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Thomasina79 · 07/05/2025 07:06

Am I unreasonable to feel sorry for Victoria and David beckham over the so called ‘rift’ with their son, which Victoria says is her worst nightmare. I know from experience how this situation can get out of hand and how heartbreaking it is when a beloved child breaks contact with their parents .

naturally the media is blaming the woman!

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Redpeach · 07/05/2025 14:56

strawlight · 07/05/2025 14:42

The rift is supposedly between Nicola and Kim (girlfriend of Romeo or the other one) and Nicola won’t be at any events that Kim attends. The Beckham are sick of this and are leaving them to it, apparently, allegedly,

Brooklyn is a knob and I never got good vibes about Nicola and her family. I do feel sorry for Victoria and David though. My friend used to live with Vic when they were at stage school and has nothing but nice things to say about her (except that Vic still owes her cash for a takeaway)

And what is that rift? Did they both date the same brother?

LindorDoubleChoc · 07/05/2025 14:50

Is there even a rift? Has anyone in the family actually commented on any of this? Maybe there is a reason why Brooklyn didn't go.

BustingBaoBun · 07/05/2025 14:49

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 14:35

I don't want to be mean or catty but VB came a long way for not being very talented and she's done fine, I do think they wanted their kids to find their own way but I guess being mega rich there wasn't much incentive.

Edited

Well....I remember when they bought Brooklyn some fuck off sports car worth something ridiculous like £150k when he was about 18, so they only have themselves to blame
No work ethic at all
And didn't they kit out a recording studio for one of the other sons who was musical for about 5 minutes

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 14:47

No one has any idea what is going on in their family

but he is a grown man. He is married. He shouldn’t be at the beck and call of his parents anymore (no pun intended!)

he lives in the US. They live in the UK. Yes it would have been nice if he had attended the party but he is living his own life and maybe doesn’t want to be paraded around on their instagram accounts anymore. He can’t win really.

he’s married someone rich and let’s face it, a bit dim just like him and he seems very happy. I think they should be left alone to just spend their riches tbh!

Cynic17 · 07/05/2025 14:46

Anyone who organises 4 separate birthday parties for themselves is just an idiot, so my sympathy is in short supply.
Speaking as someone who us about to have a birthday with a zero on the end, I have no idea why anyone would care or want to make a fuss. I certainly won't be!
The reality is that none of us knows what happens in other people's families.

strawlight · 07/05/2025 14:42

The rift is supposedly between Nicola and Kim (girlfriend of Romeo or the other one) and Nicola won’t be at any events that Kim attends. The Beckham are sick of this and are leaving them to it, apparently, allegedly,

Brooklyn is a knob and I never got good vibes about Nicola and her family. I do feel sorry for Victoria and David though. My friend used to live with Vic when they were at stage school and has nothing but nice things to say about her (except that Vic still owes her cash for a takeaway)

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 14:35

Bbq1 · 07/05/2025 14:25

Romeo. I think they are heading towards trying to facilitate the daughter, Harper to become a fashion designer /"influencer" etc in the future by the comments I've read. She is currently only 13.
Their kids aren't very talented at anything because they've never had to work at anything or the chances to find out what they are good at, naturally. DB was a good footballer but VB can't really sing and just got lucky with the Spice Girls. Her fashion designs are also dreadful.

I don't want to be mean or catty but VB came a long way for not being very talented and she's done fine, I do think they wanted their kids to find their own way but I guess being mega rich there wasn't much incentive.

BadLad · 07/05/2025 14:28

Wintersgirl · 07/05/2025 07:12

What's the rift about? There are loads of articles but I'm none the wiser...

Edited

No way of knowing what is happening in the fiercely guarded private lives of the Beckhams.

Bbq1 · 07/05/2025 14:25

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 12:45

Isn't 1 son a footballer/model?

Romeo. I think they are heading towards trying to facilitate the daughter, Harper to become a fashion designer /"influencer" etc in the future by the comments I've read. She is currently only 13.
Their kids aren't very talented at anything because they've never had to work at anything or the chances to find out what they are good at, naturally. DB was a good footballer but VB can't really sing and just got lucky with the Spice Girls. Her fashion designs are also dreadful.

