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Riding a bike - What age?

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2wheeler2025 · 07/05/2025 22:45

What age did your child learn to ride a bike?

Noticed a trend of kids not being able to ride a bike until 6/7+. Just wondered how old your child was?

AIBU - It's not an important life skill, my DC will do it when they're ready
YANBU - It is an important life skill and I actively tried to help them learn to ride a bike as soon as I could

OP posts:
BeCyanSloth · 08/05/2025 06:03

Ds1 6
Ds2 never
Ds3 11
Ds4 9
Dd 8
this is without stabilizers

Girasoli · 08/05/2025 05:56

DS1 learnt at 4, had lots of time to practise in lockdown.

DS2 (5) hasn't learnt yet, though uses his scooter lots. Am planning to teach him this summer.

I think kids tend to scoot more than cycle these days, especially as houses are smaller and people drive more to places (we keep our scooters in the car boot).

maythefirce · 08/05/2025 05:43

We did all the right things- balance bikes , no training wheels etc.
Oldest cycled independently age 4.
Youngest utterly refused a bike but loved his balance bike. Age 7 he changed his mind, literally jumped on a bike and cycled away….

PurBal · 08/05/2025 05:43

Honestly anything from 3-8 is normal. We would have liked DS1 to learn sooner because we’re an active family. He’s 3. We live on a very steep hill and nowhere flat-ish to practice so it’s not an easy “oh let’s go out on your bike for 10 minutes”. It would be a car job. Nearest park is 2 miles away across fields. I can’t expect him to carry his bike over that kind of terrain and it’s easier for me to strap a scooter to my back than a bike! Particularly if I’m carrying his almost 2yo brother. That said he’s a good hiker.

Unrelated38 · 08/05/2025 05:40

DS was 3. He's very good with things like that and loves bikes. We bought second hand bikes so had balance bikes, training wheeled bikes and pedal bikes all available at the same time so he taught himself.

Newstarters · 08/05/2025 05:33

MereNoelle · 07/05/2025 23:26

I don’t think ‘I rode a bike at 3’ is something to put on your CV, to be honest.

Exactly lol

tinyshoulders · 08/05/2025 05:29

MeganM3 · 08/05/2025 00:36

Shockingly few in my DC last year of primary school class could cycle well this year at their cycling proficiency lessons. Half the class didn’t have a bike.
A shame. It takes a bit of input from parents to get them started, I did feel myself judging the parents a bit who hadn’t bothered. Second hand bikes cost hardly anything, the council even hire bikes out for free. Yes it takes some time and patience but it is a life skill, the same with swimming.

To be fair, cheap kids bikes are bloody awful and good ones aren’t cheap nor very easy to source second hand. It’s a lot easier for kids to learn and enjoy cycling if they’ve got a light, well-fitting bike, which even for kids are very expensive.

Natsku · 08/05/2025 05:24

I think being able to ride a bike is important (and pretty much essential in my town because school children in upper school need to travel between various locations by bike during the school day and PE can be 'go for a bike ride to x place and back' and in primary school class trips are often done by bike) but I don't think 6 or 7 is late really, some children are just later to learn. My oldest was riding without stabilisers at 4 after 10 minutes of trying whereas my youngest took weeks of attempts before he could ride without wobbling over at around 6.

tinyshoulders · 08/05/2025 05:19

DD is 5 and has just learned, only a day or two after really getting the hang of the balance bike. I expect 3yo DS to pick it up a bit younger through watching/wanting to join in with her.

blackgreenandgrey · 08/05/2025 05:04

3 and 5 (DC has severe learning so took a while). Both on balance bikes from 2 onwards. never did support wheels.

Tbrh · 08/05/2025 04:06

MereNoelle · 07/05/2025 23:26

I don’t think ‘I rode a bike at 3’ is something to put on your CV, to be honest.

Perhaps not, although it's probably indicative of other things

Stripesarethethingforme · 08/05/2025 03:06

IwasDueANameChange · 07/05/2025 23:02

Youngest dd's legs still need to grow a bit.

Frog 10 inch balance bike has a very,very low saddle. Even an exceptionally short 2 year old can ride it Grin

She already has one, her legs are still slightly too short for the first Frog pedal bike her sister rode. Only two centimetres to go so I don't expect it will be long.

coxesorangepippin · 08/05/2025 02:54

3 for both kids

MeganM3 · 08/05/2025 00:36

Shockingly few in my DC last year of primary school class could cycle well this year at their cycling proficiency lessons. Half the class didn’t have a bike.
A shame. It takes a bit of input from parents to get them started, I did feel myself judging the parents a bit who hadn’t bothered. Second hand bikes cost hardly anything, the council even hire bikes out for free. Yes it takes some time and patience but it is a life skill, the same with swimming.

purpleme12 · 08/05/2025 00:30

Absolutely agree about balance bike thing

Wish we had them when I was young!

Mustreadabook · 08/05/2025 00:27

4 I think. The balance bikes really work! They had those and really got the hang of them when we went to a special balance bike track that had tiny little ramps so they could coast down them. When they moved to pedal bikes they were cycling within about 10 minutes, it was such an easy transition.

overitalmost · 08/05/2025 00:13

Absolutely no idea with my children ,genuinely can’t remember,but granddaughter was freewheeling aged about 5 .

Whatnow321 · 08/05/2025 00:08

Eldest was 4 having had a balance bike from 2. Youngest started using the balance bike just before 2 and got a bike with pedals for his 3rd birthday. We had to put stablisers on as they mastered pedalling but they were off within a week. Both love being on their bikes still.

Balance bike went with us everywhere and would recommend them to anyone. Think they really make a difference

1SillySossij · 08/05/2025 00:08

I'd say 4 or 5 if you have not had a balance bike, a bit younger if you have.

Mylegishangingoff · 08/05/2025 00:05

Ds was about 7, dd maybe 4? Ds is autistic and dyspraxic and it was a big deal getting him to ride! He is a teenager now and heading off next week with his school and they will be renting bikes, literally just today he said thank god you forced me to learn how to ride a bike! I think we both hated every second of it at the time though.

meganorks · 08/05/2025 00:00

I think mine were 4.

I think the 'trend' is that fewer people have bikes for their kids. Or that kids aren't allowed out on their own on their bikes. When I was a kid we were all out in the street on our bikes all day. I don't really remember being taught how to ride it. Nowadays kids are entirely reliant on being taught by the parents and having the time and space to practice.

PeloMom · 07/05/2025 23:59

At around 3 with training wheels and 5 without. I don’t see it as a life skill. It’s an alternative to exercise for me.

Spiderplant98 · 07/05/2025 23:46

My DD was 2 weeks after her 4th birthday. She had a balance bike from around age 2

SleepyRic · 07/05/2025 23:38

Ours got the knack of balance bike zooming around feet up when they were 2, riding peddle bikes from 3. We avoided stabilisers, I don't think it helps develop technique.

Youngest is 5 and getting just getting the hang of riding woodland trails/slightly downhill tracks. So much more fun now they're getting older!!!

Riding a bike - What age?
MereNoelle · 07/05/2025 23:37

2wheeler2025 · 07/05/2025 23:36

I'm getting close to a full house on my "typical mumsnet comment" bingo card, thanks 🤣

No worries 👍

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