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To think that there is a misunderstanding about social housing.

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Bitchesbelike · 06/05/2025 21:50

On social media, lots of people assume that people in social / council housing are getting a free house and don’t work.

i grew up in social housing: my dad worked from age 15 to 65.

my brothers have worked since they were 16 and both live in social housing.

its not “free housing”: it’s rented, affordable accommodation.

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YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/05/2025 23:17

CleverButScatty · 07/05/2025 23:06

Even if she were in a 4 bed, she can only downsize if there is somewhere to downsize to. This is the issue.

I’m in a 4 bed. I’m not going anywhere

mutual exchange is very stressful…. Just done it myself.

Gabitule · 07/05/2025 23:15

wheredidthetime · 07/05/2025 13:50

I moved into my 2 bed housing association flat 13 yes ago with my 2DDs we were homeless to circumstance with Ex. my current rent in London is £1170. I work full time all rent bills are covered by me I looked into downsizing to a 1 bedroom as both dds left but the rent isn't much cheaper and no 1 beds in my area available. It's my home I look after it and am a good tennant. I have worked hard and not on a bad wage now but there is no way I would be able to even rent a 1 bed private in London. What do you suggest I move into a house share at the age of 56. It's my home.

Imagine that there’s a single mother out there with 2 children, just like you were when you got your flat. Because of the housing shortage there is no social housing for this mother, and she has to rent a private flat that she definitely cannot afford.
So why should you (on a good wage and with no childcare responsability) be allowed to rent a cheaper housing association property whilst this single mother is forced to rent a privately rented flat?
How would you feel if, when you were applying for social housing for yourself and your 2 children, the council told you that none were available as all the properties were occupied by healthy individuals with grown up children?

Sorry, I don’t want to be mean, just to show you a different perspective.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/05/2025 23:15

OrwellianTimes · 07/05/2025 22:35

This is the problem. I’ve no issue with social housing for those that need it. I don’t think it’s right if someone gets social housing then gets a good job and can still stay in social housing.

What’s a ‘good job’?

most people in social housing work you know

Poppyseeds79 · 07/05/2025 23:13

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/05/2025 22:43

There’s very few smaller properties though…

Absolutely this! I'm rattling around in a 3 bed HA property. I asked to downsize and was told there's no option to in my area. I can't transfer area without finding someone else to do a swap. There's nobody seeking to do this in my area who are in a suitable swappable position. I've tried that twice before.

I've always worked and paid the full asking rent so I'm effectively regenerating money back vs HB covering my rent and effectively taking money back out of the system. If I move area (which isn't an option offered anyway). Then I'd be further away from disabled DM & away from DD and DC.

I'd say I've paid my dues back into the lower priced rental system, as I can tally up that I've paid over the current asking price of houses sold within my street across the years I've rented here.

I'm always amazed by the assumption that everyone in a larger house should "just move to free up space" 😄 It's not that I disagree! It's just where exactly am I suppose to be moving to? A property that doesn't exist? Or should I just not be selfish and go and live in a hole I've dug in the ground somewhere so somebody more "deserving", can live in my current property?... It's not that simple!

CleverButScatty · 07/05/2025 23:06

Lnew · 07/05/2025 23:02

I think that’s fine for you to keep - it’s a 2 bed flat, not a 4 bed house. If there are loads of singles/couples rattling round in bigger houses (having brought up children) and loads of families without homes, then it’s a problem.

Even if she were in a 4 bed, she can only downsize if there is somewhere to downsize to. This is the issue.

Gabitule · 07/05/2025 23:04

FedupofArsenalgame · 07/05/2025 22:00

Think there always has been one succession. But if a single parent is the tenant then and adult child could succeed if they were living there

Correct. Single children or carers. Can’t remember if there are any other exceptions

Lnew · 07/05/2025 23:02

wheredidthetime · 07/05/2025 13:50

I moved into my 2 bed housing association flat 13 yes ago with my 2DDs we were homeless to circumstance with Ex. my current rent in London is £1170. I work full time all rent bills are covered by me I looked into downsizing to a 1 bedroom as both dds left but the rent isn't much cheaper and no 1 beds in my area available. It's my home I look after it and am a good tennant. I have worked hard and not on a bad wage now but there is no way I would be able to even rent a 1 bed private in London. What do you suggest I move into a house share at the age of 56. It's my home.

