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Neighbour’s tree is basically living rent-free in our garden — now she’s offered us a leaf blower 🙃

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Buddhabuns · 07/05/2025 09:32

Our neighbour’s enormous tree hangs over almost the entire width of our garden. It blocks sunlight, drops catkins and leaves everywhere, and last autumn we filled four garden bins (which we pay for) clearing up her mess.

We’ve asked — nicely — twice. She trimmed a few bottom twigs, probably with nail scissors, and called it done. No difference. Now the roots are pushing up our fence, and the leaves are back in full force.

Her solution? She offered to buy us a leaf blower.

We already have one. We just didn’t realise we’d signed up for unpaid groundskeeping for her passive-aggressive tree.

Every other neighbour manages their trees. She clearly thinks if she waits long enough, we’ll give up or vanish under the leaf pile.

AIBU to think she’s completely taking the mick — and that the leaf blower offer was basically an insult?

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Blarn · 07/05/2025 09:39

We lived in a house with a small, N facing back garden that had a massive Ash tree in it. It was enormous and blocked our light but it grew mostly over a neighbours even smaller back garden, reached to their roof, and filled it with the stalky leaves it dropped every Autumn. We rented so apart from lop branches off it there wasn't anything we could do but I imagine when the very elderly person who lived there moved on the new owners would have something to say about the tree!

I adore trees but some are menaces.

olderbutwiser · 07/05/2025 09:36

Was the tree there when you bought the property? You could have it cut back to the fence line, although it would look terrible.

TheAmusedQuail · 07/05/2025 09:36

You need to be blunt. Tell her if she doesn't do it herself, you're getting a tree surgeon to remove the parts that overhang / grow under your side. Which will in all likelihood kill the tree.

shellyleppard · 07/05/2025 09:34

Aren't you meant to be able to trim the bits of tree overhanging your garden as long as you return the trimmings to the original owner?? But it sounds like a right nightmare