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To think that there is a misunderstanding about social housing.

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Bitchesbelike · 06/05/2025 21:50

On social media, lots of people assume that people in social / council housing are getting a free house and don’t work.

i grew up in social housing: my dad worked from age 15 to 65.

my brothers have worked since they were 16 and both live in social housing.

its not “free housing”: it’s rented, affordable accommodation.

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XenoBitch · 10/05/2025 23:11

User79853257976 · 10/05/2025 22:34

Well I don’t now I’ve been paying my mortgage for 12 years, no. Have I been able to replace my flooring? No. Have I done anything to the garden minus general upkeep? No. Did my boiler get replaced by the council when it broke? No, I had to put 3.5k on a credit card.

If your house is paid off though, you own it.
Someone in social housing does not own their home, they they have to supply wallpaper/paint, carpets, white goods. All those things are catered for in private rentals.

If you have a mortgage, you are not at threat of being evicted if you behave antisocially. You wont get evicted if you wont let contractors into your home. Social housing tenants have to be good all round people to stay where they are. People with mortgages don't have to behave a certain way to stay housed.

Poppyseeds79 · 10/05/2025 23:09

User79853257976 · 10/05/2025 22:34

Well I don’t now I’ve been paying my mortgage for 12 years, no. Have I been able to replace my flooring? No. Have I done anything to the garden minus general upkeep? No. Did my boiler get replaced by the council when it broke? No, I had to put 3.5k on a credit card.

Is that a race to the bottom comment? If so, you're still paying your mortgage off on a property you own. You're not paying rent on a HA one, and they do come with bare floors as even if the carpets are laid 5wks before they're still ripped out.

Also paying for a new boiler is a big red herring, as regardless of HA or private rental. Nobody is paying for a new boiler unless they have a mortgage. Plus of the HA/council do upkeep your garden they just run the sit on mowers over it. They're not popping round to plant pansies.

If you've shelled out 3.5k on a new boiler then that's because you're investing in the house you're paying for. Nobody renting regardless of circumstances is going to be doing that are they? It's not like they'll take it with them when they move.

User79853257976 · 10/05/2025 22:34

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 10/05/2025 22:01

ignorant yes. Do you have the £1000’s to hand for a deposit and advance rent for a private rental?

no

and what about the money I’ve spent on my HA home? Upgrades,flooring,garden,decorating,minor repairs?? Do I get reimbursed?

but it’s pointless worrying because I DO still need the tenancy so I will remain

Well I don’t now I’ve been paying my mortgage for 12 years, no. Have I been able to replace my flooring? No. Have I done anything to the garden minus general upkeep? No. Did my boiler get replaced by the council when it broke? No, I had to put 3.5k on a credit card.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 10/05/2025 22:01

User79853257976 · 10/05/2025 21:50

Ignorant of what? Staying in council house you no longer need is ignorant of the housing crisis.

ignorant yes. Do you have the £1000’s to hand for a deposit and advance rent for a private rental?

no

and what about the money I’ve spent on my HA home? Upgrades,flooring,garden,decorating,minor repairs?? Do I get reimbursed?

but it’s pointless worrying because I DO still need the tenancy so I will remain

TankFlyBossW4lk · 10/05/2025 22:01

DancingLions · 09/05/2025 14:00

The argument that "other people need it more" really doesn't hold water. There are people using food banks every day. Do the high earners among you make massive donations to them because hey other people need it more right? Sure you might pass over a few cans now and then so you can feel you're doing something but would you actually sacrifice your own lifestyle to feed the hungry? Because that's what you're suggesting current SH tenants do.

You're saying that they should be put in a worse position because there's people who are even worse off. Well unless you donate every penny over and above what you need to survive, you can shut up quite frankly! Because you're not practising what you preach.

There are ALWAYS people worse off in this world. But 99% of people put their own families first. They might donate a little surplus if they have it but they make sure their own are taken care of. That's all SH tenants are doing. It's irrelevant who owns the house on paper. When a tenancy agreement is signed it is legally binding. We aren't breaking any rules. You can argue its not "fair". Well I think lots of things aren't fair, that's life!

I don't think this makes sense to me really. The funds for social housing come from taxation. It's a limited pot we all contribute to. We are not suggesting people give up their own personal funds over and above the taxes they pay.

TankFlyBossW4lk · 10/05/2025 21:51

Glitchymn1 · 06/05/2025 22:18

How old are your brothers now OP?

If a single 18 year old boy registered as homeless /in need of housing they wouldn’t get a look in these days. They’d be lucky to get a room in a hostel.

