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Are my dinners rubbish?

636 replies

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 13:38

Been told they are

Here’s an example of an average week, more or less:

Monday (I work at 6, so do something simple)

Feta & red onion salad with new potatoes & rice

Tuesday

Pasta with jar pesto (working today)

Wednesday

Dh to do omlette/eggs on toast with salad (working today)

Thursday

Salmon, salad, new potatoes

Friday

Homemade chilli with rice, nachos & dips

Saturday

Takeaway

Sunday

Roast dinner/homemade lasagne

Are they?

OP posts:
BassesAreBest · 10/05/2025 14:46

My daily breakfast is 5% fage Greek yoghurt, blueberries and mixed seeds. It's ace.

That would literally make me throw up. The blueberries and mixed seeds are fine, but the texture of Greek yoghurt is appalling.

Food is never a one-size-fits-all. You adapt to what people will eat.

faerietales · 10/05/2025 14:46

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:44

You'd need to be living under a rock not to have heard of that.

No, I just live in the real world where most people can't afford to be buying 30 different plants every week.

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:46

WtafIsThat · 10/05/2025 14:43

Because they don’t like it. Why else?

But no it must be because they’re used to having too much sugar. Because that’s the only alternative. FML.

Bore off back to your plain yoghurt.

Edited

Don't know what FML is.

You're incredibly rude- and maybe a teeny bit defensive?

If you are feeding your kids yoghurt with 3 teaspoons of sugar in a pot that's criminal.

You need to get your head around healthy eating. And stop scorning posters who do eat more healthy food.

faerietales · 10/05/2025 14:45

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:41

why?

Only if they have been brought up on the fruit stuff filled with sugar.

Maybe you need to 'educate' their taste buds?

My daily breakfast is 5% fage Greek yoghurt, blueberries and mixed seeds. It's ace.

Edited

That's a very narrow-minded view you have there.

I was raised on whole, natural, UPF-free foods but there were still plenty of things I didn't like, a plain yoghurt was one of them. It just tasted unpleasant to me.

suki1964 · 10/05/2025 14:44

In a perfect world we would be eating a rainbow, eating our oily fish, piling on the protein, getting just the right amount of dairy and getting pulses and grains down our necks whilst still finding room for seeds, nuts and fruits

Who's perfect????????

Your meals sound fine, small for us ( but DH is a manual worker and wants his meat and 3 veg )

You are doing what you can with the time restraints you have, you are doing your best

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:44

faerietales · 10/05/2025 14:42

I would bet good money that the vast majority of people don't eat "30 different plants a week" - it's not something I've ever even heard of outside of MN.

You'd need to be living under a rock not to have heard of that.

Calliopespa · 10/05/2025 14:44

mumda · 10/05/2025 14:35

I put peas in it. And sweetcorn at a push. But I like this for dinner. Extra cheese too sometimes.

Aldi do a small stir in sauce with olives which is delicious.

Yes peas are delicious in pesto pasta as is rocket on top. And extra pine nuts gives a protein boost. You can even add chopped almonds. If you chuck all that on it’s a totally different meal.

your meals are all nice but a bit more like cafe/restaurant meals: ie; taste nice, plate well but not really sufficient nutrition long term.

WtafIsThat · 10/05/2025 14:43

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:41

why?

Only if they have been brought up on the fruit stuff filled with sugar.

Maybe you need to 'educate' their taste buds?

My daily breakfast is 5% fage Greek yoghurt, blueberries and mixed seeds. It's ace.

Edited

Because they don’t like it. Why else?

But no it must be because they’re used to having too much sugar. Because that’s the only alternative. FML.

Bore off back to your plain yoghurt.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 10/05/2025 14:42

I'd struggle Monday- Wednesday, they seem rather light and not overly filling.

Salad is great but I wouldn't put lettuce leaves with cucumber & peppers in the same category as vegetables like carrots or broccoli.

Don't get me wrong, in summer I would have something like Salmon, new potatoes & Salad, but it would be a green bean salad or carrot salad plus a lettuce one.

If you feel it's enough and nobody is snacking 30 minutes after dinner, then it's fine.

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 10/05/2025 14:42

ChaiLarious · 10/05/2025 14:27

Obviously the takeaways we eat are from the local ran deli that only uses locally sourced, vegan non UPF ingredients in an eco kitchen. We cycle there to collect it as we are very conscious of our carbon footprint. After dinner we partake in fun family activities that are extremely niche outing hobbies in our rural village, but only after we have taken all of our DC's devises away from them.

