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Are my dinners rubbish?

636 replies

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 13:38

Been told they are

Here’s an example of an average week, more or less:

Monday (I work at 6, so do something simple)

Feta & red onion salad with new potatoes & rice

Tuesday

Pasta with jar pesto (working today)

Wednesday

Dh to do omlette/eggs on toast with salad (working today)

Thursday

Salmon, salad, new potatoes

Friday

Homemade chilli with rice, nachos & dips

Saturday

Takeaway

Sunday

Roast dinner/homemade lasagne

Are they?

OP posts:
Calliopespa · 13/05/2025 21:07

inmyera · 13/05/2025 18:29

The 30 plant foods thing sounds daunting but it includes things like herbs, spices, olive oil, pulses, etc. so once you've made your chilli, a spag bol, etc with herbs and spices it's not hard to reach.

I'd add green beans and /or broccoli to your pasta pesto but otherwise I think your meals sound fine and much more healthy than some of the options people have listed above.

I’m doing quite well with the 30 plants thing! I’ve started this week after reading on here and have now finished ! It wasn’t too tricky. But I’m kind of into repeats now . I guess normally it would be better not to have all the different plants up front. But I was just curious so swapped about !

inmyera · 13/05/2025 18:29

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 21:33

Can you list the 30 plant foods per week we should be eating please?

The 30 plant foods thing sounds daunting but it includes things like herbs, spices, olive oil, pulses, etc. so once you've made your chilli, a spag bol, etc with herbs and spices it's not hard to reach.

I'd add green beans and /or broccoli to your pasta pesto but otherwise I think your meals sound fine and much more healthy than some of the options people have listed above.

No3392 · 13/05/2025 18:28

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 15:28

For those who think they can do better can you share a weeks example menu please and the age of your children?
If it was just me I would do better but my teenager is not interested in my healthy meals (although having now written it out I don't think it is that bad). I'll go first anyway
This week's menu is
Sunday - BBQ - sausage in bricoche bun, burger in brioche bun with mozzarella cheese slice. BBQ courgette, corn on the cob and mini peppers.
Monday- mozzrella and pesto pizza (frozen) with added red onion, sweetcorn and green olives. Salad of mixed leaves, tomatoes, cucumber, celery and sweetcorn.
Tuesday- thai green curry (using a jar of paste and coconut milk) with chicken, onion, mushrooms, courgette and broad beans. served with rice (and DS really wants prawn crackers but I would prefer not to add these).
Wednesday- sausage carbonara with pasta, cream, eggs, cheddar and parmesan cheese, onion, mushroom, peas and courgette
Thursday- pasta, prawns, asparagus, cherry tomatoes, parmesan, sweet chilli sauce
Friday- BBQ again - lamb kebabs, burgers, corn on the cob, courgette. maybe salad.
Saturday- chicken strips, oven chips , baby corn, green beans.
Sunday- nachos, mince, black beans, cheese, sweetcorn, tomatoes, sour cream, avocado and green salad with cucumber

That's a hell of a lot more, and even more varied veg than my teen will eat.

soupyspoon · 13/05/2025 18:23

QforCucumber · 13/05/2025 15:40

you know they're completely different fats right? OF COURSE Pesto is 51% fat, it is literally olive oil and nuts! Fat isn't bad, it's essential!

My macros average around 40% fats, 40% protein and 20% carbs, or there abouts. I virtually live off nuts and oil!!

soupyspoon · 13/05/2025 18:22

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 15:28

For those who think they can do better can you share a weeks example menu please and the age of your children?
If it was just me I would do better but my teenager is not interested in my healthy meals (although having now written it out I don't think it is that bad). I'll go first anyway
This week's menu is
Sunday - BBQ - sausage in bricoche bun, burger in brioche bun with mozzarella cheese slice. BBQ courgette, corn on the cob and mini peppers.
Monday- mozzrella and pesto pizza (frozen) with added red onion, sweetcorn and green olives. Salad of mixed leaves, tomatoes, cucumber, celery and sweetcorn.
Tuesday- thai green curry (using a jar of paste and coconut milk) with chicken, onion, mushrooms, courgette and broad beans. served with rice (and DS really wants prawn crackers but I would prefer not to add these).
Wednesday- sausage carbonara with pasta, cream, eggs, cheddar and parmesan cheese, onion, mushroom, peas and courgette
Thursday- pasta, prawns, asparagus, cherry tomatoes, parmesan, sweet chilli sauce
Friday- BBQ again - lamb kebabs, burgers, corn on the cob, courgette. maybe salad.
Saturday- chicken strips, oven chips , baby corn, green beans.
Sunday- nachos, mince, black beans, cheese, sweetcorn, tomatoes, sour cream, avocado and green salad with cucumber

OMG what have you done now!!!