I think that’s fine for you to keep - it’s a 2 bed flat, not a 4 bed house. If there are loads of singles/couples rattling round in bigger houses (having brought up children) and loads of families without homes, then it’s a problem.

Sadtosaythis · 07/05/2025 22:46

I grew up in council housing. My Dad worked three jobs, then had to retire early due to poor health and my Mom died so he had to look after me on his own. He still had to pay some rent although he got benefits. Then I left home and he lost some of them. As a very old pensioner he was still paying rent until he got very poorly and needed specialist dementia care. It’s not necessarily the golden ticket some people say it is. The golden ticket is being lucky enough to get on the housing ladder and pay a mortgage off by the time you’re not working anymore. I know this is slightly off topic but my point being that it’s not that great in later life.

CleverButScatty · 07/05/2025 22:43

Blongie · 06/05/2025 22:37

Yep. I live here too, see it with my own eyes. Basically social housing is a golden ticket and you have it for life. It’s completely a joke that it’s never reassessed- you could win the lottery and still have a rent controlled flat. This country is insane.

I think London is different... It's like an economy of its own compared to most of the UK.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/05/2025 22:43

Portakalkedi · 07/05/2025 19:39

I don't disagree with council housing but it should be means tested and reviewed every few years.. If circumstances have changed and you are then able to pay private rent then you should be made to leave Same with the single person hanging on to their 4 bedroom house,, needs to be a system of swapping for smaller property

There’s very few smaller properties though…

Wherewillitend25 · 07/05/2025 22:43

Fauxligarchy · 07/05/2025 22:26

This is correct! Finally! Social housing is not subsidised it’s only cheaper because there is no landlord making a profit from it, no one is getting anything for free.

What you are quoting literally refers to the subsidy. Tax payer money contributes to the construction of new social housing. And tax payer money, in the form of benefit does cover some or all of the rent for SOME social housing tenants.
And yes, some HAs do make a profit but it’s referred to as a “surplus”. I think it was £87m last year for Clarion, biggest HA in the UK.

OrwellianTimes · 07/05/2025 22:35

AirborneElephant · 06/05/2025 22:19

It is subsidised. Anything provided at below market rate is by definition subsidised. I strongly feel it should be reserved for those in need, particularly those who are working but can’t afford private rents. I think the fact that people can stay when they no longer need help or don’t need the space is appalling.

This is the problem. I’ve no issue with social housing for those that need it. I don’t think it’s right if someone gets social housing then gets a good job and can still stay in social housing.

OrwellianTimes · 07/05/2025 22:32

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/05/2025 22:13

How much cheaper?

In my area a 3 bed social housing is £170 per week
= £8,840 p/a

Cheapes 3 bed private rental is £1200 per month and they go within a day of being listed.
= £14,400 p/a

Fauxligarchy · 07/05/2025 22:26

crackofdoom · 07/05/2025 10:34

Currently, enough funds have been released to build 18,000 social homes. Which is....something, I suppose.

But I reiterate again: the state gives a small proportion of the money required to build new HA homes. The rest comes from existing rents. So, if you are a HA tenant, rather than your rent being subsidised by the HA, you are in fact subsidising new builds for the next generation of renters. It's a virtuous circle. Take profit out of the equation and everyone wins.

This is correct! Finally! Social housing is not subsidised it’s only cheaper because there is no landlord making a profit from it, no one is getting anything for free.

Fauxligarchy · 07/05/2025 22:24

MayMadness2025 · 07/05/2025 08:12

I was talking about movement from bigger to smaller social housing based on needs not on income. All social housing is subsidised by being cheaper than private sector rental. Not talking about income at all, just size of property to free up homes for families currently occupied by single people or a couple.

Social housing is not subsidised there’s jusy no landlords making a profit

x2boys · 07/05/2025 22:09

FedupofArsenalgame · 07/05/2025 22:00

Think there always has been one succession. But if a single parent is the tenant then and adult child could succeed if they were living there

Ok maybe but I don't think it's straightforward if they are not already on the tenancy

Yamyamabroad · 07/05/2025 22:08

Most tenancies nowadays allow succession to a spouse/partner in occupation but it's at the HAs discretion whether or not they allow a child or other family member to succeed.