Your children have devices? How disappointing. Naturally my DC only read novels printed on 100 percent recycled paper.

faerietales · 10/05/2025 14:42

MrsPlantagenet · 10/05/2025 14:40

Do you eat at least 30 different plants a week? You dinners seem quite limited, but if there are healthy lunches in the mix, it’s not too bad.

I would bet good money that the vast majority of people don't eat "30 different plants a week" - it's not something I've ever even heard of outside of MN.

Calliopespa · 10/05/2025 14:41

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 13:40

Are they healthy/nutritious enough for a child

They are nice but several lack enough veg. For example gets and red onion salad only has red onion ( and presumably not piled of it!) . Pesto pasta isn’t really a veg portion and the salmon with salad is only salad - which could be great if loaded with cherry tomatoes and asparagus spears, or could be little more than a few leaves with dressing. Your proteins are good quality though.

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:41

WtafIsThat · 10/05/2025 14:40

I can only imagine my 10 year olds face if given plain yoghurt and seeds.

Only on mn would you be told it was too much salad..

why?

Only if they have been brought up on the fruit stuff filled with sugar.

Maybe you need to 'educate' their taste buds?

My daily breakfast is 5% fage Greek yoghurt, blueberries and mixed seeds. It's ace.

LandSharksAnonymous · 10/05/2025 14:41

I think you'd be incredibly surprised by just how unhealthy your 'healthy takeaways' are tbh OP. It doesn't need to be a chinese or a curry to be incredibly unhealthy. There's a restaurant near me that offers takeaway and bills itself as 'healthy' and their chicken salad (not even chicken ceasar) is 900 calories. One of their 'light' 'healthy' pizza's is 800 calories.

Your food sounds fine, but yes it does sound rather bland. Not much variety on the veg and, I assume, the fruit. Also, nachos and rice and dip with chilli!?

MrsPlantagenet · 10/05/2025 14:40

Do you eat at least 30 different plants a week? You dinners seem quite limited, but if there are healthy lunches in the mix, it’s not too bad.

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:40

It takes minutes to make a more interesting pasta sauce.
Mushrooms, jar of pesto or can chopped toms, an onion and that's it.

You can add a tin of sardines for more protein.
Or do a pasta with broccoli florets, mushrooms and a creme fraiche sauce.

@Sowhatbigdeal Maybe buy a vegetarian or vegan cook book- or look online?
You don't have to 'go vegan' but a lot of the recipes can be eaten alongside a portion of fish, chicken, etc.

Hugh Fearnley Whittingstall has 2 books 'Eat more Veg' and 'Veg daily' that may give you ideas.

WtafIsThat · 10/05/2025 14:40

I can only imagine my 10 year olds face if given plain yoghurt and seeds.

Only on mn would you be told it was too much salad..

MasterBeth · 10/05/2025 14:40

peeweehill · 10/05/2025 13:53

Sounds okay abit bland for me but tbh theres nothing on your list i would eat apart from the takeaway depending on what it was.
Op your doing your best thats all that counts.
I will add im a fussy eater i have my reasons.

No shit, you're a fussy eater...

Perfectly normal range of meals for me. Pesto pasta once a week ain't gonna kill anyone.

faerietales · 10/05/2025 14:39

@AllThatGlistensIsntCold did you miss the meal with salmon?

BassesAreBest · 10/05/2025 14:39

Why are people saying there’s no fish? Salmon was fish last time I checked…

Sharptonguedwoman · 10/05/2025 14:37

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:29

'Willingly'
You make it sound like torture!
They can have a sprinkling of seeds on plain yogurt.
They can have nuts as a snack.

Edited

For some kids it might be, that's why I was asking.

Are nuts a common snack for a 7 yr old?
I cannot imagine an average 7 yr old faced with plain yoghurt and seeds. Tell me I'm wrong by all means.

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 10/05/2025 14:37

Sounds perfectly fine to me

AllThatGlistensIsntCold · 10/05/2025 14:37

thismummyslife · 10/05/2025 14:34

who’s said they’re rubbish? Seem fine to me! X

Edited

I'd suggest you think again.
No pulses, except the chili, no fish, little dairy, not much variety of veg.

PensionMention · 10/05/2025 14:37

No one should have a takeaway a week as they are usually cheap ingredients. The pasta and pesto sounds a bit dull it’s the sort of stuff I have as a side with a protein and veg. I’m assuming it’s not the same every week. There is nothing horrendous but it’s very safe.

Oceangrey · 10/05/2025 14:36

Sounds normal to me. I'd probably include green beans or broccoli as a side if there aren't other veg involved. Or chopped up cucumber, carrot and peppers.