Posters will literally be falling over themselves to tell you about your UPF intake!!!

soupyspoon · 13/05/2025 18:19

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 13/05/2025 09:57

If she had listed more meat it would be all....."too much meat!! Don't you know colon cancer is at an all time high in under 50s!!! You need to drop the meat and eat more vegan meals. Why do you hate your own dc 😩"
You can't win with the all knowing perfect posters.

Also dont mention the cruel meat industry or over fishing!!!

TwinklyFawn · 13/05/2025 16:45

honeybeetheoneandonly · 10/05/2025 16:14

Is it the sound of your meals that have been deemed rubbish or the actual meals? On paper the meals sound fine but you may be making a pig's ear of them. I have a friend who, I would say , can't cook. Their meals sound fine, too, but it's the blandest food ever. Lasagne where they just add a tin of tomatoes to mince with a stock cube and no other seasoning. They just can't be bothered to cook well.

Exactly. My mum's meals always sounded fine. However her chicken stir fry is tasteless. I think that cardboard would taste better.

Calliopespa · 13/05/2025 16:02

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 15:28

For those who think they can do better can you share a weeks example menu please and the age of your children?
If it was just me I would do better but my teenager is not interested in my healthy meals (although having now written it out I don't think it is that bad). I'll go first anyway
This week's menu is
Sunday - BBQ - sausage in bricoche bun, burger in brioche bun with mozzarella cheese slice. BBQ courgette, corn on the cob and mini peppers.
Monday- mozzrella and pesto pizza (frozen) with added red onion, sweetcorn and green olives. Salad of mixed leaves, tomatoes, cucumber, celery and sweetcorn.
Tuesday- thai green curry (using a jar of paste and coconut milk) with chicken, onion, mushrooms, courgette and broad beans. served with rice (and DS really wants prawn crackers but I would prefer not to add these).
Wednesday- sausage carbonara with pasta, cream, eggs, cheddar and parmesan cheese, onion, mushroom, peas and courgette
Thursday- pasta, prawns, asparagus, cherry tomatoes, parmesan, sweet chilli sauce
Friday- BBQ again - lamb kebabs, burgers, corn on the cob, courgette. maybe salad.
Saturday- chicken strips, oven chips , baby corn, green beans.
Sunday- nachos, mince, black beans, cheese, sweetcorn, tomatoes, sour cream, avocado and green salad with cucumber

Take cover @timeforachange999 ! 🤣Incoming!

faerietales · 13/05/2025 15:54

QforCucumber · 13/05/2025 15:40

you know they're completely different fats right? OF COURSE Pesto is 51% fat, it is literally olive oil and nuts! Fat isn't bad, it's essential!

Get away with your logic and facts 🤣

Cherrytree86 · 13/05/2025 15:47

DearDenimEagle · 13/05/2025 14:22

I think 3 are ok. Not impressed with the rest and if this is repeated every week, I’d say boring. So many meals can be made in 20/30 minutes and it seems very restricted. And yes, I worked 15 hour days split shifts and did all the cooking before anyone jumps on me and had 3 kids with an OH who refused to do women’s work. Which included child care

@DearDenimEagle

it’s food. It can be boring. It doesn’t always have to be thrilling and exciting.

QforCucumber · 13/05/2025 15:40

GRex · 13/05/2025 11:59

Crikey. Even a chocolate bar is about 30-40% fat. 51%!!!

you know they're completely different fats right? OF COURSE Pesto is 51% fat, it is literally olive oil and nuts! Fat isn't bad, it's essential!

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 15:28

For those who think they can do better can you share a weeks example menu please and the age of your children?
If it was just me I would do better but my teenager is not interested in my healthy meals (although having now written it out I don't think it is that bad). I'll go first anyway
This week's menu is
Sunday - BBQ - sausage in bricoche bun, burger in brioche bun with mozzarella cheese slice. BBQ courgette, corn on the cob and mini peppers.
Monday- mozzrella and pesto pizza (frozen) with added red onion, sweetcorn and green olives. Salad of mixed leaves, tomatoes, cucumber, celery and sweetcorn.
Tuesday- thai green curry (using a jar of paste and coconut milk) with chicken, onion, mushrooms, courgette and broad beans. served with rice (and DS really wants prawn crackers but I would prefer not to add these).
Wednesday- sausage carbonara with pasta, cream, eggs, cheddar and parmesan cheese, onion, mushroom, peas and courgette
Thursday- pasta, prawns, asparagus, cherry tomatoes, parmesan, sweet chilli sauce
Friday- BBQ again - lamb kebabs, burgers, corn on the cob, courgette. maybe salad.
Saturday- chicken strips, oven chips , baby corn, green beans.
Sunday- nachos, mince, black beans, cheese, sweetcorn, tomatoes, sour cream, avocado and green salad with cucumber

faerietales · 13/05/2025 14:26

noworklifebalance · 13/05/2025 12:23

It’s not necessarily bad for you per se but there is not much in it. It’s essentially a teaspoon-tablespoon of pesto per child’s portion - 100g contains 5g of protein so per meal it is less than 1g of protein.
Again, not much in the way of vitamins, fibre etc in that spoonful. Most shop bought pesto doesn’t contain olive oil so the fat in it is not even healthy. Maybe high in salt.

