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Is there something wrong with me? I hate musicals.

212 replies

Ittakeslonger · 11/05/2025 20:21

AIBU? I'm 62 and all my friends seem to have developed a passion for musicals. I have been to quite a few with friends to be sociable and to see if I could get to like them but, with each musical, my dislike of them just grows. I find them contrived, and the music average and the whole experience very boring. I sit there hoping it's over soon. I go to be sociable but it's not an event where you chat or do an activity together. We simply sit, glued to a chair. Some musicals are better than others but overall I'd always rather be anywhere else, even home. Is there anyone else out there who gets my dislike? Am I destined to be a social pariah? My friends seem puzzled and a bit offended by my attitude.

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Littledidsheknow · 11/05/2025 21:13

ohyesido · 11/05/2025 21:12

I only like a few older ones. Wicked didn’t interest me at all.

I’m the same. I’m not hugely into musicals, but the older ones have much better songs and music.

Ferretedaway · 11/05/2025 21:12

I’m 64 and have always loathed musicals. They make me irrationally irritable for some reason. It’s nice to come across others who feel the same as so many friends either like or love them . There is nothing wrong with us or with them. You just like what you happen to like .

ohyesido · 11/05/2025 21:12

I only like a few older ones. Wicked didn’t interest me at all.

BurntBroccoli · 11/05/2025 21:11

StupidBoy · 11/05/2025 20:30

I actually judge people who are musical theatre nuts. Anyone who says the highlight of their week is listening to Elaine Paige on Sunday could not be any friend of mine.

I’m pleased you said that! I find Elaine Paige on a Sunday excruciatingly annoying and I can’t turn the radio off quick enough! That fake laugh! Why it has to be peak Sunday afternoon I don’t know.

Historyofwolves · 11/05/2025 21:10

There's nothing wrong with you. If someone tells me they're into musical theatre, I have to stop myself from running away right there and then!

Beachhutgirl · 11/05/2025 21:10

I've always much preffered plays to musicals, I'd go to a musical for a family or friends night out, and enjoy the whole occasion without especially loving the musical. I enjoy opera as well, but plays have always been my first live.

However to my surprise, in the last few years probably since theatres reopened after lockdown, musicals have really grown on me, I've seen Oliver, Hamilton and the film version of Six, and really enjoyed all of them.

I'm a few years older than you, OP, so.it may come to you yet!

matchenergy · 11/05/2025 21:08

BingoBling · 11/05/2025 20:59

DH has said he hates musicals, but in actual fact he likes some of them. Mamma mia he did enjoy, for example, and Moulin Rouge.

Have you seen Lion King - i defy you not to love that !

We went at Christmas to Lion King and I have got tickets to go again on Thursday…a Big Birthday Treat for my sister.Cannot imagine how anyone wouldn’t be impressed with Lion King …absolutely magical .

HeyItsPickleRick · 11/05/2025 21:07

The only ones I haven’t minded are Book of Mormon (hilarious) and Les Mis (just too good)

Everything else, I agree entirely! I find them cringey and tiresome.

Gundogday · 11/05/2025 21:06

jay55 · 11/05/2025 21:04

I generally think of myself as someone who loves musicals but the last three or four I’ve been to have been utter tripe.
Ive been re-evaluating whether I like them at all.
I do, and I’ll continue to go but, there is so much shit being produced at the moment.

Which ones?

TheKeatingFive · 11/05/2025 21:04

BassesAreBest · 11/05/2025 21:04

Actually I normally like musicals but that’s one I really don’t!

Wow 😱

jay55 · 11/05/2025 21:04

I generally think of myself as someone who loves musicals but the last three or four I’ve been to have been utter tripe.
Ive been re-evaluating whether I like them at all.
I do, and I’ll continue to go but, there is so much shit being produced at the moment.

BassesAreBest · 11/05/2025 21:04

TheKeatingFive · 11/05/2025 21:00

I defy anyone to not to enjoy Guys and Dolls

Actually I normally like musicals but that’s one I really don’t!

HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 11/05/2025 21:04

BassesAreBest · 11/05/2025 20:54

Of course YANBU not to like something. People like different things 🤷‍♀️

You would BU to say you didn’t like them if you’d never seen one, but you’ve tried them, didn’t like them, what’s the problem?

Oooh, I don’t know. I’ve never been electrocuted before and don’t need to experience it to know I wouldn’t be a fan.

Elsvieta · 11/05/2025 21:03

Have you tried Sondheim? West Side Story? Guys and Dolls?

Kalegreen · 11/05/2025 21:03

I thought is only me I hate musicals with passion.

rivalsbinge · 11/05/2025 21:02

I’ve hated them since being a child, Mary poppins etc.. breaking into stupid songs.. no thanks, never seen one in real life as I can’t even stand the music from any of them.

Golidlocksandthethreeswears · 11/05/2025 21:01

I would rather cheese grater my eyelids and rinse them in vinegar than sit through a musical

TheKeatingFive · 11/05/2025 21:00

I defy anyone to not to enjoy Guys and Dolls

Zanatdy · 11/05/2025 21:00

I like musicals but I prefer a play. Maybe suggest a play for the next outing.

BingoBling · 11/05/2025 20:59

DH has said he hates musicals, but in actual fact he likes some of them. Mamma mia he did enjoy, for example, and Moulin Rouge.

Have you seen Lion King - i defy you not to love that !

Hankunamatata · 11/05/2025 20:58

I like theatre but seems everything is a musical and very little plays where we live. Mildly doing my head in as not a musical theatre fan

Gundogday · 11/05/2025 20:56

Everyone has different tastes.

HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 11/05/2025 20:56

I hate them. Even as a child I found pantomimes patronising.

It’s like enforced fun, on steroids.

Ittakeslonger · 11/05/2025 20:55

Ah I was responding to someone's question as to whether I like some more than others and I was trying my best to be positive but really I don't like sitting in theatres watching them! Sorry for the confusion!

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BassesAreBest · 11/05/2025 20:54

Of course YANBU not to like something. People like different things 🤷‍♀️

You would BU to say you didn’t like them if you’d never seen one, but you’ve tried them, didn’t like them, what’s the problem?