FedupofArsenalgame · 07/05/2025 22:00

x2boys · 07/05/2025 21:47

Yeah it doesn't work that way anymore when I got a housing association house ten years ago it was made abundantly clear there is one succession of tenancy ,so I have a joint tenancy with my husband whoever dies first the surviving,partner inherits the tenancy as a single person ,neither of us can allow our children to.continue to inherit the tenancy

Think there always has been one succession. But if a single parent is the tenant then and adult child could succeed if they were living there

x2boys · 07/05/2025 21:47

Gabitule · 07/05/2025 21:32

I do agree with this, eligibility should be reassessed because, while a single mother escaping domestic violence should be considered ‘’in priority need’’ and be given social housing, when her children are grown up and she has a full time job she is no longer vulnerable.
What’s worse, social housing can pass to children (or other adults) when a social tenant passes away and I know a few such children wirh great jobs in the city who inherited 2-4 beds houses in central London. They can then buy the council houses with 1/3 discount….

Given that the country and especially London is so badly affected by homelessness, why did nobody think to change the law??

Yeah it doesn't work that way anymore when I got a housing association house ten years ago it was made abundantly clear there is one succession of tenancy ,so I have a joint tenancy with my husband whoever dies first the surviving,partner inherits the tenancy as a single person ,neither of us can allow our children to.continue to inherit the tenancy

minnienono · 07/05/2025 21:40

It varies quite a bit. Older housing stock often built in the 50’s and 60’s is good quality usually and whilst you do pay rent (or claim uc housing allowance) it was built on land allocated by councils so far cheaper than private. Housing association housing built more recently isn’t always that much cheaper because whilst the developers are made to include social housing, they do charge the housing associations for the land. Rents can be pretty high

x2boys · 07/05/2025 21:36

Newusername3kidss · 07/05/2025 21:33

Council housing is a lot cheaper than private renting.

Define alot?
Private rents have gone up in most areas of the UK
A few years ago.My social rent was comparable to private rent rent in the same area ,now I can see a difference but it certainly isn't double or treble it really is area dependent.

Newusername3kidss · 07/05/2025 21:33

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/05/2025 21:56

Yes people need telling

it’s not free or subsidised
its not even that cheap
you don’t need to move out at any point
most tenancies turn into lifetime tenancies
we can rattle around in our 3 bed houses long after the kids have left home

Council housing is a lot cheaper than private renting.

Gabitule · 07/05/2025 21:32

Blongie · 06/05/2025 22:37

Yep. I live here too, see it with my own eyes. Basically social housing is a golden ticket and you have it for life. It’s completely a joke that it’s never reassessed- you could win the lottery and still have a rent controlled flat. This country is insane.

I do agree with this, eligibility should be reassessed because, while a single mother escaping domestic violence should be considered ‘’in priority need’’ and be given social housing, when her children are grown up and she has a full time job she is no longer vulnerable.
What’s worse, social housing can pass to children (or other adults) when a social tenant passes away and I know a few such children wirh great jobs in the city who inherited 2-4 beds houses in central London. They can then buy the council houses with 1/3 discount….

Given that the country and especially London is so badly affected by homelessness, why did nobody think to change the law??

ArminTamzerian · 07/05/2025 21:27

Portakalkedi · 07/05/2025 19:39

I don't disagree with council housing but it should be means tested and reviewed every few years.. If circumstances have changed and you are then able to pay private rent then you should be made to leave Same with the single person hanging on to their 4 bedroom house,, needs to be a system of swapping for smaller property

This is a common but idiotic viewpoint.

So a person has a council house. Then they get a job (or a better job) and earn just enough.ti pay private rent. So you throw them out of their council house, away from their friends and family and the children move school. Then the landlord wants to sell, or the rent increases, they can't afford a new private rental and, oops, back on the housing list, in an expensive temporary b and b.

OR, more likely they don't take that job, or the better job, because what's the point? Why should they try when ambition just means they'll lose their home and have less money overall? Would you?

Plus you end up with a revolving door of tenants, no continuity, no pride or sense of community, no stability.

So short sighted. It's not the answer.

JenniferBooth · 07/05/2025 21:25

So how would you make them leave?