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Inapickle3012 · 07/05/2025 19:10

Sorry to post on AIBU but need traffic and quick.

Its my boyfriends 30th next week and I’ve booked him Amsterdam for December as his present. I’ve had an idea that I’d life to put together a mini scrapbook for him to open on his birthday. In this scrapbook will be hotel details, flight details etc but I’d also like to book some excursions and stick them in there too.

Can anyone guide me on what’s the MUST DO things in Amsterdam please? Anything you recommend booking/seeing?

He is so lovely and I want for nothing, so I’d love to be able to give him something back for such a special birthday.

thank you!

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Heidi2018 · 08/05/2025 15:15

SpiceryFiendXOXO · 08/05/2025 13:53

She hasn't been rude. She said don't go to that part of Amsterdam in December because its crap.

She isn't saying Amsterdam itself in December is crap.

OP won't be upset because she hasn't booked that part in December and will likely be glad of the advice.

She literally said "also December in NL is generally pretty grim.".... the OP has booked a part of NL in December!

SpiceryFiendXOXO · 08/05/2025 13:53

sweetpickle2 · 07/05/2025 20:39

It doesn't matter if it's true, it's still rude. At least own it.

She hasn't been rude. She said don't go to that part of Amsterdam in December because its crap.

She isn't saying Amsterdam itself in December is crap.

OP won't be upset because she hasn't booked that part in December and will likely be glad of the advice.

TeaIsNice · 08/05/2025 13:43

Starlin · 07/05/2025 20:04

December in Amsterdam will be... Bleak. The weather won't be good so I can recommend:

  • Bols cocktail experience.
  • see whats on at: https://www.fabrique-lumieres.com
  • van Gogh (i always combine it with Bols)
  • stedelijk museum if he likes history
  • Jewish History Museum if he likes history (also resistance Museum)
  • canal cruise (do one near the Heineken Experience)
  • Ajax if they're playing
  • day to den Haag /Rotterdam/Utrecht
  • Dutch have AMAZING Suriname/Indonesian food

If you want specific restaurant recommendations, let me know the sort of cuisine and ill recommend something. Ive worked in Amsterdam /NL for many years so can recommend (am currently sitting in an Amsterdam hotel room!).

@sweetpickle2 hmm seems like I'm the only one you pick on?!

TeaIsNice · 08/05/2025 13:41

sweetpickle2 · 07/05/2025 20:39

It doesn't matter if it's true, it's still rude. At least own it.

i'm Dutch. that's how we roll. I'm married to an Englishman. He calls it "direct", you call it "rude". I'm stating a fact. No need to "own it". Have a lovely afternoon - maybe less on the Pickle and more on the Sweet?

Yellowcakestand · 07/05/2025 23:29

I went last December. Did Anne Frank's House, got the most amazing filled croissants from Lourens, took an evening canal cruise for the light festival, ice bar, walked the red light district, make your own chocolate bar at Tony's Chocolonely, sex museum (dont bother). I really wanted to go to the Body Works exhibition but noone else did.

We hired a car in Amsterdam and drove to Cologne for the Xmas markets which were AMAZING.

HomelessAngua · 07/05/2025 23:15

The historical Red Light tour was interesting

Letsgocamping67 · 07/05/2025 21:53

Ice bar. Sex museum.

LondonMummer · 07/05/2025 21:49

I’m an Amsterdam blogger and have lots of suggestions including first time must do itineraries, off the beaten track suggestions, hip restaurants etc. My husband is Dutch so we are there very VERY often and this is my passion project (I don’t run advertising on it so it’s all personal recommendations) as far too many visitors end up in the crap bits. Hope it helps

https://amsterdamwonderland.com/

Amsterdam Wonderland

Amsterdam curated, minus the clichés

https://amsterdamwonderland.com/

Arran2024 · 07/05/2025 21:48

We went a few years ago. Our favourite was the old Shell building, which has a restaurant at the top with amazing views. It is called the A'dam lookout.

ThePoshUns · 07/05/2025 21:42

The Pantry restaurant for traditional Dutch cuisine. You need to book as it’s tiny but the food is great and a lovely vibe.
https://www.thepantry.nl/en/

Restaurant The Pantry

Step inside The Pantry, a restaurant in Amsterdam. Take a seat and enjoy traditional, home-made Dutch dishes.

https://www.thepantry.nl/en/

Redpeach · 07/05/2025 21:40

Chat gpt does good itineraries

Mrsphilmiller · 07/05/2025 21:38

Get a city pass
all GVB transport and museums free
so you get a lot for your money.
108€ each for 3 days

AhBiscuits · 07/05/2025 21:37

If his birthday is next week, why are you going in December?