So, this is the problem isn't it. I love the idea of social housing but if it's not accessible for the people coming after those "rattling around our 3 bedroom house" it's irrelevant if it's paid for, partially paid for etc etc. Whatever it is, it's subsidised. If it's not available equally, which it's not now, it's unfair. Lots of people in private housing expect to move in their lifetime, it isn't ok that an 18, 20 or 30 year old boy now doesn't have the same access those before him had. It needs to be distributed fairly.

User79853257976 · 10/05/2025 21:50

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/05/2025 22:23

I have….but nobody was forcing me

but that’s not actually as easy as it sounds. A flippant ‘downsize then’ comment like that is quite ignorant

Ignorant of what? Staying in council house you no longer need is ignorant of the housing crisis.

XenoBitch · 10/05/2025 21:39

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 10/05/2025 21:34

My HA don’t move you out if under occupying….its not a thing. Never heard of that before

What if she doesn’t engage with the ‘moving out’? If her tenancy is a lifetime tenancy ( like mine, so no, I’m not moving out because I have a spare room now) they cannot force her

My parent's HA offered them money to move.... but there was nowhere for them to move.

BoredZelda · 10/05/2025 21:35

Wacqui · 07/05/2025 00:33

So if people get a job, they lose their home?

I don't think that's going to work.

I’m all for shorter council house tenancies. I think a lifetime tenancy where there is a shortage of council houses is necessary. I’d favour a five year tenancy. After 5 years you have to re-apply for your home and you are assessed on the points you have now, not the points you had when you started. For example, if you need a large home because you have 3 kids and they all move out, you are given a smaller home. If you increase your salary and can afford to buy, your point score is lower so you may not have your tenancy renewed, but - you are given an incentive such as the deposit for a new home. 3 tenancies and you’re back to the bottom of the list (could be 5, if I’m in a generous mood) There would be exemption for low paid public sector workers.

The point of social housing was to help people improve their situation. It’s too easy to do that and still benefit from social housing when you can afford to pay privately. I don’t begrudge paying tax to subsidise housing for those who need it, but I do begrudge paying it for people who have lived in social housing for 20 years and are earning above the average wage.

Whether it is HA or Council run, this housing is subsidised in some way. Councils may not give money directly to housing associations but they do offer land deals to these organisations. The Council will sell a site at below market value. That is money that isn’t coming in to the council’s finances. Where a private developer is building affordable homes, the council uses that as planning gain instead of other aspects such as improving infrastructure, building schools etc. Again that’s money the council is having to pay elsewhere. They offer grants and matched funding in some instances.

The private property market isn’t particularly lucrative on its own, market rents aren’t generally inflated that much. Housing associations can offer lower rents because their costs of building are reduced. The spec of housing association homes is lower, generally, and their land costs are often very low.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 10/05/2025 21:34

My HA don’t move you out if under occupying….its not a thing. Never heard of that before

What if she doesn’t engage with the ‘moving out’? If her tenancy is a lifetime tenancy ( like mine, so no, I’m not moving out because I have a spare room now) they cannot force her

JenniferBooth · 10/05/2025 21:10

Pepperpotladles · 10/05/2025 21:07

Er, yes you do need to move out of a 3 bed semi after k8ds have moved out.
My DM has been told she has to downsize now me and sibling have moved out.
She's been told house is needed for families.
What she's being offered by the council to live in instead of her 3 bed semi house that she's lived in for 25 years and maintained beautifully is bloody horrible, miniscule and depressing.

One bedroom flat in a tower block? What does her tenancy agreement say?

Pepperpotladles · 10/05/2025 21:07

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 06/05/2025 21:56

Yes people need telling

it’s not free or subsidised
its not even that cheap
you don’t need to move out at any point
most tenancies turn into lifetime tenancies
we can rattle around in our 3 bed houses long after the kids have left home

Er, yes you do need to move out of a 3 bed semi after k8ds have moved out.
My DM has been told she has to downsize now me and sibling have moved out.
She's been told house is needed for families.
What she's being offered by the council to live in instead of her 3 bed semi house that she's lived in for 25 years and maintained beautifully is bloody horrible, miniscule and depressing.

Bushmillsbabe · 10/05/2025 21:01

XenoBitch · 10/05/2025 20:32

What about the people who could increase their earnings, but choose not to?

That's pretty hard to measure/evaluate. There could be very reasonable reasons why someone doesn't increase their earnings, such as only being able to work certain hours due to childcare, a disability meaning they may struggle to increase their hours. Or it may be that just can't be bothered.

XenoBitch · 10/05/2025 20:32

Bushmillsbabe · 10/05/2025 20:27

If they were unable to increase their earnings they presumably wouldn't be over the threshold for social housing.

What about the people who could increase their earnings, but choose not to?