Edited

But as has been said multiple times, not every single meal needs to contain a perfect balance of nutrients, fats etc. Pasta with pesto is a lot better than many other quick dinners.

DearDenimEagle · 13/05/2025 14:22

I think 3 are ok. Not impressed with the rest and if this is repeated every week, I’d say boring. So many meals can be made in 20/30 minutes and it seems very restricted. And yes, I worked 15 hour days split shifts and did all the cooking before anyone jumps on me and had 3 kids with an OH who refused to do women’s work. Which included child care

noworklifebalance · 13/05/2025 12:23

faerietales · 13/05/2025 10:49

Why isn’t it a nutritious meal?

It’s not necessarily bad for you per se but there is not much in it. It’s essentially a teaspoon-tablespoon of pesto per child’s portion - 100g contains 5g of protein so per meal it is less than 1g of protein.
Again, not much in the way of vitamins, fibre etc in that spoonful. Most shop bought pesto doesn’t contain olive oil so the fat in it is not even healthy. Maybe high in salt.

GRex · 13/05/2025 11:59

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 11:17

Sorry image attached now

Crikey. Even a chocolate bar is about 30-40% fat. 51%!!!

faerietales · 13/05/2025 11:29

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 11:15

Just a random google search but the below states pesto pasta is a good source of protein and it isn't the worst thing a child could eat by a long way. Even though they are growing a 7 year old needs less protein than peri/menopausal women (or teenage boys hitting the gym 🙄)

Exactly - it’s fine.

If that was all OP was feeding then that would be a different story, but pesto pasta once a week on top of a normal, healthy diet is absolutely okay - and I dare say a hell of a lot more nutritious than the mins of food many other people eat everyday.

timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 11:17

Sorry image attached now

Are my dinners rubbish?
timeforachange999 · 13/05/2025 11:15

Just a random google search but the below states pesto pasta is a good source of protein and it isn't the worst thing a child could eat by a long way. Even though they are growing a 7 year old needs less protein than peri/menopausal women (or teenage boys hitting the gym 🙄)

faerietales · 13/05/2025 10:49

noworklifebalance · 13/05/2025 10:49

You clearly haven’t read the rest of my posts. I have stated more than once that I think OP’s meal plans look perfectly fine to me and that the 7 year old may be getting protein from other sources thoughout the day.
I am not anti pesto pasta at all. However, it doesn’t surprise me at all that many think it is a nutritious meal.

Why isn’t it a nutritious meal?

noworklifebalance · 13/05/2025 10:49

faerietales · 13/05/2025 08:42

I genuinely can’t believe there are people referring to pesto pasta as “nutritionally deplete”.

You clearly haven’t read the rest of my posts. I have stated more than once that I think OP’s meal plans look perfectly fine to me and that the 7 year old may be getting protein from other sources thoughout the day.
I am not anti pesto pasta at all. However, it doesn’t surprise me at all that many think it is a nutritious meal.

faerietales · 13/05/2025 10:08

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 13/05/2025 09:57

If she had listed more meat it would be all....."too much meat!! Don't you know colon cancer is at an all time high in under 50s!!! You need to drop the meat and eat more vegan meals. Why do you hate your own dc 😩"
You can't win with the all knowing perfect posters.

Hah yep. You’re not wrong.

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 13/05/2025 10:04

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 13/05/2025 09:57

If she had listed more meat it would be all....."too much meat!! Don't you know colon cancer is at an all time high in under 50s!!! You need to drop the meat and eat more vegan meals. Why do you hate your own dc 😩"
You can't win with the all knowing perfect posters.

This was supposed to be a quote that didn't work for me🤔

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 13/05/2025 09:57

If she had listed more meat it would be all....."too much meat!! Don't you know colon cancer is at an all time high in under 50s!!! You need to drop the meat and eat more vegan meals. Why do you hate your own dc 😩"
You can't win with the all knowing perfect posters.

Calliopespa · 13/05/2025 09:05

faerietales · 13/05/2025 08:57

But it’s not being presented as a daily meal - as you say, it’s one meal out of 21, not including snacks and drinks.

I get a bit sick of MN slamming perfectly normal family dinners because they’ve decided that it lacks X or Y. Not every single meal has to be perfectly balanced and nutritionally complete.

Yes you’re right.

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