oh but you should have said something'. The thing is, people don't like being called out when they've done something wrong, and there are a lot of medical support staff who think they're Gods, so if the OP has had cause to complain, then I think it's highly likely that there was something wrong, and if her complaints get other people a better service, then we should be praising her, not bullying her.

RTFT. OP has readily admitted that they have a compulsion to complain all the time about everything.

Hwi · 13/05/2025 21:53

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 13/05/2025 20:12

Perhaps you could train as a GP given you believe you know enough about it to make multiple complaints. People like you are the reason the good GPs are moving to the other side of the planet.

Which side? Don't they have their own secretaries/physician associates to google symptoms and prescribe paracetamol and water?

BobbyBiscuits · 13/05/2025 21:44

I'd say you'd be best off moving.
But when you say it's like a 'compulsion' to write complaints, do you think they were all justified?
Were you put in danger?
The next one could be better or worse. I guess try to see it in a positive way in that the ones you complained about won't be able to see you anymore.

justasking111 · 13/05/2025 21:41

Our practice has changed since COVID. You try to make an appointment, try the pharmacy. Pharmacy says see the GP, reception says you'll receive a text questionnaire. You fill in the questionnaire, get a text back saying collect prescription, provide a urine sample.

Get to the surgery, two people in the waiting room. Another new receptionist, they can't hang onto staff anymore. I've heard they're getting a lot of complaints now formal and on social media.

It's very depressing to work there on the front line I think.

blubbyblub · 13/05/2025 21:37

Mareleine · 13/05/2025 16:17

Obviously you don't like the practice, they're now fed up of your persistent complaints, so take the move and make a note to stop complaining so much about everything at the new place. Complaints about so many different practitioners at the same practice suggest this is a you problem.

Although it sounds like she was happy at the other place

SockFluffInTheBath · 13/05/2025 21:25

If they’re legitimate complaints then why would you not want to go to a different practice? If they’re not legitimate then stop wasting peoples’ time with mindless attention seeking.

Frenzi · 13/05/2025 21:18

Also - if you have that many complaints about your current GP practice, how can a new one be worse!

Cherryicecreamx · 13/05/2025 21:18

As for the complaints, I don't think there is anything bad about it (as long as it's not rude of course). I think people need to know when they are not getting the right service. I've had issues with mine lately, one GP brushing over everything I say but then the next going above and beyond to help. If I kept getting treatment like the first, I would be let down and my problem would just get worse.