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I'm a stuck up bitch , want to know why?

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Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 19:28

So I've been seeing a bloke , was set up through a friend (it's her brother)
Couple of dates, good so far. Tonight the plan was for me to drop in on him , pick him up for a dog walk (I'm dog sitting at mo)
I get there, he invites me in, the house STINKS. The curtains are shut, but it's not messy or anything. It must have shown on my face (it was very strong) He then said the romantic words all women want to hear "I just love sitting at home farting"
I thought he was joking, he wasn't. Because I thought that was grim, I am a stuck up batch apparently.

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S0j0urn4r · 05/05/2025 20:53

Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:27

We are both mid 40s!

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Was honestly thinking 18 - 22.
He's disgusting.

Newnameforaday88 · 05/05/2025 20:53

Huh!! Wonder why he’s single…what a catch!

bluesinthenight · 05/05/2025 20:53

Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:27

We are both mid 40s!

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That's young to me.

VWT5 · 05/05/2025 20:51

Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:06

Ugh well at least he keeps the curtains closed. Strange.

If the curtains are closed - he is also doing more than farting 🤣

Someone2025 · 05/05/2025 20:51

Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 19:28

So I've been seeing a bloke , was set up through a friend (it's her brother)
Couple of dates, good so far. Tonight the plan was for me to drop in on him , pick him up for a dog walk (I'm dog sitting at mo)
I get there, he invites me in, the house STINKS. The curtains are shut, but it's not messy or anything. It must have shown on my face (it was very strong) He then said the romantic words all women want to hear "I just love sitting at home farting"
I thought he was joking, he wasn't. Because I thought that was grim, I am a stuck up batch apparently.

Gross….his comments are also a turn off, he’s looking for a woman who is on his level so she won’t comment on his pig like behaviour…..

Surely you won’t be seeing him again?

Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:51

Dweetfidilove · 05/05/2025 20:50

Surely his sister knows the kind of fart he is. I'd be having words with her 😳.

Maybe it’s accepted in her family.

Dweetfidilove · 05/05/2025 20:50

Surely his sister knows the kind of fart he is. I'd be having words with her 😳.

TheGhostOfPatButcher · 05/05/2025 20:49

If that's after two short dates, imagine what he'd be like after twenty years. 😳

Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:45

It would make a good channel 5 show Farty loving Brits behind curtains

MyKingdomForACat · 05/05/2025 20:44

Gross

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 05/05/2025 20:42

SquashedMallow · 05/05/2025 20:34

I mean, I couldn't really care less if someone is farting In their own home . I don't think I'd have bought it up as a "thing" on entering the house. If he sat there letting rip in front of you with his legs wide open when he hadn't known you that long, bit different. But you walked in his home and made a comment in disgust at the smell of his farts. Bit neurotic after 2 dates.

However, calling you a stuck up bitch is a abusive. That is unacceptable. I'd be telling your friend. A man that speaks like that to a woman he barely knows is not a good man.

Neurotic? You have got to be kidding.

Original poster
Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:41

ChompandaGrazia · 05/05/2025 20:41

So it was his sister that set you up? Are you going to mention this to her?

Definitely!!!

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ChompandaGrazia · 05/05/2025 20:41

So it was his sister that set you up? Are you going to mention this to her?

Christwosheds · 05/05/2025 20:40

Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:27

We are both mid 40s!

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Oh my Lord. Well he’s going to stay single …

IberianBlackout · 05/05/2025 20:40

Babe this was your lucky escape
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Bluesandwhites · 05/05/2025 20:39

OP, I laughed when I read your post, but would laugh on the other side of my face if I had entered this "man's" house. Maybe it was a test, to see how much you would put up with, which has failed, thank goodness.

AngelicKaty · 05/05/2025 20:39

Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:36

At Least he’s cleared the air now and you can part ways.

😂 If he'd "cleared the air" OP might still be dating him!

Original poster
Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:38

He mentioned the smell, in reaction to seeing my face

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Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:37

I can smell it myself Envy

Butteredtoast55 · 05/05/2025 20:36

I like to imagine it fainted 😂

Deboh · 05/05/2025 20:36

At Least he’s cleared the air now and you can part ways.

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Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:36

SquashedMallow · 05/05/2025 20:34

I mean, I couldn't really care less if someone is farting In their own home . I don't think I'd have bought it up as a "thing" on entering the house. If he sat there letting rip in front of you with his legs wide open when he hadn't known you that long, bit different. But you walked in his home and made a comment in disgust at the smell of his farts. Bit neurotic after 2 dates.

However, calling you a stuck up bitch is a abusive. That is unacceptable. I'd be telling your friend. A man that speaks like that to a woman he barely knows is not a good man.

Not in the slightest neurotic. It was honking in there and obvious that it was. I didn't immediately bring it up

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MyLegoHair · 05/05/2025 20:36

Why are you posting on mn and not still running to put as much distance as possible between you and this creature?!

Deckings · 05/05/2025 20:36

Changedusernameforthis2 · 05/05/2025 20:27

We are both mid 40s!

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So grim.

SquashedMallow · 05/05/2025 20:34

I mean, I couldn't really care less if someone is farting In their own home . I don't think I'd have bought it up as a "thing" on entering the house. If he sat there letting rip in front of you with his legs wide open when he hadn't known you that long, bit different. But you walked in his home and made a comment in disgust at the smell of his farts. Bit neurotic after 2 dates.

However, calling you a stuck up bitch is a abusive. That is unacceptable. I'd be telling your friend. A man that speaks like that to a woman he barely knows is not a good man.