Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To retaliate against my neighbours

30 replies

Hocuspoc · 06/05/2025 14:27

We have a leak in my child's bedroom and the source is a very old bathroom in the flat above, no tiles on the floor, no appropriate insulation etc...
We all share freehold in this building but they just refuse to fix things properly. To be specific - they pretend they are forthcoming and 'react' immediately but their fixes are in fact patches and the water just finds another way to come to the lowest point below their bathroom.
Now, I understand that redoing a bathroom is currently extortionate in terms of costs, and that they simply may not have money to tile and insulate it properly (although they don't say that they just keep pretending they fixed it properly 'this time around').
We have repainted the ceiling 3 times in the past 9 months - and yet again the wet patch and separation of the plaster boards is emerging :(((

At this point all I can think of is being petty and essentially start to retaliate against their property - I have a couple of ideas but I am aware that would be really petty childish etc...

OP posts:
Paintsplatters · 06/05/2025 14:36

Well retaliation would be criminal damage as opposed to negligence…

Hocuspoc · 06/05/2025 14:35

JohnofWessex · 06/05/2025 14:32

Dont give them the satisfaction.

Have a good look at the lease and enforce the conditions - are you the only leaseholders?

We all own a share of freehold. We have building insurance. But no building insurance covers for a bathroom that is simply old and not maintained. Afaik

OP posts:
JohnofWessex · 06/05/2025 14:32

Dont give them the satisfaction.

Have a good look at the lease and enforce the conditions - are you the only leaseholders?

HappiestSleeping · 06/05/2025 14:31

This assumes the neighbours have insurance.

Freeasa · 06/05/2025 14:29

Hocuspoc · 06/05/2025 14:27

We have a leak in my child's bedroom and the source is a very old bathroom in the flat above, no tiles on the floor, no appropriate insulation etc...
We all share freehold in this building but they just refuse to fix things properly. To be specific - they pretend they are forthcoming and 'react' immediately but their fixes are in fact patches and the water just finds another way to come to the lowest point below their bathroom.
Now, I understand that redoing a bathroom is currently extortionate in terms of costs, and that they simply may not have money to tile and insulate it properly (although they don't say that they just keep pretending they fixed it properly 'this time around').
We have repainted the ceiling 3 times in the past 9 months - and yet again the wet patch and separation of the plaster boards is emerging :(((

At this point all I can think of is being petty and essentially start to retaliate against their property - I have a couple of ideas but I am aware that would be really petty childish etc...

I’d claim on your insurance. Your insurers will make sure the neighbour’s insurers pay up.