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To think “d”p doesn’t care ?

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TheThreeMiracles · 06/05/2025 13:57

im 34 weeks pregnant and baby was quiet this morning ( but has moved loads since I messaged partner ) I messaged partner and said I needed to be taken over to be monitored hospital is 40 mins away I have no car until Thursday as my brakes need doing and it’s not safe to drive! Hence why I’m asking him for a lift ( just for context ) he’s just had a right moan at me and said ill have to wait and he’ll take me at 5.30 when his work is done for the day ! AIBU to think he’s not really that bothered and doesn’t care ?
just for context our 2nd baby had reduced movements days before he was born and I asked him to stay home with our eldest child whilst I went to hospital and he stormed out to football and told me I was being selfish and doing it out of spite to make him miss football ! He didn’t miss his football I took my dd to hospital with me left at 7.30 and didn’t get home till midnight on a school night - was sent for a scan and got admitted straight away as I had too much fluid and baby was transverse! He’s not taken any thing from that experience ! AIBU to just say he clearly doesn’t care ?

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HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 06/05/2025 14:09

What @HuffleMyPufflesaid

But, more practically in the here and now, to answer your question: no, he doesn’t care.

And it doesn’t sound like he ever will.

HuffleMyPuffle · 06/05/2025 14:05

You had a 3rd baby with a man who cared so little when having your 2nd?