DenholmElliot11 · 07/05/2025 14:07

Scratchingaroundinthesameoldhole · 07/05/2025 13:52

If Brooklyn doesn't turn up to his Dad's birthday can't we just assume the fight is between them rather than blame the women

I do assume the fight is between them. (Brooklyn and David).

Because if you think about it, that would be an extreme amount of hatred and spite for Peltz to feel towards the Beckhams if it IS her. An insane amount.

But no matter. Like I said earlier. David will be there for his kids long after the women have gone.

babystarsandmoon · 07/05/2025 13:52

I do feel for David and Victoria to an extent.

I see two parents who have probably given the world to their children but.. like many famous kids Brooklyn is portrayed as a talentless failure.

While I don’t blame the Beckhams for wanting their kids to be successful they should have been pushed into finding a regular career and staying out of the limelight as buying their way/using their name or contacts to get into jobs has made Brooklyn look like a fool when it hasn’t worked out and that’s bound to cause resentment.

Scratchingaroundinthesameoldhole · 07/05/2025 13:52

If Brooklyn doesn't turn up to his Dad's birthday can't we just assume the fight is between them rather than blame the women

BoredZelda · 07/05/2025 13:43

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 07/05/2025 11:27

Apparently Brooklyns wife has form for starting an argument right before family events therefore ensuring Brooklyn doesn’t attend. Obviously no one but them know the actual truth of what’s going on but it definitely gives prince Harry and Megan vibes! Weak spineless manchild with a domineering wife!

Of course she is. Because it’s impossible for any man to do anything other than bow down to his wife. At least that’s what the tabloid would have you believe of any woman who joins a beloved public family. They’re all just bitches, out to ruing happy families. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Viviennemary · 07/05/2025 13:38

I feel a little bit sorry for them as it's not nice to be rejected by your kids. But I don't like them very much. Too pushy and too involved in their children's lives.

Scratchingaroundinthesameoldhole · 07/05/2025 13:35

I assume Brooklyn is upset that his whole childhood was played out in the media.

EachandEveryone · 07/05/2025 13:24

I see their “good friend” Elton John seems to have pulled away from them and he’s usually very loyal

LlynTegid · 07/05/2025 13:20

Much as I dislike so called milestone birthday OTT celebrations, I do have sympathy for David and Victoria Beckham and the estrangement from one of their sons.

David Beckham incidentally I respected for the hard work he put in to get where he did in his football career.

MrsCravensworth · 07/05/2025 12:48

Okay, so I have too much time on my hands at the moment and need a distraction from my own shitty life.

I read that One of the other sons is currently engaged to Brooklyns ex girlfriend and that’s why Brooklyn and his wife won’t go any events they are at and it’s caused a rift.

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 12:45

Isn't 1 son a footballer/model?

REDB99 · 07/05/2025 12:43

Stories involving this family are just lots of attention seeking always. Putting their kids in the public domain is a very poor parenting choice especially when they don’t have any individual talents, it just means there has to be drama to get attention.

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 12:38

Tbf the only Beckham child I know of is Brooklyn and his endeavours to be famous.

Coffeeishot · 07/05/2025 12:34

Why would it surprise anyone that people who courted the media and had careers that promoted them wouldn't push forward their children? Tbf they did try and have a private life with them but they are a "celebrity " family.

BustingBaoBun · 07/05/2025 11:36

I was so surprised that David and Victoria who came from ordinary families, sold their children out to the media continually.
It all them comes back to bite you on the arse when you are an adult and the media won't leave you alone, in the case of the kids

TheAmusedQuail · 07/05/2025 11:29

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 07/05/2025 11:27

Apparently Brooklyns wife has form for starting an argument right before family events therefore ensuring Brooklyn doesn’t attend. Obviously no one but them know the actual truth of what’s going on but it definitely gives prince Harry and Megan vibes! Weak spineless manchild with a domineering wife!

Or maybe media hype and manipulation, demonising the woman. As always.

TheAmusedQuail · 07/05/2025 11:28

This is just the whole 'blame the wife' thing again. It's so hackneyed it's boring.