Bushmillsbabe · 10/05/2025 20:27

XenoBitch · 09/05/2025 19:29

What about working age people who are not increasing their earnings?

If they were unable to increase their earnings they presumably wouldn't be over the threshold for social housing.

sashh · 10/05/2025 07:43

ArminTamzerian · 08/05/2025 13:37

Thing is, why would you bother to retrain or educate yourself, and get a good job, knowing that as soon as you do you will lose your home, your security, and totally upend your life?

Where's the incentive?

Add to that, my HA home is built for people with disabilities. If I move out because I have bought somewhere I would need to retrofit everything that is already here, the wide doorways, high up plug sockets, low down light switches, flat entrance / exit.

There is money available from the government for that but why should taxpayers pay when I am currently adequately housed.

I do however think that if you have received HB or UC housing element if you buy a HA or council property that should be added on to the cost. Actually I'm not sure you should be able to buy HA/council properties but as you can then it should not be subsidised as much as it is.

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/05/2025 23:13

XenoBitch · 09/05/2025 23:09

Yep, I don't understand how anyone can think someone in social housing would give it up to go into the private rental sector.

Exactly, couldn't afford it anyway.

XenoBitch · 09/05/2025 23:09

Youagain2025 · 09/05/2025 21:48

Just answering in general. Private landlords have been evicting families left right and centre. Under section 21. Someone could end up in temporary accommodation for a long time. Find a private rent be there a year or 2 then go through the same thing all over again. Sometimes it's worth the long process to get secure long term housing.

Yep, I don't understand how anyone can think someone in social housing would give it up to go into the private rental sector.

Poppyseeds79 · 09/05/2025 22:00

Pistachioitaliano · 09/05/2025 21:34

If so social housing isn't subsidised why do did you go through that long process? Surely private rental would have been much quicker and less stress.

I've been down both roads and the upheaval of moving from rental to rental isn't fun. Add in most places won't accept pets, you can't paint walls/or even put pictures up, on edge in case something gets split on carpets with kids, waiting on white goods repairs if not your own stuff. Landlords deciding to sell, rent hikes.

Obviously the main issue is never feeling settled and like it's your own home. Which is fine when you're happy to move around more I guess, less so when you want to feel you can paint your kids room the colour of their choice, or be able to spend money on furniture without worrying will you have to get rid if it won't fit the next rental.

Youagain2025 · 09/05/2025 21:48

Pistachioitaliano · 09/05/2025 21:34

If so social housing isn't subsidised why do did you go through that long process? Surely private rental would have been much quicker and less stress.

Just answering in general. Private landlords have been evicting families left right and centre. Under section 21. Someone could end up in temporary accommodation for a long time. Find a private rent be there a year or 2 then go through the same thing all over again. Sometimes it's worth the long process to get secure long term housing.

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/05/2025 21:39

Pistachioitaliano · 09/05/2025 21:34

If so social housing isn't subsidised why do did you go through that long process? Surely private rental would have been much quicker and less stress.

I'm talking 27 years ago, not many private rental then.

NotRightNowPlease · 09/05/2025 21:36

ARichtGoodDram · 06/05/2025 22:42

That depends on how much of it there is.

Where I have my rental properties there has been a shed load of house building by three HAs

Private rents have come down considerably due to their being less demand for it because of all the new HA stock.

It's also meant a lot of the shit landlords have sold up because there is no demand for their properties as rentals.

It's been a great thing for the area.

Sorry, could I ask a rough indication of where this is please? Feel free to pm if you'd rather not say on here. Thanks

Pistachioitaliano · 09/05/2025 21:34

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/05/2025 20:58

Because they do, even I had to many moons ago. Was on the housing list for 5 years. Priority back then been made homeless with a baby and landlord selling up.

If so social housing isn't subsidised why do did you go through that long process? Surely private rental would have been much quicker and less stress.

XenoBitch · 09/05/2025 21:10

Youagain2025 · 09/05/2025 20:54

I agree also private renters can be evicted. It happend twice to me under section 21. Both times ended up homeless /temporary accommodation. I would never ever go private again.

Yes, my DP was too under section 21 as his flat was sold to a new landlord who wanted to turn it into a HMO. It took my DP several months to find somewhere else to live. His new landlord even offered him a sum of money to move out ASAP but there was just nowhere for him to go. The private rental market is pretty dire too. About 30 people interested in each property.

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/05/2025 20:58

blubbyblub · 09/05/2025 20:51

If it’s not subsidised then what is it? Why do people have to get on a list and qualify for a council house if it’s not cheaper than market rate rentals?

Because they do, even I had to many moons ago. Was on the housing list for 5 years. Priority back then been made homeless with a baby and landlord selling up.