Heidi2018 · 07/05/2025 21:24

Moco Museum (has some Banksy work and some cool illusion artwork)
The Heineken Museum - I've been 3 times and still love it

Cynic17 · 07/05/2025 21:19

My essentials are the Rijksmuseum and Van Gogh Museum - best part of a day for each.
Also Rembrandt's House.
But, to me, Amsterdam is all about the art.

dutchyoriginal · 07/05/2025 21:17

Rijksmuseum (all the Dutch old masters, but also loads of other stuff)
Negen straatjes /nine streets for quirky shopping, if he's into that
Canal tour at night to see the lights festival
Indonesian food and dim sum
Eat poffertjes (sweet) and bitterballen (savoury snack) both are favourites with all my foreign guests over the years

Dress up warm and waterproof, due to the high likelyhood of grey, slightly wet and overcast weather.

Finally, loads of Dutchies don't smoke weed and the emphasis on it does get very boring.

SaltedCaramelPopcorn · 07/05/2025 21:07

Depending on when in December you’re going, there’s a huge Christmas market in Haarlem which is only a short train ride away

Upsideinside · 07/05/2025 21:02

The light festival is normally running in Amsterdam then, so if you get one of the evening canal boat tours then, that’s always a nice thing to do. Or get the online map and do a little walking tour of some of them and pop into several cafes or brown bars to warm up en route.

Winkel43 is near Anne Frank’s house, and serves the best apple pie.

Noordermarkt in de Jordaan on a Saturday morning is an organic food market and vintage/flea market. Oysters are great to grab from one of the fishmongers here, and one of the bakeries does amazing focaccia.

I would also make dinner reservations in advance as it can be quite hard to get a table! Depends where you want to go of course though. Cafe Parlotte does great food and wine.

FruityCider · 07/05/2025 20:52

The smoke boat (if it's running) - very touristy, very weed focussed. However if you book at night in good weather, the views around and under the light up canals/port are amazing. Being a very warm coat and sit on the tiny deck. You don't have to smoke! But if you want to, a couple of cheeky tokes do brighten the experience IMO.

Electric lady land. Pure Californian hippy weird art. It's brilliant x

Soontobe60 · 07/05/2025 20:45

There’s a great food market type of place a bus ride out of the city - Foodhallen. It’s very ‘on trend’
https://www.instagram.com/foodhallen?igsh=dGJxNzlib3A3cndj

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Ffoodhallen%2F%3Figsh%3DdGJxNzlib3A3cndj&is_from_rle

sweetpickle2 · 07/05/2025 20:39

TeaIsNice · 07/05/2025 19:57

I commented on the poster who suggested "Keukenhof" for a December outing and yes - NL is grim in December weatherwise. I live in NL so yeah - I think I have a pretty good idea. Anyhow - be nice. And chill

It doesn't matter if it's true, it's still rude. At least own it.

Starlin · 07/05/2025 20:04

December in Amsterdam will be... Bleak. The weather won't be good so I can recommend:

  • Bols cocktail experience.
  • see whats on at: https://www.fabrique-lumieres.com
  • van Gogh (i always combine it with Bols)
  • stedelijk museum if he likes history
  • Jewish History Museum if he likes history (also resistance Museum)
  • canal cruise (do one near the Heineken Experience)
  • Ajax if they're playing
  • day to den Haag /Rotterdam/Utrecht
  • Dutch have AMAZING Suriname/Indonesian food

If you want specific restaurant recommendations, let me know the sort of cuisine and ill recommend something. Ive worked in Amsterdam /NL for many years so can recommend (am currently sitting in an Amsterdam hotel room!).

Fabrique des Lumières | Digitaal & meeslepend kunstcentrum in Amsterdam

Ontdek Fabrique des Lumières, een digitaal kunstcentrum met meeslepende en digitale tentoonstellingen in Amsterdam. Een unieke artistieke ervaring.

https://www.fabrique-lumieres.com/nl

suburberphobe · 07/05/2025 20:00

Keukenhof is only open from the third week in March to May11th.

Welcome to Keukenhof

Home

Discover Keukenhof, the most beautiful spring garden in the world! 🌸🌷🌼

https://keukenhof.nl/en/

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